Umxholo
- Yintoni ekrwitshiweyo ngokwesini okanye ukukhukhumala okungafunekiyo?
- Ngaba amaqabane akhetha ukukrwitshwa?
- Gcina umkhuba phantsi kwetshekhi
- Thatha amanyathelo
Ubomi babunzima kakhulu xa 'isondo' sasiyinto nje 'yokwenza uthando.' Kodwa, izinto ziye zintsonkotha njengoko sikhula.
Ngoku, ukugqitywa kwesigama kunye ne-acronyms kusishiya sixakekile kwaye kusenze sizibuze. Umxube okhulayo kunye nomdlalo awungenanga kuphela kwiingubo zethu kodwa uye wathula cwaka phakathi kwamashiti ethu.
Amaqabane abonisa izakhono zabo ze-acrobatic ebhedini kwaye bazisa abantwana babo ngaphakathi kumagumbi abo okulala.
Enye yezo minqweno kwigumbi lokulala kubandakanya ukukrwitsha iqabane labo ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo. Ukuba le yindebe yakho yeti kwaye ulumkile, lo mkhuba ungamsa umntu kwinqanaba lokugcoba.
Ukwabelana ngesondo bubugcisa, kwaye udinga izakhono zokuthatha iqabane lakho liye kwinqanaba elonwabisayo. Kwaye njengazo zonke izakhono ezifundwayo, umntu kufuneka aziqhelanise nzima nokwenza ngcono ebhedini. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, “ukuziqhelanisa akwenzi ugqibelele. Kukuziqhelanisa okugqibeleleyo kuphela okugqibeleleyo. ”
Iindawo ezingamanyala zigcwele iividiyo kwi-BDSM, ii-MILF, isini sabaselula, iStmmom, kunye nobudlelwane be-Incest. Nangona 'isini esiminxayo' singahlulwanga ngokucacileyo, olu hlobo lwesenzo sesondo sesinye sezenzo eziqhelekileyo kwizigaba ezikhankanyiweyo.
Unokumangaliswa yinto yokuba ezi ndawo zingamanyala zitsalela ukugcwala kwabantu kumajelo edijithali.
Abanye abantu bayazibuza ukuba kwenzeka njani ukukrwitsha umntu ekugqibeleni anike omnye umntu uyolo?
Ukufumana impendulo, masambe nzulu kulo mbandela.
Yintoni ekrwitshiweyo ngokwesini okanye ukukhukhumala okungafunekiyo?
I-Wikipedia ichaza ukulala ngesondo njengokukrwitshwa 'njenge-asphyxiation (eyahlukeneyo ibizwa ngokuba yi-asphyxiophilia, i-hypoxyphilia okanye umdlalo wolawulo lokuphefumla),' 'ekuthinteleni ngabom ioksijini kwingqondo ngenjongo yokuvuselela inkanuko yesini.'
Ngokucacileyo, kukho inkcazo emva kwale meko ikhulayo phakathi kwabantu abafumana ukonwaba kwiividiyo nakwizenzo ezinje 'ngesondo lokuminxeka,' 'ubukhoboka kunye nokuhlushwa, njalo njalo.
Uphawu lwe-sadomasochist ebantwini luye lwadida abaninzi. Abantu bazamile ukucacisa izizathu zokukhetha ezi ndlela zokuziphatha. Umzekelo -
UGqr.Gail Dines, umlweli olwa nephonografi, kunye noprofesa kwiKholeji yase Wheelock eBoston, kutsha nje babhala ukuba abafazi abakrwitshiweyo ngumsindo. Iphawulwe njengolonwabo, umdlalo ophefumlayo.
Kwangokunjalo, ingxelo ka-Ian Kerner epapashwe kwiMagazini yezeMpilo yaBafazi ikwabonisa imeko yengqondo engaqhelekanga yabantu ethi izale isimilo sokuziphatha.
"Ukuphefumla ngokukhawuleza okuza emva kokuminxeka kukhupha ii-endorphins, ezidibanisa necockochemical cocktail yesini ukudala imvakalelo yovuyo olukhulu."
Ugqirha Ian Kerner ngumcebisi ngesondo, ugqirha wezengqondo, kunye nombhali wencwadi ethi 'Uza kuqala.'
Ngaba amaqabane akhetha ukukrwitshwa?
Ingxelo kaGqirha Christine Milrod epapashwe kwi-'American Conservative 'iphendula lo mbuzo ungasentla.
Ukuba nezandla zomntu entanyeni yakho, kudlala kumnandi wokuthathwa, okwaziwa ngokuba kukuphangwa.
UGqr Christine Milrod unelayisensi yoMtshato kunye neNtsapho yeTherapist eCarlifonia.
Gcina umkhuba phantsi kwetshekhi
Elona nani liphezulu lokusweleka ngenxa yokuchofa eUnited States yayiyi-5,051 ngo-2015.
I-erotic asphyxiation okanye ischoking choking yenye yezona zinto ziyingozi kwi-autoerotic. Ukunciphisa okanye ukunciphisa ukubonelelwa kweoksijini kwingqondo kubangela imeko eguqulweyo yolwazi kumenzi wobubi. Ixhoba linokufa kukudlula ngokweqile kokuphefumla okanye ukungakwazi ukuphelisa iindlela zokuzonwabisa.
Thatha amanyathelo
Nangona kunjalo, ugqirha uDebra Laino, ugqirha wezesondo / ubudlelwane, wathi Rhoqo, senza izinto ngokwesondo kuba siyazi ukuba lijika iqabane lethu. Loo nto ngokwayo inokusikhanyisela — esazi ukuba (imizimba yethu) siyayinikezela le nto uyithandayo. ”
Uqhubeke athi "ulawulo lokususa umphefumlo (womphefumlo) womnye umntu kwaye emva koko ubuyisele kubo kuyonwabisa kwabanye. Kweminye, bubunzulu bokwenza uthando, okubandakanya inqanaba lokuthembela elahlukileyo kunye ulwalamano.”
Kwelinye icala, uGqr.Stephanie Hunter Jones ulumkisa abafundi ukuba 'ukukrwitsha isini' kunokuba yingozi xa kungenziwa ngononophelo.
Utsho “oku kunokuba yinto eyingozi. Ungaze usebenzise utywala okanye iziyobisi xa usenza lo mdlalo. ”
Khumbula, ukulala ngesondo kunokuba ngumlutha kakhulu, kwaye njengazo zonke iziyobisi. Inokushiya umntu enomdla wokufuna okungakumbi nangakumbi banelise.
Ngexesha elizayo, ukuba wena kunye nomthandi wakho niyakonwabela ukuthatha elinye inyathelo xa kufikwa kumba wokuziqhelanisa nokwabelana ngesondo sasendle, lumka, kwaye unakekele ukuba ungavumeli ubundlongondlongo bakho kunye nolonwabo ukuba lungaboni.
Kulungile, kwanele! Njengabantu abadala abavumayo, niyakuyazi eyona nto ikusebenzelayo.