Njengokuba ukuseka nokugcina ulwalamano oluhle, umtshato oqinileyo ibingenguye umceli mngeni omkhulu uwedwa, ukujika okungalindelekanga kweziganeko ezivela ngaphandle kunokucinezela nezona zibini zomeleleyo. Umzekelo, kukho isibini esivela eAlaska endisibonileyo kwi-Intanethi ngeSkype phantse unyaka ngoku, abaye bacelwa umngeni zizinto ezibalulekileyo zangaphandle.
Nali ibali labo kunye nendlela abasebenzisane ngayo ekuncedeni omnye wabatshati ukuba boyise ngengozi.
UHanna noJason (ayingawo amagama abo okwenyani), isibini esikwiminyaka engamashumi amane ubudala, sinabantwana ababini abafikisayo emva kwexesha. UHanna usebenza kwinkampani yophuhliso lwesoftware, kwaye uJason ngumlawuli wecandelo lenkampani yamandla ombane.
Esi sibini siye sanamahla ndinyuka kodwa ubukhulu becala, bathi basebenze kwiiyantlukwano zabo kwimicimbi enje ngemali kunye nohlahlo-lwabiwo mali, iindlela zokukhulisa abantwana, kunye nokujongana nokulindelwe ngabazala, ngempumelelo enkulu. Bona kunye nosapho lwabo bebeqhuba kakuhle ngokubanzi.
Yonke into yatshintsha xa uHanna efowunelwa yi-ofisi yenkampani yamandla eyazisa uHanna ukuba uJason ufumene ingozi emsebenzini, wawa kwisikafula, wabalekiselwa esibhedlele yi-ambulensi.
UHanna washiya iofisi yakhe kwangoko waya kwigumbi elingxamisekileyo. Xa ekugqibeleni wafumana ulwazi kubasebenzi bexesha likaxakeka, waxelelwa ukuba uJason wenzakele kakhulu egxalabeni, kodwa kwakungekho mathambo aphukileyo. Bafuna ukumgcina esibhedlele iintsuku ezimbalwa, emva koko agoduke.
UHanna wayexolile kwaye wafumana u-Jason onombulelo xa babethetha, bobabini bethetha ukuba zinokuba mbi kangakanani na iziphumo zokuwa kakhulu.
Ingxaki yayikukuba ukwenzakala kwamagxa kwamshiya uJason enezinye iintlungu eziqhubekayo. Ugqirha wakhe wamisela uhlobo oluthile lwamayeza opioid okwethutyana, kunye nokuya kwiklinikhi ye-physiotherapy.
UJason ebengekho emsebenzini iinyanga ezininzi, nanjengoko ukwenzakala kwakhe kwamenza ukuba angasebenzi okwethutyana. Akubanga thuba lide ngaphambi kokuba uJason abuyele kugqirha wakhe ekhalaza ukuba amayeza eentlungu awasebenzi kakuhle kwaye wayebandezeleka. Ugqirha uphendule ngokwandisa idosi yamayeza eentlungu.
Njengokuba iiveki zidlulile, uHanna uthi uJason wayeziva edandathekile kwaye enomsindo, engenamonde ebantwaneni, kwaye, ngamagama akhe "luhlobo lwebhere yokuhlala naye."
Emva koko, wafumanisa ukuba uJason wayezilinganisa kabini kwaye ephelelwa ziipilisi ngaphambi kokuba atyelelwe ngugqirha. Uye wambuza ngalento kwaye impendulo kaJason ibingathi "ndisezintlungwini, kwaye andinakukunceda xa ndifuna ngaphezulu."
UJason wayelixhoba lokusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi.
Okubi nangakumbi, uJason waqala ukuthenga iipilisi kwintengiso emnyama. UHanna wayecaphukile. Wachaza kuJason indlela oku okuyingozi ngayo kwaye ngekhe wazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba unokuthenga ntoni okanye ukuba la machiza anokumenzakalisa okanye ade ambulale!
Ekugqibeleni, uHanna wafuna ukudibana nogqirha neso sibini kwaye bathetha ngokukhululekileyo naye. Ugqirha wacacisa indlela awayeziva ngayo xa ebophelelekile kwizigulana zakhe eziqaqanjelwa.
Abaninzi kubo babephethwe zintlungu, I-opiates zihlala zineempawu zokunciphisa iintlungu, kodwa wayesazi kakuhle ukuba babelikhoboka.
Wavuma ukudibana noJason rhoqo kwaye wambeka kwinkqubo ye-corticosteroids, iziyobisi ezichasayo kunye nezinye iyeza ezichasayo. Isicwangciso yayikukuba ngokuthe ngcembe uJason ayeke iiopioid kwaye amncede oyise iziyobisi ngengozi.
Le ndlela isebenze kwinqanaba elithile, nangona uJason waqhatha amaxesha ambalwa ngokufumana iipilisi kwintengiso emnyama kwakhona. Njengokuba uHanna wayezama ukuba nomonde kunye nokuqonda, umtshato wabo wawunengxaki kwaye babengaziva besondele. UJason wayezama kodwa esokola.
Ngalo lonke ixesha lokuqhubeka kwesi sibini, imithetho malunga nokufumaneka kwentsangu nokuzonwabisa yayitshintsha eAlaska. UHanna wenze uphando kwi-Intanethi kwaye wagqiba kwelokuba esi sibini kufuneka sidibane nogqirha ogxile ekusetyenzisweni kwentsangu kulawulo lweentlungu. Wayengaziva ukuba uJason wayekulawula ngokupheleleyo ukumiswa kweeopioid konke oko.
Babona ugqirha 'wentsangu' kwaye wamisela into ebizwa ngokuba yi-CBD yeoyile. Le yi-cannabidiol, evela kwisityalo se-marijuana kodwa ayenzi nto iphakamileyo okanye naluphi na uhlobo lokunxila. Wayecinga ukuba oku kungamnceda uJason ngolawulo lwentlungu yakhe, okanye ubuncinci kunciphise ukudumba kuye.
UJason wabaleka esi sicwangciso esidlulileyo kugqirha wakhe wesiqhelo kwaye wayekhwele.
Kwenye yeeseshoni zethu ezikwi-Intanethi, uHanna uxele utshintsho olukhulu kuJason. Wayonwabe kakhulu kwaye onwabile kuba wayefumene iiopioid kwaye wayethembele kwioyile ye-CBD kwaye eqhubeka namanye amayeza awayesetyenziswa ngugqirha naye.
Izinto zibonakala zibuyela esiqhelweni xa umnxeba uvela kuHanna ucela iseshoni yengcebiso engxamisekileyo yokulwa nokusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi.
Xa beza kwiscreen seSkype, uJason wayebonakala edanile kwaye uHanna ekhangeleka enomsindo. Wachaza ukuba ngenye imini wayebuyile evela emsebenzini wafika uJason kwigaraji awayeyibiza ngokuba “lilifu lomsi.” UJason ucacisile ukuba nangona ebephumelela kumlo wokulwa neepilisi, ebesaziva edandathekile.
Wayesithi uye kwivenkile ethengisa intsangu wathenga uhlobo lwentsangu oluqhelekileyo nolungelulo olonyango, waqala ngalo ukutshaya xa uHanna wayesemsebenzini. Kwamenza waziva engcono ngokwemo yakhe.
“Kulungile,” watsho uHanna, “kodwa ikwenza urhoxe. Awukho kum kunye nosapho xa uphakamile, kwaye andiyithandi loo nto. ”
Ndibuze uJason ukuba utshaya kangaphi, wathi uyenza yonke imihla. Ndambuza nokuba angabona njani ukuba phezulu, nangona kunokuphucula imeko yakhe, kumsuse kusapho kuye.
Wavuma.
Emva koko uHanna wacaphuka. “Jason, ndihambe nawe endleleni yokwenzakala kwakho, ukusebenzisa kwakho iziyobisi ngugqirha, kwaye ngoku ufuna ukubanakho ukuphakama kwaye ujonge nanini na ufuna? Andiqinisekanga ukuba ndiyilungele le nto. ”
UJason wabuza: “Uthini na wena, ukuba uza kundishiya?”
UHanna: “Andazi. Nam ndinestress uyazi. Ukutshaya akukho nto ndifuna ukuyenza njengomzekelo wabantwana bethu njengendlela yokusombulula iingxaki. ”
Ndibuze uJason ukuba angathini kuHanna ukuqinisekisa ukuba uyaziqonda iimvakalelo zakhe.
“Ndiyayifumana, Hanna. Ulungile. Ubunam yonke indlela kwaye ndiyazi ukuba bekungekho lula. Mane uhambe nam kule nto inde, kwaye ndiyakwenza konke endinako ukuba ngumyeni notata endandikade ndinguye. Ndizama njengesihogo ukutshintsha. Nceda uhlale nam,
Ndiphantse ndafika. ”
UHanna uthe uzakuzama.
Ndisibuzile isibini ukuba singavumelana ngesixa esimiselweyo sokutya kwakhe iziyobisi, apho uJason angatshaya khona ukuba unqwenela, kodwa ngendlela encinci.
UJason uthe ukuba angatshaya eyedwa ngokuhlwa ngeveki, uyakuqinisekisa uHanna ukuba uyakusigcina eso sivumelwano kwaye enze yonke imizamo yokubakho kuye nakusapho lonke ixesha.
Ndikwasicelile esi sibini ukuba singabonelela ngemfundo malunga nalo mbandela uphelele ebantwaneni babo kuba ngokuqinisekileyo bayazibuza ukuba kutheni utata esiya egaraji ngokuhlwa nje, malunga nokusetyenziswa kwentsangu, kunye nemicimbi efana nokudakumba.
UHanna wayengonwabanga ncam ngeli lungiselelo lokulalanisa, kodwa ngenxa yokuba uJason wayesenza kakuhle engazisebenzisi iipilisi, kwaye ngenxa yesithembiso sakhe sokubuyela kusapho, wayeza kuzama.
Emva kwenyanga ezintathu ukuya kwezintandathu, esi sibini sinika ingxelo yokuphuculwa okuninzi.UJason ubuyile emsebenzini, iintlungu ziphantse zaphela, kwaye nokutshaya kwakhe intsangu kuye kwaba ngamaxesha athile. UHanna uxela ukuba uJason ubuyile "naye" kunye nosapho kwaye uyavuya ukumbuyisa.
Ndisincomile esi sibini sikhaliphileyo ngokungqina ngokuchasene nokusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi kwaye ngoku bayekile ukululekwa. Siza kujonga kwinyanga ezintandathu ukusukela ngoku.
Amaxesha ayatshintsha, andithi?