Umxholo
- Inkcazo yokungathembeki
- Kutheni izinto zenzeka
- Ukufumanisa umcimbi
- Ukulungisa umtshato oqhekekileyo
- Songa
Iingxaki zomtshato zinokubangela iintlungu kwaye zonakalise, nto leyo eya kuthi, iwuphazamise umtshato wakho. Nangona kunjalo, xa nobabini nidibene kunye ukuze nivelise iyantlukwano yenu, umtshato wenu unokuphila kwaye uphinde womelele.
Inkcazo yokungathembeki
Ngoku, akukho nkcazo isemgangathweni yegama lokungathembeki, kwaye intsingiselo inokwahluka komnye umntu uye komnye phakathi kwamaqabane.
Umzekelo, ungalujonga unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo ngaphandle kokungathembeki emzimbeni? Kuthekani ngolwalamano oluqala kwi-Intanethi? Ke ngoko, amaqabane kufuneka abenentsingiselo yegama elithi ukukopa.
Kutheni izinto zenzeka
Usenokuzibuza. Ngaba umtshato uhlala emva kokuthandana? Ngaphandle kokuba uyazi izinto ezibangela ukungathembeki, lo mbuzo awunakuphendulwa.
Kukho iitoni zezinto ezinokukhokelela kukungathembeki kwaye into emangazayo kukuba ayibhekiseli kwisini. Apha ngezantsi zizizathu zokuba kutheni izinto zenzeka:
- Ukungabikho kothando. Awuva ngathi unothando kwiqabane lakho
- Akusekho ukukhathalelana. Uzibona uzikhathalele hayi iqabane lakho
- Ukuqhekeka konxibelelwano phakathi kwamaqabane
- Iingxaki zempilo okanye ukukhubazeka
- Iingxaki zempilo yengqondo ezinjengokukhubazeka ekufundeni, uxinzelelo, njl.
- Ukufumba iingxaki zomtshato ezingasonjululwanga ixesha elide
Ukufumanisa umcimbi
Ngokwesiqhelo, xa elinye iqabane lifumanisa malunga nokuthandana, kukho iimvakalelo ezinamandla eziza kubangela. Umzekelo, omabini amaqabane aya kuba nomsindo omnye komnye, kwaye omabini amaqabane aya kuba noxinzelelo, nokuba leliphi kumaqabane liya kuziva linetyala okanye lizisola. Kodwa, ingaba imitshato ihleli emva komtshato kweli nqanaba?
Okwangoku, uninzi lwezibini ezinokucinga ngokuthe ngqo ukwenza ezona zigqibo zibalaseleyo ngenxa yeemvakalelo esele zinazo. Ukuba ulixhoba, cinga ngokuzama oku kulandelayo:
- Musa ukukhawuleza
Ukuba awuqinisekanga ngento enokwenzeka, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ufune uncedo lweengcali okanye ingcali.
- Zinike indawo
Ngokwesiqhelo, xa uqaphela umcimbi othile, nobabini okanye nina nobabini niqala ukwenza ngokungalunganga. Ke, eyona ndlela yokuthintela iimeko ezinjalo kukuzinika indawo. Oku kuya kuninceda nobabini ngenkqubo yokuphilisa.
- Funa inkxaso
Ngamanye amaxesha, abahlobo banokukunceda woyise imeko enzima ebomini bakho. Kwiimeko ezininzi, abantu bayakuba neentloni kubahlobo xa benengxaki, kodwa eli kufanele ukuba ibe lixesha apho ufuna uncedo lwabo. Ke, qhubeka ufune ukhokelo lwabo.
Ezinye iinkokheli zokomoya zinokukunceda ukusombulula iingxaki onazo kusapho lwakho. Fikelela kubo ukuze ubakhokele.
- Thatha ixesha lakho
Ngoku, unokuba nomdla wokwazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni, kodwa ayisiyiyo eyona nto intle ukuyenza. Thatha ixesha lakho kwaye uvumele izinto zihlale. Kungenxa yokuba ukungena kwiinkcukacha kunokuba nzima kwimicimbi.
Ukulungisa umtshato oqhekekileyo
Ayizukukhwela epakini ukubuyela kwimeko yakho yothando. Ukunyaniseka, zezona zahluko zinzima ebomini. Kukho ukungaqiniseki ngeli xesha. Nangona kunjalo, xa uzimisele ekwakheni ukuthembana kwakho kwakhona, nobabini kuya kufuneka nilivume ityala, nixolelane. Ukwenza njalo kuya kunceda ubudlelwane bakho buze bume kwakhona. Apha ngezantsi kukho amanyathelo onokuwathatha:
- Thatha ixesha
Ngaphambi kokungena kwizigqibo, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uthathe ikhefu kwaye uphilise ngaphambi kokuba ufunde iinkcukacha ezintle malunga nomcimbi lowo. Ukuthatha izigqibo kwangoko kunokukwenza uzisole, kodwa ayisiyiyo le uyifunayo.
Kwakhona, unokufuna uncedo lweengcali okanye ingcali. Zama ukukhangela umcebisi kunyango lomtshato.
- Yiba noxanduva
Ngoku, lelona candelo libaluleke kakhulu. Abanye abantu abasayi kuze bayamkele into yokuba baphosisile. Nceda okwangoku, ubenoxanduva. Ukuba ubungathembekanga, nceda wamkele kwaye ucele uxolelo. Ngale ndlela, uya kuyigqiba ingxaki ngokukhawuleza okukhulu.
- Fumana uncedo kwimithombo eyahlukeneyo
Kunzima ukwabelana ngeengxaki zakho nabanye, kodwa okwangoku, kuya kufuneka ufune uncedo kwaye uluyeke. Ewe, uya kuba neentloni, kodwa uya kuncedwa, kwaye ihlazo liyakuphela.
Songa
Ndiyathemba ukuba, umbuzo: ingaba imitshato ihleli emva kokuba umcimbi uphendulwe. Akukho mntu unokufuna ukubona umtshato wakhe ufikelela esiphelweni, kwaye nawe awunguye wedwa. Ufanele umtshato owonwabileyo neqabane lakho. Ndiyathemba ukuba ezi ngcebiso zingasentla kufuneka zikuncede wakhe umtshato wakho emva komtshato.