Umxholo
- Esi sibini sinokuhlala kukhetho oluqinisekileyo
- 1. Ukufumana ibhalansi elungileyo
- 2. Lindela into ezayo
- 3. Musa ukuhamba nzima komnye nomnye
- 4. Phakamisani ngokuqhubekayo
- 5. Ubomi yindibaniselwano yeentsuku ezilungileyo nezimbi
- 6. Ubomi buyaqhubeka
- 7. Eyomfazi
Amanqanaba okungaqeshwa aphakame kakhulu kwindunduma njengenye yezinto ezibangela uxinzelelo ebomini kunye neziganeko ezidinisayo engqondweni.
Nangona kunjalo, ngelixa iinguqulelo zabo bangenamsebenzi zonke zibhalwe kakuhle, kukho enye ilahleko ekunyamezelweni kwayo kuthathelwa ingqalelo rhoqo: iqabane.
Ngelixa bezama ukunceda abanye babo abalulekileyo ngeli xesha linzima, aba bafazi bathwala i-mayhem enkulu. Ngethamsanqa, zininzi izibonelelo kunye nezikhokelo kwabo bajongene nentswela-ngqesho.
Esi sibini sinokuhlala kukhetho oluqinisekileyo
Ukungabinamsebenzi kunokushiya umntu — kunye nesibini — beziva bephelelwe ngamandla, betyhafile, bengaziva bengenathemba. Ewe, iqabane elikhangela umsebenzi linokulandela onke amashishini acetyiswayo okufumana lo msebenzi ulandelayo; Nangona kunjalo, inokuba lixesha elithile ngaphambi kokuba umyeni awufumane umsebenzi.
Ngethamsanqa, okwangoku, isibini sinokuhlala kukhetho oluqinisekileyo olunokuthi, ekugqibeleni, luqinise ubudlelwane babo.
Nazi iindlela zokuhlangabezana nendoda engasebenziyo
1. Ukufumana ibhalansi elungileyo
Ukungabinamsebenzi kubeka ubunzima kulwalamano lomtshato ngezizathu ezicacileyo.
Ngaphandle koxinzelelo lwezezimali lokungabikho kwemisebenzi kubeka iyunithi yosapho, iqabane lobomi elihlala lisebenza lijongana nemicimbi yalo ekulawuleni umntu osokolayo oxinezelekileyo, oxinezelekileyo.
Iqabane elinomsebenzi "onganyanzelekanga" ngoku ekuphela komthombo wesibini wokufumana umvuzo linokuthi ngesiquphe lithwale ubunzima bokuhlawula amatyala. Ngapha koko, kufuneka badlale indima yokuba ngumcebisi kunye nomkhapheli kwindoda eyenzakeleyo, engazinzanga.
Nawuphi na umfazi obambeke kule meko uhamba umgca olungileyo phakathi komncedisi onenkathalo kunye nomcebisi.
Ukuba unobuntu obukhathalelayo, kuya kufuneka ujonge imeko yokunika iqabane lakho ubomi bakho imvume yokuhlala ubambelele ekuzihlaziyeni nasekungenzi nto.
Okwangoku, ukuba utyhala kakhulu, unokuba semngciphekweni wokuvela ubanda kwaye ungenalusini.
2. Lindela into ezayo
Kwithuba lokuqala emva kwentswela-ngqesho, wena nesiqingatha sakho esingcono kufanele ukuba nihlale phantsi kunye kwaye nenze iqhinga lokulandela ingqesho kwaye nithethe ngeendlela eninokuzikhupha ngazo okanye ninciphise ukungavisisani okuhamba noxinzelelo lwentswela-ngqesho.
Iintsuku ezizayo azizukuba lula.
Cwangcisa iintloko zakho kunye ukuze ucinge “ngecebo lokuhlasela” - kuba yile nto kanye ekufuneka ujongane nayo noxinzelelo olunokujongela phantsi ubudlelwane bakho kwezi meko zirhabaxa.
3. Musa ukuhamba nzima komnye nomnye
Ungamelana njani nendoda engasebenziyo? Ukuqala, ziqhelanise nesimo sengqondo esibheka ukungabikho kwemisebenzi njengokwexeshana- kwaye kulawuleka-njengemeko.
Ukugxothwa kwakhona okwenziwa ngenjongo yokufumana ingqesho kunzima.
Nangona kunjalo, amathuba okuba omnye umsebenzi uza kukhokelela ekuhambeni kwexesha ukuba nobabini nihlala nizibandakanye kwaye niyazi kuhambo lwenu. Gcina indawo efanelekileyo yokujonga.
Vuleleka kwinto anokuzama ukukubonisa ngayo omabini la mava.
4. Phakamisani ngokuqhubekayo
Ukujongana nomyeni ongasebenziyo, funa ubusuku obungaphantsi kobunye kwiintsuku ezisixhenxe xa unokucwangcisa ixesha lokuba wedwa okanye namaqabane akho.
Nceda omnye umntu obalulekileyo ukuba aqonde ukuba ixesha olichitha wena liya kwenza ukuba ube liqabane elingcono ebomini xa ukunye-kuba kuya kuba njalo. Ewe, nakumaxesha amnandi, kulungile ukuba uphuhlise umdla wakho kunye nezinto onomdla kuzo.
5. Ubomi yindibaniselwano yeentsuku ezilungileyo nezimbi
Ungamelana njani nendoda engasebenziyo? Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuba uyenze kukuvuma ukuba uya kuba neentsuku ezintle kunye neentsuku ezimbi.
Ngeentsuku ezinkulu, jonga ukuba zeziphi ezenza ukuba zibe nkulu kwaye uqikelele iindlela zokugcina amandla aqinisekileyo, ukubetha ingxowa ngeyure efanelekileyo, ukuvuka kunye, ukwenza umthambo kusasa, ixesha lokuncenga, njalo njalo.
Gcina umkhuba wemihla ngemihla nangona kunokulindeleka ngokufanelekileyo. Yibani noxanduva ngokubanzi, nibeke isicwangciso semihla ngemihla sobabini; Abalindelweyo ukuhlangana nabasebenzi, ulungiselelo lomntu ngamnye, imisebenzi ejikeleze indlu, njl.
6. Ubomi buyaqhubeka
Ukungaqeshwa kunokubangela ukuba abantu bafune ukubuyela umva-kodwa bayeke ukuphelisa ulwalamano ekuhlaleni.
Qhubeka uye ecaweni kwaye ugcine uxanduva kwezentlalo phakathi evekini. Nika into oqhubeka ngayo namaqabane. Kuya kufuneka ukomeleze ngoku kunanini na ngaphambili-kwaye ngaphandle kwento onokuyibona, amaqabane aya kuhlonitshwa ngumnqweno wakho wokuthembela kuwo.
Cwangcisa imisebenzi eya kuthi incede uyeke umphunga.
Phumela ngaphandle emoyeni omtsha, ukhwele ibhayisekile, uyonwabele ipikniki; cwangcisa ixesha apho uyavuma ukubeka ecaleni iingxaki zomsebenzi kwaye ujonge ukonwaba kuphela.
Phola kwaye uvumele amandla aqinisekileyo aphume kula maqela mabini.
7. Eyomfazi
Umlingane wakho ujongene nexesha eligqithisileyo; nangona kunjalo, kunjalo.
Thandaza kuThixo ukuba akunike amandla, uvelwano, ukunyamezelana kunye nolwazi ukuze ufumane eli xesha lokuvavanya. Ngapha koko, khumbula; njengawo onke amaxesha onyaka, nako oku kuyakudlula!