Umxholo
- Khuthaza iqabane lakho
- Mamela
- Yenza ubuchule ngale nto unayo
- Funda isingqisho
- Sebenzisa ulwimi lomzimba wakho
- Akukho nto iya kuze ibengcono ngaphandle kokwenza
Ukuthandana okungaqhelekanga kunokufana nokuzonwabisa nje, kwaye nangona abantu behlala becinga ngokufanayo "ngesini esingaqhelekanga", izinto azinyuki ngokukhawuleza kwimizuzu yokuqala enidibana ngayo.
Ewe, inokuza ekugqibeleni, kodwa ukuthandana nomntu, nokuba yinto eqhelekileyo kwaye akukho nto imbi, kuyafana nesiko, kwaye sonke siyazi ukuba lonke isiko linemigaqo yalo. Isitshixo salo naluphi na ulwalamano, nokuba lolwexeshana okanye oluzinzileyo, kukwazi ukuba ungathetha njani neqabane lakho kwaye ulikhohlise ngobukrelekrele bakho bokuqonda bokuncokola.
Uninzi lwexesha esilichitha nabantu esithandana nabo abathandanayo bayathetha.
Ngamanye amaxesha kusenokwenzeka ukuba siphele simi esihlokweni esithandabuzekayo, okanye siqalise umxholo ontununtunu ngexesha leentetho ezincinci esinazo namaqabane ethu, kwaye sineentloni zokuba singakwazi ukuqhubela phambili incoko; oku akuthethi ukuba kuya kuba sisiphelo sencoko emnandi obukade uzibandakanya kuyo kwaye uyonwabele.
Siye saqulunqa ezona ngcebiso zingcono zokuthetha ngokuthandana ngokungaqhelekanga, njengokumamela, ukukhuthaza, kunye nezinye iingcebiso eziluncedo onokuthi uzakhe ngokulula izakhono ezisebenzayo, kwaye njani kwaye nini ukuze uzisebenzise kakuhle.
Khuthaza iqabane lakho
Ukuba uyabambeka kwisihloko kwaye uphelelwe ziimbono, zama ukukhuthaza omnye umntu ukuba athethe ngakumbi ngaye.
Abantu bayathanda ukuthetha malunga neziqu zabo, kwaye leyo yeyona nto bayaziyo.
Qala ukubuza imibuzo, kwaye khumbula, soloko unomdla onyanisekileyo kumaqabane akho nakwinto abaya kuyithetha.
Mamela
Ukuba ngumphathi olungileyo wokuncokola kuthetha ukuba ngumphulaphuli olungileyo, kwaye oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uphumele ngaphandle, uye emaphethelweni encoko kwaye uzahlule kwabanye; Usafuna ukubandakanyeka kwincoko oyenzayo.
Yiba nomdla wokwenene kwinto ethethwa liqabane lakho kwaye uqiniseke ukuba sithetha ntoni na esinye isithethi ngokuhoya xa uncokola, ukunqwala okanye ukuncuma, nokunikezela ngezimvo ezilungileyo kumyalezo iqabane lakho elizama ukukuhambisa.
Abanye abantu bakhetha ukuthandana ngokungaqhelekanga ngamanye amaxesha nje ukuba nomntu obaphulaphulayo.
Yenza ubuchule ngale nto unayo
Soloko unemixholo enomdla okhoyo kubaqalayo bencoko.
Zama ukuhlala unolwazi ngeendaba, ukuzonwabisa, okanye iindlela zamva nje, ukuze usoloko unento ecocekileyo ukuqala kunye nokongeza kwincoko yakho.
Funda isingqisho
Kufana nomculo, kwaye kunyanzelekile ukuba wazi ukuba unqumama nini ulinde kwintetho.
Ukuba uqala ukuqhuba incoko kwaye uqhubeke nokuhamba, emva koko intetho iya kuqala ukubonakala ngathi kukuncinwa, endaweni yokuncokola ngobuhlobo, kwaye iqabane lakho eliphikisayo liyakucaphuka kwaye ekugqibeleni lilahle. Oku kuya ngokulandelelana.
Lawula ingxoxo kuphela xa umntu ekubeke kuloo ndawo ngokubonisa umdla omkhulu kuwe.
Sebenzisa ulwimi lomzimba wakho
Kuyaziwa ukuba i-55% yonxibelelwano lwethu ibonakaliswe ngaphandle kwamagama, ngeendlela ezingezizo ezomlomo, imbonakalo yobuso, okanye utshintsho kwindlela yokuma.
Uninzi lolwazi esizama ukuluhambisa luza ngokungazi kwaye lukhatshwa yintetho ngezi zinto zilandelayo, kodwa sinokufunda ukuziveza ngokuzazi.
Akukho nto iya kuze ibengcono ngaphandle kokwenza
Uya kuhlala uzifumana kwiindawo ezibucayi apho intetho encinci iya kuqala ukuthatha indawo enesidima kwaye uya kunyanzelwa ukuba ukhanyise imeko, oko kukuthi ukuba awufuni kuphulukana nengxoxo.
Nokuba uphi, kwilifti emsebenzini ubulisa oogxa bakho, ekhaya neqabane lakho, kwi-cashier kwivenkile ekufutshane nawe, ungasebenzisa zonke ezi ndlela zingasentla sizidwelisile kuyo nayiphi na imeko ukukhanyisa umoya ngokuncokola panache.
Uya kuqala ukufumana 'iincoko ezinencoko', amaqhekeza olwazi anokubonisa ixabiso elilelakho, aphoswe kweyona ncoko ixhaphakileyo.
Uyakumangaliswa kukuba uya kuphosa ezi 'gem' zenzelwe abanye. Singafunda okuninzi ngakumbi kwaye sibe nobuhle, ubudlelwane obunenkqubela phambili kunye nobutyebi xa sikhuthaza kuphela, simamela, kwaye sidanisa ngakumbi kwisigqi samagama esiwabelana ngaso kubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla.