Umxholo
- Yintoni iingcebiso zebhayibhile ngaphambi komtshato?
- Iziseko zomtshato
- Umbono webhayibhile ngomtshato
- Ukulungiselela umtshato
Ukuba wena neqabane lakho ninokholo kubuKrestu, ingayinto entle ukuqaphela ukucebisa ngaphambi komtshato ngaphambi kokuba uhambe ezantsi.
Ukuba umtshato wakho ukufuphi, kufuneka uxakeke kakhulu ngamalungiselelo omtshato ngomzuzu wokugqibela. Nangona kunjalo, ukucetyiswa kobuKristu ngaphambi komtshato kuya kukunceda ukuba uyiqonde ngcono intsingiselo yomtshato kwaye kubandakanya ntoni konke.
Ngeengcebiso zebhayibhile ngaphambi komtshato, awuyi kuthi nje izifungo ngokuma esibingelelweni, kodwa uya kuzithetha ngokusuka emazantsi entliziyo yakho. Kwakhona, ayisiyiyo malunga nezithethe nje zomtshato.
Umtshato ungaphezulu kakhulu kunosuku lomtshato. Umtshato uza kutshintsha ubomi obukade ubukhokele kude kube ngoku kwaye uchaze ikhosi eseleyo yobomi bakho.
Ukubaluleka kwengcebiso ngaphambi komtshato akunakuthelekiswa nanto. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, yindawo yayo yokucacisa ubunzima balo mcimbi oguqula ubomi obizwa ngokuba ngumtshato!
Yintoni iingcebiso zebhayibhile ngaphambi komtshato?
Abantu abatshatileyo abanomdla kumaKristu ngaphambi komtshato bahlala benomdla malunga nokuba yintoni eyenzayo ngaphambi kokutshata, kunye nokuba balindele ntoni kwiingcebiso zangaphambi komtshato.
Bafuna ukwazi malunga nenkqubo ukuze bathathe isigqibo sokuba ingaba buza kubuxhasa na ubudlelwane.
Ukungenisa ukholo kunye nokucebisa kunceda kakhulu ngokusebenzisa iimfundiso zebhayibhile kuzo zombini ukuvavanya ubudlelwane kunye nokulungiselela omabini amaqela ukuzibophelela ngaphambili. Kodwa, indlela yokufumana iingcebiso zebhayibhile ngaphambi komtshato inokwahluka ngokwecawa ukuya ecaweni.
Umzekelo, ecaweni encinci, izinto zinokulunga ngokuthe ngqo. Unokwazi ukuya kumfundisi ngqo. Kwaye umfundisi angaqala ngokuzithandela ukuphendula imibuzo yakho yangaphambi komtshato kwangoko.
Ngexa usecaweni enkulu, kungafuneka uqokelele kunye nezinye izibini ezininzi ezinjengawe kwaye niye kwiiseshoni zokufumana iingcebiso ngenkqubo yekharityhulamu.
Ngothotho lweeseshoni, umcebisi (umfundisi onamava) ubuza imibuzo eliqela, aqale iingxoxo ezibalulekileyo, kwaye asebenzise ibhayibhile njengesikhokelo sokugubungela imixholo ebalulekileyo, kubandakanya iziseko zomtshato kunye nezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo zokulungiselela umtshato.
Ekupheleni kokunikwa kwengcebiso, izibini zinikwa ithuba lokujongana nayo nayiphi na imibuzo engaphendulwanga yokucebisa ngaphambi komtshato kwaye ziphonononge iiseshoni zangaphambili.
Ezinye zezihloko zokucebisa ngaphambi komtshato zixutyushwa nzulu kula macandelo alandelayo.
Iyacetyiswa Ikhosi yangaphambi komtshato
Iziseko zomtshato
Iingcebiso zebhayibhile ngaphambi komtshato ziqala ngokuvavanya abo babandakanyekileyo ukuze balungiselele iingcebiso kwiimfuno zabo. Nje ukuba kuvavanywe iimfuno, isibini kunye nomfundisi baya kuthi ga ngaphaya kweziseko zomtshato.
Ke, kuthethwa ngantoni ngexesha lokucebisa ngaphambi komtshato?
Umxholo wothando uya kuxutyushwa kunye nendlela omabini amaqela achaza ngayo uthando, isondo, kunye nokusisigxina komtshato.
Kuqhelekile ukuba abantu abatshatileyo baqiqe ngesondo ngaphambi komtshato bakuba betshatile. Ke, isondo ngaphambi komtshato kunye nezinye izilingo ezinjalo kuyaxoxwa ngazo ngexesha lokucebisa ngaphambi komtshato.
Ugxininiso olukhulu lubekwa kukuthembana, ukugcina ukuthembana, imbeko, ukuqonda, kwaye ke, indima edlalwa lukholo ekukhokeleni nasekuxhaseni umtshato kule minyaka idlulileyo.
Umbono webhayibhile ngomtshato
Abo baceba ukuhamba ezantsi kwendlela bahlala befuna ukwazi ukuba liqabane elungileyo. Okokuqala, zombini iihafu ziya kwabelana ngokuba ukuba liqabane elihlonel 'uThixo kuthetha ntoni kubo ngelixa elinye liphulaphule.
Nje ukuba yenzeke, umfundisi ucebisa bobabini ngesihloko ngoncedo lweevesi ezihambelana nazo kwibhayibhile. Ukufunda ibhayibhile yinxalenye ephambili yeengcebiso zebhayibhile ngaphambi komtshato.
Ixesha elininzi liya kuchithelwa ekufundeni izibhalo ngokucokisekileyo ukuze siqonde indlela izimvo zebhayibhile ezifanelekileyo ngayo emtshatweni.
Umzekelo, izibini ziya kufunda "iziseko zomtshato" ezinikezwe kwiGenesis 2: 18-24. Kwakhona, izibini zinokujonga ukuba yeyiphi eyabase-Efese 5: 21-31 kunye nevesi yeGenesis xa ichaza ukuba aba babini "baba nyama-nye."
Ukulungiselela umtshato
Abantu abatshatileyo banomdla wokugxila ngakumbi kumhla womtshato kunomtshato.
Kuninzi ekufuneka kuxoxwe ngako ngaphandle kokukhetha ilokhwe yomtshato, ukuthatha isigqibo kwiincasa zekhekhe lomtshato, okanye ngokujonga ukuthanda umtshato.
Umtshato ubandakanya ukuzibophelela ixesha elide kwiqabane lakho. Ngelixa utshatile, kuya kubakho ukonwaba kunye namaxesha acelomngeni. Kwaye, ukujongana namaxesha anzima ngempumelelo, kuya kufuneka ukuba uzilungiselele kwangaphambili.
Kufuneka ube nolindelo olusengqiqweni kwiqabane lakho, kwaye ulwamkele ngeempembelelo zabo kunye nezinto ezimbi.
Kwakhona, njengawo nawuphi na umntu oqhelekileyo, bobabini iqabane lakho okanye iqabane lakho linokungahambi kakuhle. Kuya kufuneka ukholelwe kuzuko lukaThixo ukuze ukwazi ukulixolela iqabane lakho kwaye wakhe umtshato owomeleleyo.
Ukulungiselela umtshato kunika izibini ithuba lokuba zihlangane kwaye zijongane nezicwangciso zexesha elizayo kunye nezinto esele zikho malunga nayo nantoni na evela kwezemali ukuya kwiindlela eziza kusetyenziswa ukulungisa nokusombulula iingxaki zexesha elizayo kunye neengxabano.
Kuxhomekeke kwimiyalelo enikwe ngumfundisi wakho, unokucelwa ukuba ulungiselele isicwangciso sezemali kunye neqabane lakho elibandakanya uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali kunye nolunye ulwabiwo oluhambelana neentlanganiso.
Jonga kwakhona:
Ukusonga phezulu
Ezi zihloko ziqhelekileyo eziza kuxutyushwa ngokweenkcukacha ngokusebenzisa izibhalo zeBhayibhile kwiingcebiso zangaphambi komtshato.
Iingcebiso zebhayibhile ngaphambi komtshato ke ziyanceda ekuboneni amandla kunye nobuthathaka babo bonke abantu abatshatileyo ngaphambi komtshato kwaye zibancede bahlakulele iingqondo ezifanelekileyo eziyimfuneko kumtshato owonwabileyo kwaye usempilweni.
Imigaqo yebhayibhile ibalulekile kubomi bawo onke amaKristu. Ukufunda izibhalo ngokweenkcukacha kunceda abantu abatshatileyo ukuba baphuphe umtshato wabo, bomeleze ukholo lwabo, kwaye badibane nawo nawuphi na umqobo wokholo olungagungqiyo kuThixo.