Umxholo
Ngaba uziva ublues ebusika? Ngaba ubudlelwane bakho buziva buthuntu? Kukho indlela esebenzayo, ekhawulezayo nesimahla yokunonga ubomi bakho kunye nolwalamano lwakho:
Umbulelo wemihla ngemihla kunye noxabiso
Ndiyazi ukuba umbulelo lilizwi elisetyenzisiweyo mva nje, kodwa ndiyakuqinisekisa ukuba ilifanele lonke ibuzz eliyifumanayo.
Izifundo ezininzi zophando ngoku zibonisa ukuba ukuziqhelanisa nokubulela yonke imihla kuphucula ukuzithemba kwakho, ukoneliseka bubomi, intlalo-ntle iyonke kunye nokunciphisa imeko yokudakumba. Kodwa ayisiyiyo yonke loo nto! Into eyaziwayo kancinci yomlingo wokubulela ziziphumo zayo kubudlelwane bezothando.
Masijongane nayo, uninzi lwethu lulungile ekuqapheleni xa iqabane lakho lisenza into engathandekiyo okanye ecaphukisayo. Asinangxaki yokubalisa oku kuphazamiseka kubahlobo nakwintsapho yethu okanye ngqo kwiqabane lethu.
Kwiikontraka:
- Kukangaphi sisabelana ngezinto ezincinci zemihla ngemihla ezihamba kakuhle kubudlelwane bethu nabanye?
- Kukangaphi sikhe siyeke ukuziva sinombulelo ngesenzo esilula seqabane lethu sobubele njengokupakisha isidlo sasemini okanye ukusikhwelisa siye emsebenzini?
- Kwaye sihlala siyiguqula kangaphi loo mvakalelo ngamagama?
Ukuba uphendula kule mibuzo ikumgca we - andikhumbuli okanye hayi rhoqo- lixesha lokuba uqale ngokwenza!
'Zizinto ezincinci: Umbulelo wemihla ngemihla njengesixhobo sokudibanisa ubudlelwane bezothando' nguAlgoe, S.A, Gable, S.L. & Maisel, NC, ibonisa ukuba umbulelo ekuphenduleni kwizenzo zobubele uxele kwangaphambili ukwanda konxibelelwano kunye nolwaneliseko lobuhlobo ngosuku olulandelayo. Kwaye le mpembelelo yabonwa kuwo omabini amaqabane, umntu ofumene isenzo sobubele kunye nomntu osandisileyo.
Uphando lukwabonisa ukuba amava ombulelo nawo asenza ukuba sikwazi ukunceda amaqabane ethu, nokuba ayisiyongxaki leyo kuthi. Kananjalo, njengoko sibanceda ukuba baphume, izenzo zethu zikhuthaza imvakalelo yombulelo kubo, nto leyo ebenza ukuba babe nethuba lokuvuleka kwaye babe nobubele kuthi. Kwaye umjikelo uyaqhubeka nokwenza umbulelo ngowona mdala wentlalontle kunye nothando.
Ke kwixesha elizayo xa ufuna ukongeza i-oomph kubudlelwane bakho? Zama ukuguqula izihlunu zakho zombulelo.
Nazi iingcebiso ezimbalwa:
- Nika ingqalelo kwizinto ezincinci ezenziwa liqabane lakho.
- Qaphela, nqumama, kwaye ube namava afudumeleyo ombulelo.
- Veza uxabiso kwiqabane lakho mzuzu okanye kamva kwangolo suku lizayo.
- Ungayibonisa buqu, ngokubhaliweyo okanye ngomnxeba. Ukuba emntwini, zama ukudibana namehlo kwaye ungeze ukubamba okungokwasemzimbeni kwisiphumo sobudlelwane obulungileyo.
- Ukonwabela izibonelelo ezizeleyo, ziqhelise rhoqo kwaye ukwenze umkhwa wakho.
Kunye nokuzama, uya kufumana isitayile sakho kunye nefom yokubonisa umbulelo rhoqo kulwalamano lwakho. Umzekelo, mna neqabane lam sinesiko lokuya kulala ngaphambi kokuba sabelane ngezinto ezintlanu esinombulelo kuzo kubudlelwane bethu bosuku. Yindlela elungileyo kuthi yokuqhagamshela kunye nokuphelisa usuku ngenqaku elifanelekileyo.
Yithi enkosi!
Umbulelo yindlela esebenzayo nexabisekileyo yokubuyisa intlantsi kubudlelwane bakho, ke musa ukulibala ukuqala ukuthi Enkosi namhlanje! Ukuba unobunzima ekufumaneni isiqhelo sombulelo wakho rhoqo okanye uziva unamathele, nxibelelana nam ukuze uthethe-thethane simahla kwihlabathi lam liphela, kwinkonzo yenkxaso kwi-Intanethi, Unyango lweExpat kunye neViktoria.