Umxholo
- Uqala njani ukubona ugqirha
- Izibonelelo zokubona unyango
- Kukho into engalunganga xa ucebisa ngengcali
- Ukubona ugqirha woxinzelelo
- Ukubona ugqirha emva kokwahlukana
- Umgqirha uya kuba ngumhlobo wakho, umcebisi, umcebisi, ugqirha
Ukukhula, siyaqonda ukuba umhlaba awenziwe ngee-unicorn kunye nemnyama. Ngokukhawuleza xa singena kwisikolo samabanga aphantsi, sinoxanduva. Uninzi lwabantu alupheli de sife.
Ukuba imalunga noxanduva lomntu kuphela, uninzi lwabemi lunokujamelana nalo, de ubomi buthathe isigqibo sokuphosa iibhola ezijikajikayo. Xa izinto zisonakala, uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo zanele ukuba abanye abantu bawele kuxinzelelo.
Sibhenela kubahlobo nakwintsapho yethu ukuze sifumane uncedo, ngelixa abanye besiya kugqirha.
Uqala njani ukubona ugqirha
Zininzi izizathu zokuba kutheni abantu beguqukele kubuchwephesha endaweni yezihlobo kunye nosapho. Esona sizathu siqhelekileyo ngabahlobo okanye usapho lwethu banokusiboleka indlebe kwaye banike iingcebiso, kodwa abaqeqeshwanga ngokwenyani ukusombulula iingxaki zabanye abantu. Uninzi lunobomi balo neengxaki zalo.
Banokusinika ixesha labo, besenza konke okusemandleni abo ngaphandle kokubeka emngciphekweni uxanduva lwabo.
Kukho ezinye izizathu zokukhetha ukuba abantu baye kunyangi. Ukugcinwa okuyimfihlo, umyalelo wenkundla, kunye nokudluliselwa ukukhankanya nje ezimbalwa. Kwizigulana zokuzithandela, ukukhetha i-Therapist elungileyo linyathelo elibalulekileyo xa ubona itherapist okokuqala.
Abacebisi abaqeqeshiweyo bahambelana neendlela ezahlukeneyo kunye nezikolo zokucinga. Izikolo, ayisiyiyo malunga nokuba bafumana phi isidanga, kodwa ithiyori ethile abayilandelayo.
Kukwabalulekile kwizigulana ezihamba-hamba ukuthanda ingcali yazo. Inqanaba elithile lekhemistri phakathi kwesigulana kunye nomcebisi lonyusa ukuthembana kunye nokuqonda. Inqanaba eliphezulu lokuthuthuzela lenza iiseshoni zibe nentsingiselo, zivelise iziqhamo, kwaye zimnandi.
Uninzi lweengcali zale mihla zibonelela ngokubonisana simahla. Inceda ukuba ilinganise inqanaba lonyango oluyimfuneko ukunceda isigulana. Ikwaxelela nokuba banganceda na. Uninzi lweetheraphisti zijolise kwingxaki ethile, zingathanda ukwazi ukuba into oyifunayo, yinto abanokuyinyanga.
Izibonelelo zokubona unyango
Iingcali zonyango ezinelayisensi zineyona nto iphambili ngokuxoxa nje ngezinto nabantu obathembileyo. Banokukunika amayeza -ibhedi ongakhange uyicinge loo nto.
Umgqirha unokunika indawo ekhuselekileyo yokuxoxa ngeemvakalelo zakho kwaye akukhokele ekusombululeni ezo ngxaki. Ilungu losapho elikrelekrele nelinothando linokukwenza oko. Abacebisi abaziingcali baqeqeshwe kakuhle ukuba bafikelele ezantsi kwingxaki kwaye bakufundise ukuba ungabathintela njani ukuba bangenzeki kwakhona kwixesha elizayo.
Umhlobo olungileyo onamava amaninzi anokukunceda kuloo nto. Nangona kunjalo, ngaphandle kokuba ngoogqirha ngokwabo, abanakho ukukhupha amayeza ukuba uyawafuna. Kukho iingxaki ezibangela ukonakala kwengqondo kunye neemvakalelo ezithintela umntu ukuba aphile ubomi obuqhelekileyo. Ngugqirha onelayisensi kuphela kunye neepilisi ezimbalwa ezinokukunceda oko.
Kukho ezinye izibonelelo zokubona i-Therapist, njengengcali, banalo uqeqesho oluninzi kunye namava okunceda umntu ngale nto ahamba kuyo.
Abanye abantu banokuxhomekeka kumava abo kwiingcebiso, kodwa ngumcebisi kuphela owenzayo yonke imihla onokuba nokuqonda okunzulu ngale meko, ngakumbi xa isigulana sinobunzima bokuxoxa ngaso.
Kukho into engalunganga xa ucebisa ngengcali
Ngokungafaniyo nokuxoxa ngeengxaki zakho nabahlobo bakho kunye nosapho, kuya kufuneka uhlawule umphathiswa ngexesha labo. Iindleko zokubona i-Therapist ayibizi, kodwa ayibizi kangako.
Kodwa imali ayibizi.
Kuya kufuneka unike umntu ubuchule bakho kunye nexesha lokwenza. Ifuna impilo yengqondo, yeemvakalelo kunye neyasemzimbeni. Ukuba ukhathazwa yinto echaphazela impilo yakho yengqondo kunye neemvakalelo, iya kuchaphazela nokukwazi kwakho ukwenza imali.
Ukubona i-Therapist akufani nokutyala imali kuwe.
Ukubona ugqirha woxinzelelo
Ixhala ligama elibanzi. Iyakwazi ukusuka kuyo nayiphi na into phakathi kweenyawo ezibandayo ukuya kuhlaselo olugcweleyo. Uloyiko kunye noxinzelelo lubonisa ubuso bayo obubi ngeendlela ezininzi apho kukho uninzi lwezichazi zokuchaza.
Kuxhomekeke emntwini kwaye banakho ukuyiphatha kakuhle, uhlaselo loxinzelelo lunokumisa ingqondo nomzimba ekwenzeni nantoni na. Ukuba umntu akanakhubazeka ngenxa yoxinzelelo, abanakho ukwenza imisebenzi yabo. Amatyala asaza kuza njengewotshi, kwaye iingxaki ezininzi ziya kufumbana. Okukhona iqhubeka, kokukhona kuya kuthatha nzima ukuyifumana kwakhona.
Ukuxhalaba kufana netyala elinokudibanisa inzala. Okukhona lihlala ixesha elide epokothweni, kokukhona liya lisinda. Okukhona kusiba nzima, kokukhona kunzima ukulahla. Isangqa esikhohlakeleyo.
Umntu okuloo meko uziva ebambekile kwaye engenakunceda, ibenza balahle ithemba kwaye baqhubeke nokunyusa ingxaki. Ingcali kuphela eya kuba nexesha, umonde kunye nokuqonda ukukhokela umntu kuloo meko.
Ukubona ugqirha emva kokwahlukana
Esinye sezizathu eziqhelekileyo zokuba kutheni umntu ephuka ngoxinzelelo, unxunguphalo kunye nezinye izizathu kukwahlukana okungalunganga. Kuphela ngabantu abakhathalele ngokwenene ubudlelwane babo kwaye bacinga ngekamva kunye neqabane labo abaya kuhamba ngalo. Ukuba ubudlelwane buyinyama kuphela, iintlungu kunye nomsindo ngekhe kuhlale ixesha elide.
Ukuthatha ukuba umntu uphulukene nolona tyalo mali lubalulekileyo ebomini, kuthatha umntu owomeleleyo ukuzikhethela kuyo kwaye aqhubeke nokuqhubela phambili. Ngelishwa, ayinguye wonke umntu onalo hlobo lokuzithemba.
Umgqirha uya kuba ngumhlobo wakho, umcebisi, umcebisi, ugqirha
Uninzi lwabantu luyaqhubeka nolwalamano olusondeleyo kunye nonyango lwabo ngaphandle kweseshoni ezihlawulelweyo. Imiba enje ngoxinzelelo lokwahlulahlana inokuphinda yenzeke, yiyo loo nto iingcali zonyango kunye nezigulana zigcina zisondele kunxibelelwano kunye ukuthintela ukubuyela umva. Kukwakho neemeko apho basebenza njengogqirha wothando ukunqanda ukuthandana nabantu abangalunganga kwakhona.
Kukho intetho ethi yonke into oyifunayo ebomini ngugqirha olungileyo, igqwetha, umgcini zincwadi. Ezi ntsuku ufuna ugqirha olungileyo kunye ne-intanethi.
Zingangabikho iimfazwe zehlabathi kwizizukulwana ezidlulileyo, kodwa iimfuno zobomi bethu bemihla ngemihla kunye nokhuphiswano oluqatha koontanga bethu zanele ukuba abanye abantu baphule umthetho. Ukubona i-Therapist kunokunceda nabani na ukuba abuyele esihlalweni kwaye aqhubeke kwaye abe negalelo eluntwini.