Umxholo
- Kutheni le nto sisenza oku kuqala?
- 1. Yeka ukubeka ishishini kwinkampu eyahlukileyo emtshatweni wakho
- 2. Yenza 'umgangatho' "wexesha elifanelekileyo" ube yinto ebalulekileyo
- 3. Bhiyozela impumelelo yomnye nomnye
- Thatha umbono owahlukileyo 'kubhalansi'
Kukho intetho eninzi malunga nomsebenzi kunye nokulingana kobomi, ukanti ibhalansi ifutshane kakhulu-ihlala ifuna ukuba ikhosi ilungise kwicala elinye okanye kwelinye. Ungathini ukuba kukho into eyahluke mpela enokwenzeka ngendlela esidala ngayo ubomi bethu yonke imihla, oko kubandakanya amashishini ethu, ubudlelwane, kunye neentsapho zethu?
Ubomi!
Ukuwa kwemitshato emininzi ilula: kubomi bemihla ngemihla. Siyaxakeka, sidiniwe, sinoxinzelelo, sivavanyiwe, kwaye into yokuqala ephuma ngefestile ihlala ingabantu abangabantu abasondeleyo kuthi, kubandakanya nathi. Oku kuhlala kudala ukuziva ufuna ukwahlulahlula okanye ukwahlula ubomi bethu ukuze wonke umntu nayo yonke into ifumane ubuncinci.
Nangona kunjalo, eso sicwangciso sibeka imiba eyahlukeneyo yobomi bethu ngokuchaseneyo. Ezingqondweni zethu kwaye sithanda ukwenza abantu nezinto esizikhathaleleyo ngesiquphe bazive ngathi banoxanduva okanye umthwalo.
Ungathini ukuba yonke into ebomini bakho inokufaka isandla kuyo yonke into ebomini bakho-kuquka nawe? Kuthekani ukuba uxakeke ngamandla kwishishini lakho okanye umsebenzi unokuba negalelo kumtshato wakho kwaye uwenze mkhulu?
Kutheni le nto sisenza oku kuqala?
Abantu abaninzi ngoosomashishini kuba bayathanda ukwenza izinto ezintsha. Bayakuthanda ukubandakanyeka kwihlabathi nakwishishini labo. Ukuba oku ibingeyongxaki emtshatweni wakho, yintoni enokutshintsha?
Nazi izinto ezintathu onokuziguqula emsebenzini wakho nakubomi basekhaya ukuguqula "ibhalansi yomsebenzi-wobomi" ube yincoko eyahluke ngokupheleleyo:
1. Yeka ukubeka ishishini kwinkampu eyahlukileyo emtshatweni wakho
Ukuba ukonwabela nantoni na ngomsebenzi wakho, mhlawumbi yinto eyenza ukuba ubomi bakho bonwabe ngakumbi? Rhoqo, luxinzelelo olunxulunyaniswa neemvakalelo zoxanduva kuye wonke umntu ebomini bethu olwenza ukuba ixesha elichithwe emsebenzini liziva lungumthwalo. Ukuba ubungenalo uxinzelelo kunye nemvakalelo yokuzibophelela, yintoni eya kwahluka?
Ukuba uqala ukuqonda ukuba umsebenzi wakho ngumthombo wovuyo kunye nesondlo kuwe, unokuba negalelo elikhulu kubudlelwane bakho kunye nosapho, ngokunjalo.
2. Yenza 'umgangatho' "wexesha elifanelekileyo" ube yinto ebalulekileyo
Sonke siyazi ukuba sidinga ixesha elisemgangathweni namaqabane ethu kunye neentsapho. Ungathini ukuba awuyidingi kangako njengoko ucinga ukuba uyenza?
Nokuba imizuzu eyi-10 yokubakho ngokupheleleyo nomntu inokuba sisipho esikhulu kwaye enqabileyo. Ngaba unombono wokuba ukuchitha ixesha elininzi neqabane lakho kuya kwenza ubudlelwane bakho bube ngcono?
Rhoqo oko kuvela ngaphezulu kwesidingo sokubonisa ukuba siyakhathala kunesona sidingo sexesha elininzi sikunye. Kuthekani ukuba uqalise ukulixabisa ngokwenene umgangatho wexesha olichithe kunye kunokuba ubungakanani? Xa sinesithuba esivela komnye nomnye, kwaye siyabandakanyeka kwaye sonwabile ebomini bethu, kunokuba nomvuzo ngakumbi, ukukhulisa, kwaye kubalulekile ukuchitha ixesha kunye.
Ungathini xa unokutshintsha ingxaki 'yokungabikho kwexesha' ngovuyo lokuphila ubomi obugcweleyo nokuzibandakanya?
3. Bhiyozela impumelelo yomnye nomnye
Kuba umsebenzi yinxalenye enkulu yobomi bethu, unokuba nesizungu xa siziva ngathi iqabane lethu alinamdla wokwenyani kwinto esiyenzayo emhlabeni okanye sikhona nje ukuba sikhalaze ngoxinzelelo lobomi bomsebenzi.
Amaxesha amaninzi, iincoko zomsebenzi zihlala ziincoko ezingalunganga malunga noxinzelelo emsebenzini, imiba nabantu osebenza nabo, njlnjl. Kuthekani ukuba wena neqabane lakho nenze isivumelwano sokudibanisa ezo ngxoxo endaweni yoko sabelane nabanye ngento eyonwabisayo kuwe malunga nomsebenzi uyayenza, kwaye impumelelo yakho yemihla ngemihla, nangona incinci?
Kunganelisa ngokumangalisayo ukubona umntu omkhathaleleyo ngokuzonwabisa kwaye uzive wonwabile ngomsebenzi wakhe emhlabeni.
Ungathini ukuba iincoko zomsebenzi zinokondla umtshato wakho, kunokuba ube ngumthombo wokuwunciphisa? Yintoni eningayenza wena neqabane lakho omnye komnye ngale ndlela enokwenza umtshato wenu ube mkhulu ngakumbi?
Bubomi bakho!
Xa uqaphela ukuba yonke indawo yobomi bakho inokuba negalelo kuyo yonke enye indawo yobomi bakho, uye ukhululeke kwizibophelelo ozibophileyo kunye nokwahlulwa kwabantu noxanduva olugcina luziva ngathi luxanduva.
Thatha umbono owahlukileyo 'kubhalansi'
Qala ukubuza imibuzo engakumbi malunga nokuba yeyiphi eyona nto isebenzela wena kunye neqabane lakho ngalo naluphi na usuku olunikiweyo- kwaye unokuzifumanisa wothuswe yinto oyifumeneyo!