Umxholo
- Imiceli mngeni ejongene nezibini kwiintsapho ezihlanganisiweyo
- Ukuba ngumzali omtsha
- Ubudlelwane phakathi kwabazali bomtshato wesibini kunye namaqabane angaphambili
- Imiceli mngeni ejongene nabantwana kusapho oludibeneyo
- Ubudlelwane phakathi komntwana nomzali wesibini
- Ubudlelwane phakathi komntwana kunye nomntakwabo
- Ingcebiso inganceda njani kusapho oluxubileyo?
Usapho oluxubekileyo kulapho bobabini abatshatileyo banabantwana abavela kumtshato wangaphambili.
Xa ukutshata kwakhona kudala usapho oludibeneyo esi sibini sithatha imiceli mngeni emininzi enzima. Ukudala imvisiswano phakathi kwabazali ababini nabantwana babo kunokuba lucelomngeni olukhulu. Abantwana banokusetyenziselwa iindlela ezahlukeneyo zosapho kunye neendlela zokuba ngumzali. Impixano okanye utyelelo phakathi kwabazali abahluleyo kunokubangela uxinzelelo.
Kwangokunjalo, abantakwenu abatsha banokuba ngunobangela wengxabano.
Kungathatha iinyanga ukuba abantwana baziqhelanise nesakhelo sosapho esitsha. Enye ingxaki eyongeziweyo ejongene neentsapho ezixubileyo kukuba ngelixa abanye abantwana behlala ekhaya, abanye abantwana abahlala nomnye umzali wokwenyama banokundwendwela.
Imiceli mngeni ejongene nezibini kwiintsapho ezihlanganisiweyo
Uxinzelelo yinto eqhelekileyo kulwakhiwo losapho oludibeneyo kwaye iminyaka yokuqala inokuba yeyona inzima. Kuthatha ixesha nomonde kuzo zombini iintsapho ukuba ziqhelane nokuhlala kunye. Oku kunokuba sisiphumo sezinto ezininzi ezinye zazo: Ukuqina okanye ukungqubana kweemvakalelo, uqeqesho olwahlukileyo okanye iindlela zokuba ngumzali kunye nokukhulisa ubudlelwane obutsha.
Wonke umntu kusapho oludibeneyo unokuba nexesha elinzima lokungena kwiindima zabo ezintsha kusapho.
Umntu omnye okanye bobabini abadala bayakudinga ukufunda iintambo zendlela yokuba ngabazali bomtshato wesibini kuba iingxaki ngabantwana bomtshato wesibini zinokuzisa uxinzelelo kubudlelwane.
Eminye yemingeni eqhelekileyo abajamelana nayo abantu abatshatileyo yile
Ukuba ngumzali omtsha
Abanye abantu abadala abangena kusapho oluxubeneyo bathatha indima yokuba ngumzali okokuqala.
Kunokuba nzima kakhulu ukulinganisa ukuba ngumzali womntwana wokutshata kakuhle kwaye uthandwe ngabo kwaye inokuba sesona sizathu siphambili soxinzelelo.
Ubudlelwane phakathi kwabazali bomtshato wesibini kunye namaqabane angaphambili
Emva koqhawulo-mtshato abantu bakhetha ukuqhubeka nokujolisa ngakumbi kumaqabane abo amatsha oko kuthetha ukuba bayayeka ukunxibelelana neqabane labo langaphambili. Nangona kunjalo, oku akunakwenzeka ngakumbi xa abantwana bebandakanyeka.
Umzali ophinde watshata kuya kufuneka aqhubeke nokuthetha neqabane lakhe langaphambili kuphela xa ethetha ngabantwana.
Abanye abatshatileyo baziva besoyikiswa lolu qhakamshelwano abanalo amaqabane abo neqabane labo ngelixa kwezinye iimeko umzali ongahlaliyo engonwabanga yimpatho yomzali wesibini yabantwana.
Ezi meko zinokuba ngunobangela wokungavisisani okwandileyo kusapho oluxubeneyo.
Imiceli mngeni ejongene nabantwana kusapho oludibeneyo
Abantwana ngabona baxinezeleke kakhulu lolu tshintsho.
Sele befumana ubunzima ngexesha lokwahlukana kwabazali babo, kwaye ngoku kufuneka bazivumelanise nomzali omtsha kunye nemithetho emitsha. Rhoqo baveza uxinzelelo lwabo ngokudubuleka ngokweemvakalelo okanye ngokuziphatha.
Ubudlelwane phakathi komntwana nomzali wesibini
Kunzima ukuba abantwana bafikelele kwisigqibo ngeemvakalelo zabo kumzali wabo wesibini.
Banokuba mathidala ukubathemba kwaye basenokubacaphukela. Banokuba besilwa neemvakalelo zokulahlwa ngumzali wabo obazalayo emva koqhawulo mtshato lwabazali babo. Banokuziva ngathi bangcatsha uthando lwabazali babo bokwenyama ngokuhoya umzali wabo wesibini.
Ubudlelwane phakathi komntwana kunye nomntakwabo
Ukubangisana kwabantakwethu kuthabatha intsingiselo entsha yosapho oludibeneyo.
Abantwana banokuziva ngathi kuya kufuneka bakhuphisane ngokulawula kunye nokuqwalaselwa kulwakhiwo losapho olutsha.
Banokuziva bengakhuselekanga kuba bexhalabile ukuba umzali wabo obazalayo uza kuqala ukukhetha abantwana babo.
Ingcebiso inganceda njani kusapho oluxubileyo?
Zonke iintsapho ezihlanganisiweyo zijongana neengxaki xa ziqala ukuhlala kunye.
Into ebalulekileyo yindlela osombulula ngayo ezi ngxaki. Ukuvumela unxunguphalo okanye ingqumbo yakho ikongamele inokubangela imeko ibe mandundu ngakumbi imeko nangona inokwanelisa kangakanani ebushushwini bomzuzwana.
Ezinye iintsapho zinokusombulula ezi ngxaki zodwa ngelixa ezinye zifuna uncedo lobungcali. Ukucetyiswa kosapho okuxubileyo kunceda iintsapho ukuba zifunde indlela yokuphila njengentsapho enye enothando.
Ifundisa indlela yokujongana neengxaki kunye neentlungu ezikhulayo ohlangabezana nazo njengentsapho edibeneyo.
Enye yeenzuzo ezilungileyo zokufumana iingcebiso nosapho ngokudibeneyo kukufikelela kumntu onokuthenjwa ongayi kuba nanjongo kwaye angathathi cala.
Kuhlala kuyathuthuzela ukuthetha nomntu ongabambelelananga ngokweemvakalelo nosapho. Ukucetyiswa kosapho okuxubileyo kukwakhuthaza unxibelelwano olufanelekileyo phakathi kwamalungu osapho. Oku kunceda ukusombulula iingxaki zosapho oludibeneyo ngoncedo lonxibelelwano olungcono.
Uninzi lwabantu abaye bahamba ngokudibana neengcebiso kwiintsapho bayavuma ukuba yeyona nto intle edibanise usapho lwabo.