Umxholo
- 1. Yiba nenjongo yokudibanisa kunye
- 2. Mamela kabini ngokuthetha kwakho
- 3. Zimilise iimvakalelo zakho ngochukumiso lomzimba
- Ziqhelise ukuxolela ngokunyanisekileyo
Ixesha le-honeymoon liye laphela ngokusemthethweni. Nina nobabini nithi ngekhe niyivumele loo ntlantsi iphele, kodwa nantsi ke jammin 'Abazalwana Abalungileyo ...
“Uzama nzima ukungayibonakalisi,
Kodwa sana ... sana, ndiyayazi,
Ulahlekile, ukuziva u-lovin,
Ngubani, uvakalelo lovin,
Ulahlekelwe yimvakalelo ye-lovin,
Ngoku iphelile, imkile, ... ... ”
Olo luvo 'alunakuphulukana nalo. Ukuba u unayo ilahlekile, inokufunyanwa ngokuqinisekileyo.
Zama ezi ngcebiso ze-4 ukubuyisa uthando, amandla, kunye ne-spark emtshatweni wakho
1. Yiba nenjongo yokudibanisa kunye
Uninzi lwezibini ezilindileyo zilinde ixesha lokuba lilunge ukuze uncokole kwaye unxibelelane neqabane labo. Endaweni yokulinda umzuzwana ukuba ubethe, zenzele loo mzuzu! Qala encinci kwaye ucime imizuzu eli-10 ngosuku kangangeveki okanye ezimbini ukulahla yonke into kwaye unencoko nje. Gcina incoko ikhanya, awunyanzelekanga ukuba umbe nayiphi na imvakalelo yokuba awusiboni isidingo. Cinga ngale mizuzu ili-10 njengokuziqhelanisa nobabini ukugxila kwizakhono zakho zencoko.
Beka iifowuni phantsi, cima iTV, kwaye nichithe ixesha kunye. Okukhona wena ukuziqhelanisa ubugcisa bencoko, ukungoyiki kuya kuba xa ilixesha lokuba nentsingiselo. Yenza eli xesha libe yinto ephambili ebomini bakho kwaye kancinci kancinci uyakufumana unxibelelwano lwakho lweemvakalelo lusomelela.
2. Mamela kabini ngokuthetha kwakho
Usenokuba uyivile into edlalwayo egqithisa into enje:
"UThixo usinike iindlebe ezimbini kunye nomlomo omnye ukuze simamele kabini kunokuba sithetha."
Uyayazi into endiyithandayo malunga nokuqhwaba, nangona kunjalo? Zihlala ziyinyani ngendlela enye, imilo, okanye ifom. Kubudlelwane – isihogo, kwi konke ubudlelwane – thina bantu sinotyekelo lokuxhomekeka kwicala lokuzingca lezinto. Sizama ukulawula incoko. Sizama ukusebenzela indawo yethu yokujonga kwimpikiswano nganye. Sizama ukuqinisekisa ukuba ilizwi lethu liyavakala.
Kodwa iindleko zokugxila kuthi kakhulu kuhlala kunguye umntu oziva ekude kuthi ngenxa yokuswela ulwazi. Emtshatweni, kubaluleke kakhulu kunangaphambili ukuba ungaliva nje iqabane lakho njengoko bethetha kodwa ubamamele ngokwenene. Xa uthatha ixesha lokuva ukuba bathini kwaye baziva njani, unokufumana ukuqonda okungcono ukuba ngoobani kwaye bafuna ntoni.
Ngokuqondana okungcono omnye nomnye, ibhondi yenu iya komelela kunokuba ibinjalo kwiminyaka. Konke ngenxa yokuba ukhethe ukumamela ngcono. Ingaba ngamandla amakhulu ukuba uyayivumela!
3. Zimilise iimvakalelo zakho ngochukumiso lomzimba
Ukuthinta ngokwasemzimbeni sisinxibelelanisi esinamandla phakathi kwabantu. Ukuba ayisetyenziswanga emtshatweni wakho, isenokuba sesinye sezizathu zokuba uzive ukhutshiwe kumlingane wakho. Oku akufuneki ukuba kube malunga nokulala ngesondo, nokuba. Ukubambana ngezandla, ukwangana, nokunikana omnye nomnye ngamagxa. Nganye yezi zenzo zomzimba zilula zinokuqinisa iimvakalelo zakho komnye nomnye.
Ukubamba izandla njengawe kumhla wakho wokuqala kuya kukukhumbuza ngomlilo ovuthayo owazalwa ngala mhla. Iya kuyivusa ingqondo yakho ekuziphatheni kwayo okungazi nto kwiqabane lakho kwaye ufumane okungakumbi ngokuthanda kwabo.
Ukuwolana kunye nokuncamisa ukuqala kunye nokuqala kosuku lwakho yenye yeankile enkulu yomzimba ezinye izibini eziqala ukuyihoya emva kwethutyana. Ukuqala nokugqibezela usuku lwakho ngesenzo sothando yindlela elungileyo yokubhukisha imihla yakho kwaye uqaphele ingqondo yakho yeemvakalelo kunxibelelwano olukhoyo phakathi kwenu nobabini.
Ziqhelise ukuxolela ngokunyanisekileyo
Imitshato emininzi ibanjiswa ngumsindo nenzondo njengokuba iminyaka iqhubeka. Inye into awayenzayo kwiminyaka engama-20 eyadlulayo isabonakala inkulu kwinkcubeko yomtshato. Laa mfo wathi ubulisile ebharini isameva endodeni emva kwayo yonke le minyaka. Nokuba imeko ithini na, le nqala ayivumeli abantu ababini ukuba bahlangane kwinqanaba leemvakalelo. Ibeka iindonga ekunzima ukuzidiliza phantsi ukuba zihlala ixesha elide kangakanani.
Enye indlela yokudiliza ezi ndonga zakhiwe yinzondo kukusebenzisa ngokuqinisekileyo uxolelo emtshatweni wakho. Oku kuyakuvumela ukusondela ngokweemvakalelo okungafumanekiyo kwabo babambelele ekuphoxekeni kwabo unyaka nonyaka.
Ukuba ingxabano yabathandi iphelile kwaye uthe uxolo lwakho, qhubeka nentliziyo exolelayo kwaye uhlale uqhagamshelene neqabane lakho.
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Isiphelo
Ukugcina unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo kuwo wonke umtshato wobomi akukho lula. Kuthatha ukusebenza nzima kunye nokuqwalaselwa kweenkcukacha uninzi lwethu olunokukhetha ukulugcoba kunokuba luxhomekeke kulo. Usebenzisa ezi ngcebiso zivela ngasentla, ndiyathemba ukuba uza kuvula amasango ezikhukhula othando kunye noxabiso omnye komnye. Njengoko ixesha lihamba, ukusebenzisa le migaqo kuya kubaluleka ngakumbi, ke ungaze ungayihoyi imbopheleleko yakho yokutshisa idangatye phakathi kwakho neqabane lakho rhoqo.