Umxholo
Amaqabane atshatela uthando, ngesiqhelo. Baye babafumana abalingane bomphefumlo kwaye bakulungele ukuchitha ubomi babo bonke behleli ngokonwaba ngonaphakade. Ekuqaleni komanyano lwabo, benza umtshato wabo ube yeyona nto iphambili. Nangona kunjalo, izibini ezininzi ziyalibala ukuqhubeka nokubeka umtshato wazo kuqala xa sele zinabantwana, kwaye oko kukhokelela kumanqanaba aphezulu oqhawulo-mtshato phakathi kwamantshontsho angenanto.
Isifo sendlala esingenanto
Ngequbuliso emva kwamashumi amabini eminyaka, abantwana bahambile kwaye awungekhe ukhumbule ukuba kutheni nitshata omnye nomnye kwasekuqaleni. Nibe nihlala kunye kwaye nilibele ukuba kwakunjani ukuba ngamaqabane kunye nabathandi.
Uninzi lwabantu abatshatileyo baxela ukwehla okukhulu kulwaneliseko lwabo lomtshato emva kokuzalwa kwabantwana babo. Yiyo loo nto umtshato kufuneka uze phambi kwabantwana. Ukubeka iqabane lakho phambili akukunciphisi uthando onalo ngabantwana bakho. Ngokwenyani iyayongeza, okoko nje ubonisa uthando kubo ngokunjalo.
Beka umtshato wakho kwindawo yokuqala
Ukubeka umtshato kuqala kunokuba yinto enzima ukusonga intloko, kodwa kubalulekile kwimpilo yomtshato. Ngokungawenzi umanyano ube yeyona nto iphambili, izibini zikholisa ukungazikhathaleli iimfuno zomnye nomnye. Iimvakalelo zomsindo zinokuqala ukukhulisa, ziphelise umgangatho wokudibana kwesi sibini.
Ngokuqinisekileyo kuyimpikiswano ukuthi umtshato kufuneka ube yinto ephambili kuqala kubantwana bakho. Izidingo ezisisiseko zabantwana zezona ziphambili kwaye kufuneka zihlangatyezwe. Ukuyityeshela impilo yabo yasemzimbeni kunye neemvakalelo kunye nokuba sempilweni ayisiyonto ilungileyo yokuba ngumzali kuphela kodwa ikukuhlukumeza. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ukhethe phakathi kokuba ngumzali olungileyo kunye neqabane elilungileyo. Ukufumana ibhalansi elungileyo sisitshixo.
Izinto ezincinci
Ukwenza iqabane lakho liziva lithandwa kwaye lixatyisiwe kunokuba lula kwaye kube mnandi. Zizo ezo zinto zincinci zibalulekileyo kwaye zenza iqabane lakho livakale njengeyona nto iphambili.
- Yiba nothando: Wanga, Wanga, Bamba izandla
- Bulisani: Bhotani kwaye nihambe kakuhle, molweni kusasa nobusuku obuhle
- Isicatshulwa esineengcinga ezimnandi:
- Nika: Nika isipho esincinci okanye ikhadi ngenxa yokuba
- Sebenza njengeqela lephupha: Ukusebenzisana kwenza iphupha lisebenze
Ezothando
Ukugcina ukuthandana kuphila emtshatweni kubalulekile. Uthando lukhona xa sinomdla kwaye sinyamekelana. Ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zothando lomlingane wakho kufuna ukuqonda kokujonga kwabo. Ezothando yindlela yokubonisa iqabane lakho ukuba zibaluleke kangakanani kuwe. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba ukuthandana ayisiyokwenza uthando kuphela, imalunga nokunika uthando.
- Yiya kwimihla
- Dlalani omnye komnye
- Yiba ngumqalisi
- Yothuka omnye nomnye
- Cuddle
- Yibani nobusuku kunye
Khumbula ukuba ufuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye neqabane lakho, ke umtshato wakho ufuna ingqalelo kunye nomzamo mihla le. Musa ukuziva unetyala ngokwenza umtshato wakho ube yeyona nto ibalulekileyo. Zikhumbuze ukuba abantwana bakho bayangenelwa nabo. Ngokumisela ubudlelwane obunempilo bomtshato, ibeka isiseko sendlela abanokuthi benze ngayo ubudlelwane obusempilweni. Umzekelo womtshato owonwabileyo uyabaxhasa kwaye ubakhuthaza abantwana ukuba bazenzele ubudlelwane obunempumelelo.
Ixesha lokuba nomtshato owonwabileyo usempilweni njalo, hayi kuphela emva kokuba abantwana bemkile ekhaya. Akukhe kushiywe lixesha, okanye kungekudala ukubeka umtshato wakho kwindawo yokuqala.