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- Oomolokazana abadala kunye nokuzilungiselela
- Ukunyuka kwexesha lokuphila
- Ke, kukho ubomi emva kothando
- Ukuthandana kwi-Intanethi
- Ukutshintsha kwezimvo
Ngenxa yokwanda koqhawulo-mtshato, abanye banokucinga ukuba uthando lufile. Kodwa, azinakuba ziphosakele ngakumbi. Uphando lubonisa ukuba uqhawulo-mtshato lunokubhenela kwi-intanethi ukuthandana ukuze bafumane uthando lwabo olulandelayo kwaye abaninzi bayaphinda batshata xa becinga ukuba bafumene olungileyo. Jonga umhlaba wothando lwabaqhawule umtshato kunye nabadala ...
Oomolokazana abadala kunye nokuzilungiselela
Amaxabiso oqhawulo mtshato e-UK ayenyuka. Kwakukho i-106,959 yoqhawulo-mtshato ngo-2016 -ukunyuka kwe-5.8%.
Ngokukodwa, amanani-manani abonisa ukuba ukwanda kwezinga loqhawulo mtshato kwenzeka kwizibini ezingaphezulu kweminyaka engama-50.
Inani lamadoda aqhawula umtshato aneminyaka engama-65 nangaphezulu linyuke nge-25%, ngelixa abasetyhini abakwiminyaka efanayo bekhuphuke ngama-38%. Kodwa, kutheni sicinga ukuba oku kuyenzeka?
Ukunyuka kwexesha lokuphila
Njengoko ixesha lokuphila likhula, abantu baphila ixesha elide, kwaye banexesha elininzi lokuphela kunye nokwenza ubudlelwane obutsha.
Kungenzeka ukuba, emva kokuba umntu efelwe ngumhlolokazi, baseneminyaka eli-10 okanye engama-20 ngaphambili kwaye bafuna ukwabelana nabanye ngale nto. Abantu abaneminyaka engama-65 nangaphezulu kunokwenzeka ngakumbi kunangaphambili ukuba basebenze. Oku kuthetha ukuba abantu bayakwazi ukuzixhasa ngokwasemalini ngaphandle komtshato kwaye banokuzithemba kwisicelo soqhawulo mtshato.
Ke, kukho ubomi emva kothando
Uphononongo lubonisa inani labatshakazi nabaneminyaka engama-65 nangaphezulu lenyuke ngama-46% phakathi konyaka ka-2004 ukuya ku-2014. umtshato wokuqala.
Oku kubonisa ukuba abantu bazimisele ukuqhubekeka emva kokuphela kobudlelwane, nokuba kuyenzeka kwiminyaka ezayo.
Zininzi ii-singles kweli qela leminyaka nazo. Ngapha koko, inani labasetyhini abakwiminyaka yamashumi amahlanu okuqala abangazange batshate lenyuke nge-150% kwiminyaka eli-13 phakathi konyaka wama-2002 nowama-2015, nakumadoda, lenyuke ngama-70%.
Ewe, baninzi abantu abakwishumi elivisayo abaphinda batshata kwakhona, kwaye ngokufikelela kwi-Intanethi ukuthandana, ukufumana umntu ohambelana naye akukaze kube lula kangako.
Ukuthandana kwi-Intanethi
Ukuthandana kwi-Intanethi ngoku ayisiyonto ye-tech-savvy engamashumi amabini kuphela. Iminyaka yobudala yedater ekwi-Intanethi okwangoku ingama-38-ke kuyacaca ukuba abantu abadala abaqolileyo bayayamkela imeko kunye nokutsiba ebhodini ukufumana umntu wabo okhethekileyo. Ukuthandana kwi-Intanethi kuvumela abantu abanomdla ofanayo, onokuthi ungabinayo indlela eyahlukileyo yokunxibelelana.
Ngokunyuka kokusetyenziswa kwe-smartphone, ukuthandana kwi-Intanethi kuyafikeleleka kunanini na ngokukhuphela usetyenziso. Ngelixa ivolumu yokukhangela, 'iisayithi zokuthandana kwi-Intanethi' zehle nge-20% ukusuka ngoFebruwari 2015 ukuya kuFebruwari 2018, ukukhangela 'iiapps zokuthandana' kunyuke phantse ngama-50%.
Ukuthandana kwi-Intanethi kujongwa njengeqonga elikhuselekileyo kwabaninzi- ngaphandle koxinzelelo lokudibana ebomini kwaye kukuvumela ukuba ufunde ngakumbi ngomnye ngaphandle kokuthetha ubuso ngobuso. Kumntu onokuba utshatile uninzi lobomi babo kwaye esoyika ukudibana nabantu abatsha, oku kubalulekile.
Kubantu abadala, inokuba kuphela malunga nokufumana ubudlelwane obukhula bube yinto engaphezulu. Isizungu sinokuba yingxaki kwabaninzi ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-65 kwaye unxibelelwano kwi-Intanethi lunokunceda. Ngapha koko, iipesenti ezili-12 zeminyaka engaphezulu kwama-65 ubudala bathi babedibene nomntu kwiwebhusayithi yokuthandana online.
Njengobudala beminyaka eliwaka, kulula ukuqikelela ukuba ukusetyenziswa kweintanethi ukuthandana kubantu abadala kuya kunyuka. Kwisifundo esinye esenziwe yi-eHarmony, kwaxelwa kwangaphambili ukuba ngo-2050, ubukhulu becala abantu abadala baya kusebenzisa ukuthandana kwi-Intanethi. Baxela kwangaphambili ukuba iminyaka ephakathi yedater ekwi-intanethi iya kunyuka iye kuma-47 kunye nama-82% abantu abaza kufumana amaqabane abo kwi-Intanethi.
Ukutshintsha kwezimvo
Ngaba zizimvo zethu eziguqukayo ngokwahlukana eziqhuba inqanaba loqhawulo-mtshato kunye nokukhuthaza uthando lwesibini (okanye lwesithathu, okanye lwesine)? Kwisifundo esinye se-YouGov, esasipopola abantu abangama-2 000 base-Bhritane, kwafunyaniswa ukuba phantse isibini kwisithathu sabantu asicingi ukuba kukho ibala eliqhotyoshelwe ekupheliseni umtshato.
Ngesinye isikhathi, iinkolelo zonqulo zazixhaphake kakhulu kwaye zazingavumelekanga ukuba ziqhawule kwaye zitshatile kwakhona. Ababini kulindeleke ukuba bachithe ubomi babo bonke kunye nabo babopha iqhina kunye nabo. Kodwa ngoku, iipesenti ezi-4 zabantu ekuthe kwavunyelwana ngabo bathi bayavuma ngokupheleleyo ukuba uqhawulo-mtshato luyinto engekhoyo. Endaweni yokuba ukwahlukana kwamkelwe, kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba umntu aqale ukuthandana kwakhona emva komtshato.
Njengoko sibona, akukaze kube semva kothando! Ukuthandana kwi-Intanethi kwenza kube lula kwabo bahlulekileyo ukufumana umntu omtsha. Kwaye ukutshintsha kwesimo sengqondo kuthetha ukuba abantu abaninzi bayalwamkela uthando lwesibini.