Umxholo
- Ukulutha ngokwesondo kunokuba sisifo esonakalisayo
- Ngaba unengxaki yokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo?
- Ngaba uhlala ucinga ngesondo?
- Uhlala uphulula amaphambili?
- Ngaba ufumanisa ukuba ufuna iphonografi rhoqo?
- Ngaba ukungathembeki kungene kubudlelwane bakho bexesha elide?
- Ngaba uyazithanda?
Ngaba unomdla wokuqonda imiqondiso ebonakalayo yesini? Kuyenzeka ukuba nokuba ulikhoboka lesini ngokwakho, okanye ulixhoba lesini.
Kuzo zombini iimeko, kuya kufuneka ufunde ukufumanisa iimpawu zokulutha ngokwesondo kubudlelwane. Kungelo xesha apho unokuthatha amanyathelo afanelekileyo okujongana nayo.
Funda kunye nokuqonda imiqondiso ebonakalayo yokulutha ngokwesondo onokuthi ukujongise ngokufanelekileyo.
Kungabonakala kungaqhelekanga ukuva ilizwi lika-Angelou kwisiqwenga esijongana nemiceli mngeni yokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo, kodwa u-Angelou unokuninzi anokukutsho malunga nomxholo wokulutha, kunye nabanye abanjengabo.
“Andazi nokuba ndiyaqhubeka na, nanamhlanje, ndihlala ndizithanda. Kodwa into endiyifundileyo ukuyenza kwiminyaka emininzi eyadlulayo, yayikukuzixolela.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba wonke umntu azixolele ngoba ukuba uyaphila, uyakwenza iimpazamo- ayinakuphepheka. Kodwa xa usenzile kwaye uyibona impazamo, uzixolele kwaye uthi, 'kulungile, ukuba bendazi ngcono ukuba bendenze ngcono,' kuphelele apho.
Ke uthi kubantu ocinga ukuba usenokuba wenzakele, 'ndiyaxolisa,' emva koko uthi kuwe, 'Uxolo.' Ukuba sonke sibambelele kwimpazamo, asinakububona ubuqaqawuli bethu esipilini kuba sinempazamo phakathi kobuso bethu nesipili; asiziboni ukuba sinjani. ” UMaya Angelou
Sisoloko siziphatha ngendlela eyingozi xa siphethe umthwalo omkhulu ngaphakathi kwethu. Enye indlela, sizenzakalise thina kunye nabanye esibathandayo xa sisentlungwini ngaphakathi.
Ukulutha ngokwesondo kunokuba sisifo esonakalisayo
Kwelinye icala, ikhoboka lesondo linokusibamba ixesha, ukugxila, kunye nokuzibophelela ekuzinyamekeleni. Kwelinye icala, ikhoboka lesondo linokonakalisa ubudlelwane obujikeleze thina.
Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kunciphisa "ukudibanisa" okubaluleke kakhulu ebomini bethu kwaye kunokuzisa ezinye izinto ezingathandekiyo kubudlelwane bethu.
Ngaba unengxaki yokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo?
Ndazi njani ukuba ndinamakhoboka esini?
Inyani yokuba unolwazi olwaneleyo lokusebenzisa eli nqaku iphakamisa ukuba nokuba uziqaphele iimpawu zokulutha ngokwesondo kwiqabane lakho, okanye uzimisele ukufumana uncedo kunye nokuqhubela phambili ngobomi bakho.
Xa isondo liyijongela phantsi impilo yethu kwaye lonakalisa ukuzibophelela kwethu kusapho, emsebenzini, nasekuhlaleni, lixesha lokuba ufumane uncedo. Funda ukuze ubone ukuba zingaphi kwezi zinto zokumakisha ngokwesondo ezihambelana nemeko yakho.
Ngaba uhlala ucinga ngesondo?
Ukuba iminqweno yesini iba yinto ocinga ngayo ekwenza uphile ubomi obunemveliso, unokuba nengxaki. Ngelixa uninzi lwabantu luyonwabele okanye luyonwabele isondo ngaxa lithile ebomini, ukuzixakekisa ngokupheleleyo ngesondo yingxaki.
Ukuba imfesane yesondo okanye isondo kukugcina ungagqibezeli umsebenzi okanye ezinye izibophelelo, ke le miqondiso ebonakalayo yokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo.
Lixesha lokuba uthathe inyathelo ubuye umva, "Kutheni?" Ukuba uziva ngathi awunakuba nenjongo kulo msebenzi, yabelana "ngeepatheni" zakho nomnye umntu, kwaye ubuze ingxelo yabo.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba likhoboka lesini akunakukunceda nganto ekuhambeni kwexesha.
Uhlala uphulula amaphambili?
Ngelixa oku kunokuziva njengombuzo ongonwabisiyo ukuzibuza wona, impendulo iya kukunceda ubone ukuba umlutha uyadlala.
Abantu baphulula amalungu esini. Ngapha koko, phantse wonke umntu omdala kule planethi uphulula amalungu esini ngamanye amaxesha okanye elinye. Umcimbi kukuhamba rhoqo.
Ukuba uzibona uphulula amalungu esini izihlandlo ezininzi ngemini kwaye malunga nayo yonke imihla yeveki, lixesha lokuba ufune uncedo. Okwangoku, ukuphulula amalungu esini kukugcina ungafezekisi imisebenzi yokuphila kwansuku zonke.
Ukuba uhlamba i-masturbate ngaphantsi kodwa uhlala uhlambalaza emva kokudibana ngesondo kunye neqabane, kukho isizathu sokukhathazeka.
Ngaba ufumanisa ukuba ufuna iphonografi rhoqo?
Ngelixa sinokuthi singavumi kwingxoxo malunga "nokuziphatha" kokubukela iphonografi kwasekuqaleni, masiqhubeke phambili kwaye samkele ukuba ukuthenga ukubhaliswa kwamanyala iphonografi sesinye seempawu zokuziphatha gwenxa ngokwesini okanye uphawu lokuba usiya kumhlaba wokulutha.
Ukongeza, ukuba iphonografi ibeka isifotho ekuhambeni kwemali yakho yemihla ngemihla, unokucinga ukuba unengxaki enkulu. Iphonografi iyabachasa abantu kwaye ayiniki nanye yezibonelelo zobudlelwane obusempilweni.
Ungazityesheli ezi mpawu zesilumkiso somlutha wesini ukuba uyazichonga, lixesha lazo lokuthatha amanyathelo ngengxaki.
Ngaba ukungathembeki kungene kubudlelwane bakho bexesha elide?
Ngelixa abantu bekhankanya uninzi lwezizathu zokungathembeki, kubalulekile ukwamkela ukuba ukunganyaniseki kuyabutshabalalisa ubudlelwane.
Olunye lweempawu ezibonakalayo zokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo emtshatweni kuxa ukungathembeki kwakho kubandakanya ukuhamba ukusuka kwiqabane ukuya kwiqabane rhoqo.
Ngaba wena kunye neqabane lakho (ama) niyalufumana uncedo!
Ukunganyaniseki nako kunokuzisa ii-STD kwi-equation. Ngaba uyafuna ukuzisa i-STD kubudlelwane bexesha elide ngenxa yokungaziphathi kakuhle ngokwesondo? Ngaba uyafuna iqabane likwenzele oku?
Bukela le vidiyo ukuze ufumane ulwazi olunzulu malunga neziyobisi:
Ngaba uyazithanda?
Lo ngowona mbuzo ubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uzibuze wona njengoko ubona ukuba umlutha wesini uyabenza nzima na ubomi bakho.
Abantu abaqhele ukubonisa imiqondiso yokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo bahlala benganokusombululwa kokonzakala ngokweemvakalelo abanazo abafuna ukwaneliseka rhoqo kunye nokunxibelelana. Ngandlela thile, ukuqhubela phambili kwisondo okuqhubekayo okanye iminqweno yesini kukhuthazwa ngumnqweno wokugcwalisa izinto ezingenanto entliziyweni nasemphefumlweni.
Ngokubanzi, siyazi ukuba siyazithanda okanye asizithandi. Ukuba impendulo yakho ngu-"hayi "oqinisekileyo, yazi ke ukuba lixesha lokuba udibane nomcebisi, ugqirha wezengqondo, okanye umfundisi oxhobele ngokwaneleyo.
Xa ulungisa izinto ezingenanto entliziyweni, unyango lunokuqala nyhani ebomini bethu.
Singabantu bezesondo, sinemfuza yobunzima besini kunye nokuzala. Ukwabelana ngesondo sisipho esihle nesinenjongo.
Kodwa xa isondo lonakalisa ubudlelwane bethu, ukuzibophelela kwethu, kunye nempilo yethu yeemvakalelo / yomzimba, kufuneka sibuyele umva kwaye siqwalasele ukuba sibonisa iimpawu zokulutha ngokwesondo.
Kukho uncedo ukuba ujongene neziyobisi. Ukukhathalela abantu abanjengabacebisi, iinkokheli zokomoya, kunye nabahlobo abathembekileyo bahlala bekulungele ukungena kwingxaki yakho ukubonelela ngoncedo kunye nenkxaso esemagqabini.
Zama ukuchonga iimpawu zokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo ngokwakho.
Xelela ibali lakho kubantu abazimiseleyo nabakulungele ukunceda. Lungiselela ukuvumela imisinga yonyango ebomini bakho.