Umxholo
- Inyaniso iyaluma
- Ukujongana noxinzelelo emva koqhawulo-mtshato: Indlela esempilweni
- Musa ukudibanisa ixesha lobomi bonke
- Ukwenza utshintsho olucothayo noluzinzileyo
Ukujongana nesizungu emva koqhawulo-mtshato okanye ukwahlukana neqabane kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo bambalwa kakhulu abantu abajongana nomcimbi. Naxa wonwabile ukuba akusayi kuphinda kubekho ukungavisisani naloo mntu, uqala ukubhekela kwisizungu esikhulu. Ke ujongana njani nemeko apho uziva ulilolo emva koqhawulo-mtshato?
UAlbert Einstein wakha wathi, “Ndikufumanisa kungumnqa ukwaziwa kwindalo iphela, kodwa ndinesithukuthezi.” Kuyamangalisa ukucinga ukuba ifiziksi ekrelekrele- eyalele ingqalelo yoomongameli, iinjengele, iinjineli, abafundi, abaphandi, kunye noosozigidi ngokufanayo-bazabalaza kwezona zinto zilindelweyo kulwalamano olusenyongweni.
Nangona wayenehlabathi ezandleni zakhe, u-Einstein wayeneengxaki ezinzulu zobomi bakhe kwaye waziva-ngamanye amaxesha-yedwa. Ukujongana nokungathembeki, ukwahlukana, kunye noqhawulo-mtshato ebomini bakhe, iminyaka yokugqibela ka-Einstein yayisisihogo esicocekileyo.
U-Awash kwisizungu kunye noxinzelelo, u-Einstein wasweleka enesi sibhedlele ecaleni kwakhe. Kodwa kuthekani ngabanye bethu?
Ngaba singabona uloliwe ka-Einstein owonzakalisa ubomi bakhe njengendaba yokulumkisa njengoko sijongana nokuqhawuka komtshato wethu?
Singarhalela indawo yethu kunye nam ixesha kodwa ngaba umntu angasebenza njengesiqithi?
Ngaba asikunqweneli sonke ukuba kunye nokuba nobuhlobo ngamanye amaxesha?
Kodwa kwenzeka ntoni xa uphuma kubudlelwane? Kuthekani ukuba sele uziva ulilolo kumtshato ongonwabanga? Ukuhlala wedwa emva koqhawulo-mtshato yenye into kodwa ukuziva ulilolo nangona utshatile kunokuba noxinzelelo kakhulu. Funda ukuze wazi ukuba ungamelana njani nesizungu emva koqhawulo-mtshato okanye ngokwahlukana.
Inyaniso iyaluma
Ngaphandle kokuthululwa kwamandla kunye nomoya, imitshato inakho kwaye iyakusilela.
Amanani abonisa ukuba phantse i-50% yayo yonke imitshato e-US iphela kuqhawulo mtshato. Umbuzo ngulo, senza ntoni xa sizifumana sityibilika singena enzonzobileni sobulolo?
Ngaba sizilungiselela ukulwa nabathandi bethu bangaphambili okanye ngaba sigxila ekwenzeni olona lukhulu lwethu Ubomi emva komtshato?
Ukuba ukhetha indlela yokwahlukana okuphezulu kunye noqhawulo-mtshato, lungiselela ukuchitha i-50 K okanye ngaphezulu kwemali oyisebenzele nzima uzama ukuphelisa ubudlelwane. Ngaba kufanelekile ngokwenene olu hlobo lomlo? Ngaba uzimisele ukuyeka imbali kunye nomsindo uhambe ukuze uphile kwakhona?
Ukujongana noxinzelelo emva koqhawulo-mtshato: Indlela esempilweni
Ukuba ufuna ukuchuma emva kobudlelwane obungaphumelelanga, zikhathalele.
Ukujongana nesizungu emva koqhawulo mtshato, jonga impilo yakho yomzimba, undwendwele ugqirha rhoqo, okanye ufune isiluleko esihle kwinkokeli yokomoya. Uqhawulo mtshato kunye nesizungu ngenxa yoxinzelelo ayisiyonto ekufuneka uyithwale njengomthwalo wengqondo kubo bonke ubomi bakho.
Uninzi lwabantu lujamelana nesizungu emva koqhawulo-mtshato njengoko baziva beneentloni ngokwabelana ngeengxaki zabo nezabo zivaliweyo okanye kwanonyango. Oku kuthintela indlela yabo yokubuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo, kunye nobomi babo ekuhlaleni kunye nokudala umjikelo okhohlakeleyo wesizungu apho bacinga ukuba bangcono bodwa.
Banokucinga ukuba akukho sicombululo sikhoyo okanye bakufumanisa kunzima ukubathemba abanye. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, ukuthatha uncedo lwamaqela enkxaso apho abanye abantu bajongene nesithukuthezi emva koqhawulo-mtshato kungangqinisisa. Akukho nto ingcono kunokuthetha nabantu abakwisikhephe esinye, akunjalo?
Ukuba oko kubonakala ngathi kungumsebenzi otyhafisayo ucinga ukuba ukufumana uqhawulo-mtshato akukho lula, qala ngokugcina incwadi ubhale phantsi iingcinga zakho yonke imihla. Nangona uthulula iintlungu zakho kwidayari yakho, uya kuziva ngathi uthetha nomhlobo wakho osenyongweni.
Umntu omamele kwaye angakugwebi ngenxa yeemvakalelo zakho zokuziva ulilolo emva koqhawulo-mtshato.
Musa ukudibanisa ixesha lobomi bonke
Phatha amava amabi njengesigaba esidlulileyo xa bekunyanzelekile. Kukho ezinye izinto ezivuyisayo ebomini bakho ezifuna ukuphononongwa. Ukuxinezeleka emva koqhawulo-mtshato kunokuba yinto eqhelekileyo kodwa ukuhlala uziva ulilolo emva koqhawulo-mtshato ayisiyiyo into ekufuneka uyinyamezele ubomi bakho bonke.
Ke phuma uye apho kwaye uqalise ukuzifumanisa ukuba yintoni eyona nto ibalulekileyo kuwe:
Ngaba luxolo lwangaphakathi?
Ngaba inemvakalelo yolonwabo?
Ngaba ikwenye indawo?
Ke indlela yokujongana nesizungu emva kokwahlukana.
Khumbula: Okona kubi kugqityiwe.
Ukwenza utshintsho olucothayo noluzinzileyo
Ukoyisa imiba enxulumene noqhawulo-mtshato kuthatha ixesha ukuze ke kufuneka utshintshe ngokuthe ngcembe ufumane oko kukwenza wonwabe kwaye emva koko usebenzele kuko. Emva koqhawulo-mtshato okanye ukwahlukana iqabane lakho lisenokuba lahamba nomnye umntu kwaye kubuhlungu. Kodwa loo nto ayifanele kuchaphazela uvuyo lwakho kunye noxolo lwangaphakathi njengoko kufanele ukuba luvela ngaphakathi.
Ukuba unabantwana abaphantsi kolawulo lwakho, bonelela ngenkxaso eyoneleyo nabo. Ngapha koko, ukucetyiswa kosapho kubonelela ngendlela apho iinkxalabo zomntu wonke zinokuthi zichongwe kwaye ziqwalaselwe. Ngaphezu kwako konke, qaphela ukuba ubomi bunako kwaye buya kuqhubeka ukuba uyazivumela ixesha kunye nethuba lokuphola.
Thatha ixesha lakho ukuba buhlungu ngenxa yolwalamano olungaphumelelanga kodwa xa iimvakalelo zokuziva ulilolo emva koqhawulo-mtshato ziqala ukuhamba ngazo zonke iindlela ukuzama ukuphuma kwigobolondo lakho ukuze ubone ilanga, udibane nabantu abatsha ngaphandle kokulindeleyo kwaye uzonwabise ngokuzithanda ixesha kunye noyena mntu ubalulekileyo ebomini bakho - WENA!
Ukuba ufuna esinye isizathu sokuzibandakanya ekuzinyamekeleni ngokuzimeleyo ukujongana nesizungu emva koqhawulo-mtshato okanye ukwahlukana, cinga ngoku-Ukuphilisa kwakho kuya kukhuthaza abanye abakwisangqa sakho ukuba nabo bazinakekele.