Umxholo
- 1) Ngaba unayo naziphi na iimvavanyo esinokuzithatha?
- 2) Yintoni esinokuyenza ukuphucula izakhono zakho zonxibelelwano?
- 3) Singafikelela njani kwiphepha elinye xa kufikwa kumba wolwalamano?
- 4) Ngaba ungasinceda ukuba senze isicwangciso seminyaka emibini, nesihlanu?
- 5) Ngaba unayo iingcebiso zokwandisa ubomi bethu basemoyeni?
Imizekeliso 12:15 kunye no-24: 6 zezinye zeevesi zeBhayibhile ezithetha ngokubaluleka kokufuna isiluleko sobulumko. Kodwa ngelishwa, naseCaweni, kukho izibini ezibona kuphela iingcebiso zomtshato njengezinto zokugqibela.
Inyani yile, nokuba ungangakanani umtshato wakho, isengumbono olungileyo ukufuna izibini ezingamaKristu ukucebisa kube kanye ngonyaka. Ngale ndlela, unokufumana isiphatho kwimicimbi ngaphambi kokuba ivele kwaye ufumane iingcebiso zokwenza umanyano lwakho lube ngcono.
Abacebisi ngemitshato abangamaKristu bafaneleke kakhulu ekuhambeni kwimibuzo yokucebisa ngobuhlobo kunye nenkqubo yokucebisa ngomtshato.
Kodwa ukuba awuzange ubone enye ngaphambili, unokuzibuza ukuba yeyiphi imibuzo yonyango ekufuneka ubabuzile ukuze ufumane okanye ugcine umtshato wakho usekhondweni kwaye ufumane uninzi kwiseshoni nganye. Imibuzo yokucebisa ngomtshato kunokuba nzima ukubiyela kodwa sinalo uncedo kuwe.
Ukuze ufumane izibonelelo zokucebisa umtshato ezisekwe kubuKristu, kwangethuba kwintlanganiso yakho yokuqala, nantsi imibuzo emihlanu yokunika iingcebiso ngomtshato kumcebisi wakho.
Imibuzo yokucebisa ngomtshato eya kukufumanela iimpendulo kwiingxaki zakho esele zikhona okanye ezinokwenzeka kwixesha elizayo. Le mibuzo yokucebisa izibini izokukunceda ekulungiseleleni iphepha lemibuzo lokucebisa ngomtshato.
1) Ngaba unayo naziphi na iimvavanyo esinokuzithatha?
Ewe, akukho mntu ngokwenene "uthepha umdaniso" kwingcinga yokuthatha iimvavanyo. Kodwa ukuba uthatha ixesha ukwenza njalo, kunokukunceda ukuba uqonde ngcono wena kunye neempawu zomlingane wakho kunye neendlela zokucinga.
Kwaye ngokubona Umcebisi womtshato wamaKristu kwaye ubuza imibuzo yokucebisa ngomtshato, usenokukwazi ukuthatha uvavanyo lwezipho zokomoya.
Oku kunokuba luncedo kuba, ngolu lwazi, wena neqabane lakho ninokuqonda ngcono ukuba nisebenza njani ecaweni yenu kunye nendlela yokusebenzisa izipho zenu nasemtshatweni wenu.
Bukela le vidiyo inomdla eneenkcukacha zokuseka umtshato ngokweBhayibhile.
2) Yintoni esinokuyenza ukuphucula izakhono zakho zonxibelelwano?
Lo ngomnye wemibuzo exhaphakileyo kubacebisi ngomtshato. Ngaphandle kwemicimbi yezemali kunye nolwalamano, enye yezona zinto zibangela uqhawulo mtshato kukunxibelelana okungalunganga kwaye kungoko uninzi lwabacebisi bafumana inani elingenasiphelo lemibuzo yokucebisa ngomtshato.
Ngokwesiqhelo, kubangelwa kukungamamelani okanye ukugcina iimvakalelo zivaliwe ezingakhokelela kubukrakra nengqumbo. Kuyamangalisa ukuba bangaphi abantu abacinga ukuba banxibelelana ngendlela eyoyikekayo xa inyani kukuba banokuma ukuphucula kule ndawo.
Umcebisi olungileyo ngokuqinisekileyo unokukubonisa ngendlela edibeneyo yokunxibelelana ngeengcinga zakho, izimvo, iimvakalelo, kunye neemvakalelo omnye komnye kunye nokukuxhobisa ngezixhobo zokuphulaphula kakuhle emtshatweni wakho.
Nokuba ucinga ukuba unxibelelana kakuhle kufuneka ube noluhlu olulungele imibuzo oza kuyibuza ngexesha iingcebiso ngomtshato. Kuhlala kunendawo yokuphucula xa kufikwa kunxibelelwano phakathi kwezibini.
3) Singafikelela njani kwiphepha elinye xa kufikwa kumba wolwalamano?
Xa ufuna ingcebiso malunga nokutshata, ungoyiki ukubuza malunga nendlela yokuphucula ubudlelwane bakho, lo ngumbuzo oqinisekileyo wokucebisa ngomtshato. Imibuzo enjalo yomtshato wamaKristu ayifanelanga ukuba mathidala ngayo.
Ukuba isondo liyinxalenye ebaluleke kakhulu kubudlelwane bomtshato, kuhlala kungumbono olungileyo ukwenza isihloko esona siphambili ngexesha leseshoni yokucebisa ngomtshato kwaye ubuze imibuzo yokucebisa ngomtshato malunga nayo.
Ungafumanisa ukuba ungalenza njani ixesha lokunye, indlela yokunonga ubudlelwane kunye nendlela yokuhlangabezana neemfuno zomnye kuloo ndawo ngokubuza imibuzo yokucebisa ngomtshato.
Iingcebiso ezinxulumene nokusondelelana nazo Intuthuzelo ngomtshato, akukho nto inokoyika okanye ineentloni ngayo.
4) Ngaba ungasinceda ukuba senze isicwangciso seminyaka emibini, nesihlanu?
"Ukusilela ekucwangciseni, cwangcisa ukusilela." Sonke siyazi ukuba yindlela intetho eqhubeka ngayo kwaye, ngelishwa, zininzi izibini ezingazenzi ngabom isicwangciso somtshato wazo.
Xa ucinga ngeenjongo ofuna ukuziphumeza, iindawo ofuna ukuzindwendwela, isixa semali ofuna ukusigcina (kunye nento ofuna ukuyenza ngayo), zonke ezi zinto zinokukunceda ukuba uzinze ngakumbi .
Ukuba nezicwangciso eziqinileyo kuhlala kukhokelela kwimvisiswano ngakumbi kubudlelwane bakho. Le yenye yezona zininzi imibuzo ebalulekileyo yokucebisa ngomtshato Kwizibini ezitshatileyo ekufuneka ubuze malunga nazo, ineziphumo zexesha elide emtshatweni wakho.
Ukwazi ukuba ulindele ntoni kwikamva lakho kuya kunceda isibini ukuba sibeke okulindelweyo omnye komnye kwaye sincedane nasekukufezekiseni.
Lo mbuzo wokucebisa ngomtshato unokukusindisa kwintlungu enkulu kunye nokungoneliseki kwixa elizayo.
5) Ngaba unayo iingcebiso zokwandisa ubomi bethu basemoyeni?
Ukuba ungumKristu, yinto efanelekileyo ukubona umcebisi ongumKristu ukuba afune ukucebisa ngomtshato ngokomoya kwaye abuze imibuzo yokucebisa ngomtshato ngenxa yokuba banemilinganiselo efana neyakho. Ngenxa yoko, uninzi lwezisombululo zabo ziya kusekelwa kwibhayibhile.
Ukuba umtshato uthathwa njengomanyano olusekwe kwinkolo, uzakufuna iingcebiso kwizinto onokuzenza wena neqabane lakho ukuze nikhule kunye ngokomoya.
Ukusuka ekubeni nexesha elingakumbi lokuzinikela kunye ukwenza iphephancwadi lomthandazo okanye ukuqala kolunye uhlobo lwenkonzo olunceda ezinye izibini ozaziyo, umcebisi womtshato ongumKristu unokukunceda ukuba ujonge ezinye zeendlela zokomeleza isiseko sakho sokomoya.
Iingcebiso zamaKristu kwizibini ezitshatileyo zihlala ziluncedo xa kufikwa kumba wokuba nomtshato owonwabileyo kwaye ophilileyo.
Ukubuza imibuzo yokucebisa ngomtshato eBhayibhileni kunokukunceda ufumane umbono othile. Imibuzo kunye neempendulo zokucebisa ngomtshato zibalulekile ekuqinisekiseni impilo kunye nokuba sempilweni kolwalamano lwakho.
Qiniseka ukuba ubuza ezi zinto Imibuzo yokucebisa ngomtshato yamaKristu. Iimpendulo ozifumanayo ziya kuba luncedo kakhulu emtshatweni wakho — ukuqala ngoku kude kube sekufeni.