Umxholo
- Wena neqabane lakho nitshile
- Ufumana amava exesha lasemva komtshato
- Ufumana ixesha elininzi lokuchitha neqabane lakho kunye nosapho
- Usebenzisa onke amagqabi ahlawulelweyo
- Ufumana ukongela i-fancier honeymoon
I-Honeymoon ikhefu elithathwa ngabantu abatshatileyo emva kokusinda ebunzimeni obuya kuba yimithendeleko yomtshato wabo.
Kufana nqwa nelitha elinye lokukhanya ekupheleni kwetonela emnyama kakhulu apho izibini zijonge phambili emva kokuchitha iintsuku ezimbalwa zoxinzelelo.
Ngapha koko, abantu abaninzi balindele umhla abaya kushiya ngawo i-honeymoon ngakumbi kunosuku lwabo lomtshato kwaye banelungelo lokwenza njalo kuba masijongane nabo abangayikhetha inkampani yabo ebalulekileyo kwilizwe elingaqhelekanga ngaphezu kwabo Izalamane ezikude ukuba zibona kube kanye okanye kanye kabini ngonyaka kwaye nazo kuphela kwiindibano zosapho.
Kodwa ngaphandle kwayo yonke le nto, ukuba isibini sinokuze senze uluhlu lwezinto ezintle kunye neengozi malunga nokungayi kwiholide yomtshato kwangoko i-pros ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuba ngaphezulu kwe-cons.
Ngaphandle kwesangqa sakho, uya kuqaphela ukuba uninzi lwabahlobo bakho kunye namalungu osapho bakhetha ixesha lokulibaziseka lasemva komtshato kunye nokubanakho ukubuyela endaweni entsha emva komtshato wabo ngokuqinisekileyo akukho kwiitshathi.
Nazi izizathu ezimbalwa ezinokuthi zikhokelele aba bantu ukuba bakhethe i-honeymoon yokulibaziseka ngaphezulu kwangoko.
Wena neqabane lakho nitshile
Yinto eyamkelweyo ngumntu wonke ukuba imitshato ifuna ukuba yenziwe ngocoselelo eyenza ukuba amalungiselelo abukeke njengamabhaso mboniso omncinci.
Ukusuka ekutyeni, undwendwela i-boutique yonke imihla, uthumele izimemo zokuqinisekisa inani labantu abaza kubakho kumsitho, umntu akanakunceda kodwa abe nexhala ngawo onke la malungiselelo kunye nomzamo umntu ekufuneka ewenzile kuwo.
Ke into yokugqibela eya kuba kuluhlu lomtshakazi okanye umyeni kukucwangcisa olunye uhambo.
Ke ngoko, uninzi lwezibini kule mihla zikhetha ukukhetha ukulibaziseka komtshato, hlala ekhaya kwaye uziphumze emva kwemithendeleko yomtshato kunokuba uye kwiholide yasemva komtshato.
Ufumana amava exesha lasemva komtshato
Emva komtshato, zonke izibini ziya kukuva oku kube kanye okanye izihlandlo ezininzi ukuba bakwi "honeymoon period" yabo.
Oku kuguqulela koku "Ndonwabele eli nqanaba lokonwaba ngelixa lihlala libangela ukuba izinto zibuyele kwimeko yabo yesiqhelo kungekudala.”
Akukho mntu, ongatshatanga okanye otshatileyo angayihoyi into yokuba lonke ulwalamano lunjengephupha lasentsomini ekuqaleni kodwa imvakalelo iyaphela kungekudala.
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uthethe ukuba wena neqabane lakho niyeke ukuthetha omnye nomnye kwaye umtshato wakho uziva ngathi ngumthwalo kodwa into eyenzekayo kukuba ukhululeke kwinkqubo yakho kunye neqabane lakho okanye mhlawumbi ukhululeke kancinci okwenza kube mnandi kwaye mphakathi.
Kodwa yintoni enokuthi ibonakalise ukukhanya kwelahleko ilahlekileyo kwakhona kubudlelwane bakho iya kuba ngumbono wokulibaziseka komtshato. Esi sesinye sezibonelelo zokulibaziseka komtshato.
Zonke izibini ezitshatileyo ezitshatileyo ekuqaleni azizukukwazi ukufumana iholide kungekudala kodwa ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuba uyokutshata emva kwexesha uyakufumana ithuba lokuya kwisigaba somtshato kwakhona.
Ufumana ixesha elininzi lokuchitha neqabane lakho kunye nosapho
Esinye sezizathu zokulibazisa i-honeymoon kukufumana ixesha elininzi kubantu obathandayo.
Emva kokuba kwenziwe imithendeleko yomtshato, abantu abasuka kude beza ikakhulu emtshatweni wakho njengabahlobo bakho basekholejini okanye izihlobo ezikude ekunqabileyo ukuba uzibone ngenxa yeendawo zokuhlala ezahlukileyo, ungalithatha eli thuba legolide ubacele ukuba bandise ixesha labo hlala kwaye uchithe ixesha kunye nabo.
Umlingane wakho unokuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nabahlobo kunye nosapho lwakho kwaye ubazi ngcono kwaye usapho kunye nabahlobo bakho banokuzibona ngokwabo ukuba iqabane lakho likwazile na ukufikelela kwimigangatho yenkcazo yakho okanye icing kwikhekhe, ungacwangcisa ukuya ekampini okanye kwenye indlela ende yokuchitha ixesha kunye nabantu bakho obathandayo endaweni enye.
Iya kubonakala ukuba luhlobo lwenyanga encinci kuwe kunye neqabane lakho eliya kukuhlangula ekulileni ngenxa yesigqibo sokungayi kweyenyani.
Usebenzisa onke amagqabi ahlawulelweyo
Xa usiya emsebenzini ngenxa yomtshato wakho kuya kufuneka ulingane emtshatweni kunye nakumaholide eholideyini ngeentsuku zakho zokuhamba kodwa ukuba ubuza kuba neholide emva komtshato emva komtshato uyakufumana amandla okuba nesinye isipelo sekhefu elihlawulelwayo lekhefu lakho lokugqibela Emva kwexesha ke yimeko yokuphumelela kwakho oya kuthi uqiniseke ukuba uyisebenzisela inzuzo yakho.
Ufumana ukongela i-fancier honeymoon
Imitshato ayihlekisi. Ukulibazisa iholideyokutshata kukunika ixesha elaneleyo lokugcina imali eyongezelelweyo kwiholide yasemva komtshato. Ikwavumela ukuba uqhekeze ekuthengeni okuthandekayo kwi-honeymoon.
Nokuba ufuna enye elula isaya kukuhlawula iindleko ezilungileyo.
Ukusuka kwizihombiso ukuya kwiglasi yewayini ezakuthi igungxulwe lundwendwe ngalunye, iya kuba nguwe okanye wena neqabane lakho nobabini kuxhomekeke kwindlela ekugqitywe ngayo phakathi kwenu nobabini malunga nokwahlukana kweendleko, kuya kuhlala kunjalo Lawula ukukuhluba kuyo yonke ipenny yokugqibela onayo ukuba wena, emva kwakho konke, uthathe esi sigqibo sokuya kwihoneymoon kuya kufuneka ube kuhlahlo-lwabiwo mali oluqinileyo.
Ukuba ubucele kwangaphambili ukuba uyokutshata emva komtshato, kuya kufuneka uziyeke ngoba masingalibali ukuba usazobhatala imali emva kokuba ubuyile apho.
Ke ushiywe ukuba ukhethe phakathi kokuba ne-honeymoon kuhlahlo-lwabiwo mali okanye ugcine imali yomntu osandul 'ukulibaziseka olibazisa emva komtshato ukuze uqhubeke kamva kwaye njengoko sonke sisazi ukuba ukhetho olumkileyo kukuhlala ekhaya kwaye ugcine yonke intwana yakho yokugqibela .
Ikhefu lokutshata elilibazisekileyo liya kukunika ithuba lokuba nexesha elimangalisayo ophuphe ngalo, emva kwayo yonke loo nto, uya kuba nalo kube kanye (ngethemba).