Umxholo
- Yintoni impilo yesondo?
- 1. Isondo eliphantsi lokuqhuba
- Njengokuba -
- 2. Iingxaki zengqondo
- Njengokuba -
- 3. Ukungavumelani
- 4. Ukujonga ngesondo
- 5. Ukuziva unetyala ngesondo
- 6. Ukungakwazi kwi-orgasm
- 7. Ukuqhelana ngesondo
- Impilo yesondo ibaluleke kakhulu
Kumhla wanamhlanje kunye nobudala nge umngcipheko owandayo Ukubamba ii-STD, impilo yesondo Kaninzi ibalulekile kunanini na ngaphambili. Esi sikhokelo sijonga xa ilixesha lokuba ubone ugqirha wezesondo okanye undwendwele ugqirha wezesondo.
Abanye abantu banokungacingi ukuba bangaxelelwa ukuba mabenze ntoni xa becinga ngeminqweno yabo yenyama, kodwa oku kuyinyani.
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Ukuba izinto aziphathwa kakuhle, ezi iingxaki zinokunyuka kwaye ngenene uthathe ulwalamano, endaweni yoko. Kodwa, umntu unokufikelela nje kuncedo. Kwaye, olu lolunye lweempawu ozifunayo ukuze undwendwele ugqirha wezokwabelana ngesondo.
Nini abantu banolwazi oluphantsi kwaye ulwazi malunga nengxaki yabo, oku kunokwenza kube nzima nangakumbi kubo ukuba baye kugqirha wesini ofanelekileyo ukuze afumane uncedo.
Akukaze kube semva kwexesha kwaye ke ukuba ucinga ukuba umntu ufuna ukutyelela ugqirha wezesondo, siza kubathatha ngayo yonke imiqondiso enokubonisa ukuba bafanele ukuhamba.
Yintoni impilo yesondo?
Ukuqonda ukuba ngaba umntu ufuna ukutyelela ugqirha wezesondo okanye akunjalo, kufuneka aqonde ukuba yeyiphi na impilo yezesondo. Yimeko yempilo yengqondo, yomzimba kunye neyentlalo enxulumene nobume bomntu ngokwesondo.
Abantu bafuna iindlela ezihloniphekileyo nezakhayo kubudlelwane babo.
Umntu kufuneka ungaze uhlale ngoloyiko yokuba namava ezesondo amnandi kunye nokunqwenelekayo. Abantu kufuneka bavuleke malunga nezifo zabo zomzimba.
Ngaba uyazi ukuba ii-STD ezifana ne-HPV zinempembelelo enkulu kunxibelelwano lwamaqabane malunga nesondo kunye nempilo yesondo? Le ntsholongwane ixhaphakileyo, ukanti abanye abantu bakhetha ukuthi cwaka ngayo. Oku kunokuba neziphumo ezingathandekiyo.
Kwaye, sesinye sezizathu eziphambili zokuba kutheni kufuneka undwendwele ugqirha wezesondo. Oku kulandelayo zizizathu zokuba kutheni ukutyelela ugqirha wezesondo kubalulekile kwimpilo yakho yasemzimbeni nasengqondweni.
Izizathu eziphambili zokutyelela ugqirha wezesondo ukuze wonwabe ngobomi besondo
1. Isondo eliphantsi lokuqhuba
Iyazichaza ngokufanelekileyo kwaye ayikhathazeki ukuba ukhe wayifumana le nto, kodwa ngokuyintloko a isini esisezantsi kuthetha ukuba umntu akafuni ukufuna ukusondelelana kunye neqabane labo.
Wonke umntu kufuneka abelane ngesondo- yinxalenye yobomi!
Kukho izizathu ezahlukeneyo zokuqhuba okuphantsi.
Njengokuba -
- Utshintsho kumadoda nakwabasetyhini ihomoni,
- Rhoqo njengesiphumo samayeza,
- Imiba yomzimba,
- Ukudinwa, nokunye okuninzi.
Ayiyonto yakuzixhalabisa kwaye rhoqo ukuqhuba ngesondo esezantsi ngumba wethutyana. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntu ufumanisa ukuba iyaqhubeka ixesha elide kwaye bobabini abantu kubudlelwane abonelisekanga, kuya kufuneka athethe nengcali yezesondo ngoncedo oluthile lobuchwephesha.
2. Iingxaki zengqondo
Abanye abantu, ingakumbi amadoda, UCanzibe uneengxaki zengqondo njenge Ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile, ukungakwazi ukungena okanye Ukuchama ngaphambi kwexesha ezinako konke yenza isini sibe nzima kakhulu.
Nangona kunjalo, zonke ezi zinokunyangwa ngokwasemzimbeni kwaye ukutyelelwa kwezesondo kunokufumana umntu azi eyona ndlela ingcono yokuqalisa ngonyango olunjalo.
Impilo yabasetyhini ngesondo Unako ngokunjalo baneengxaki kwimicimbi yezengqondo.
Njengokuba -
- Ukufumana ubufazi,
- Ubufazi obomileyo, idyspareunia,
- Umothuko, kunye
- Ixesha lokuphuma
Iingcali zesondo unako ncedisa kuzo zombini eyabafazi neyamadoda impilo yesondo xa kukho imiba yengqondo ejikeleze isondo.
3. Ukungavumelani
Ngamanye amaxesha abantu banokufumanisa ukuba ii Iminqweno ayihambelani tu apho banelisekile bobabini. Oku kunokwenzeka yenza isondo nzima kancinci kwaye iyadinisa.
Okwangoku, kububulumko ukutyelela ugqirha wezesondo kuba banokunceda abantu abatshatileyo ukuba bathethe kunye ngemicimbi yabo kwaye bafikelele kwizigqibo ezivuthiweyo. Ngamanye amaxesha izibini zinokukhathazeka malunga noku xa a ngesondo unako ukusombulula ingxaki ngokulula.
Rhoqo ukwazisa into elula njengokusebenzisa eyona ntambo ilungileyo yesini kunokuba yimpendulo.
4. Ukujonga ngesondo
Ukuba umntu othile uxakeke kakhulu ziingcinga zesondo, imini nobusuku, oku kunokuba nefuthe elibi ekusebenzeni nasekusebenzeni kwabo xa imeko yezengqondo ifuna uhlalutyo kwangoko.
Iingcali zesondo unako ukubonelela aqolileyo imfundo yezempilo yezesondo izibini nabantu ukuba basondele ezingcanjini kwaye bancede abantu bazifumanele uncedo.
Kufanelekile ukufuna uncedo lweengcali ukubeka iingxaki ngaphambi kokuba zikhule.
5. Ukuziva unetyala ngesondo
Ixesha elininzi abantu banokuba netyala kakhulu malunga nokwabelana ngesondo, ubakhokelele iimvakalelo zokuziva unetyala ngalo lonke ixesha.
Zininzi izinto ezinokudala oku njengamava amabi ngokwesini, iintlungu ezidlulileyo kunye namatyala abuhlungu okuba ngamaxhoba okuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana. Nokuba zeziphi na iingxaki ezenza ukuba netyala, zesini inganceda kwaye bonisa indlela yokuphucula impilo yesondo ngokuthe ngcembe ngokuhamba kwexesha.
6. Ukungakwazi kwi-orgasm
Inokuba yinto ephazamisayo ebantwini ukuba bangafezekisi ii-orgasms, nangona kunjalo, ayiqhelekanga.
Ininzi eyenzeka nabafazi, kodwa namadoda, ii-orgasms kunokuba nzima ukufikelela kuzo ngamanye amaxesha. Ukuba umntu ufumanisa ukuba abanako ukonwabela kwaye bane-orgasms, emva koko Ndwendwela ugqirha wezesondo ngokuqinisekileyo kufanelekile ukuqwalaselwa.
Ukuba uyazibuza, "Kutheni le nto impilo yezesondo ibalulekile", kubalulekile ukuba uqwalasele imiba yomzimba neyengqondo.
7. Ukuqhelana ngesondo
Zininzi abantu, nkqu nabo bakubudlelwane obuzinikeleyo, banako Babhideka malunga nokuziqhelanisa.
Kuba abantu abaninzi bengathethi rhoqo malunga noku, abantu banokubanjiswa kwaye baphile ubomi abangahlali kamnandi.
Ukuba umntu akazi ukuba bangathetha njani ngalo mbandela ngokungafihlisiyo, kufanelekile bajongane nonyango.
Akuncedi ukuhlala uxoka.
Impilo yesondo ibaluleke kakhulu
Siyathemba ukuba isikhokelo sethu sichukumisile kuzo zonke izizathu ezibalulekileyo zokuba umntu atyelele ugqirha wezesondo namhlanje.
Khumbula ukuba umntu akaze ayekelele kwimpilo yabo yesondo.
Kubaluleke kakhulu njengempilo yamazinyo okanye naliphi na elinye isebe lokuphila okunempilo. Zikhathalele kwaye thatha isondo ingqalelo!