Umxholo
- Ukwabelana ngesondo ngokuvakalayo kunye nemikhwa yethu esisiseko
- Isini esingxolayo kunye nabasetyhini abangabantu
- Ukujongana nesini esiphakamileyo sabanye abantu
- Okokuqala, jongana neemvakalelo zakho
Ukwabelana ngesondo ngokuvakalayo kubonakala kusebenza ngakumbi kunokubacaphukisa abamelwane.
Ayisiyonto nje ikopi yabasetyhini kwi-porn nangona ngamanye amaxesha befumana inkuthazo yazo zonke iintlobo zezinto apho. Kwaye, ayibobungqina ngqo bokusebenza komntu. Kubonakala ngathi yinto efakwe kwi-biology yabasetyhini.
Ubungqina?
Ama-Primates nawo abelana ngesondo phezulu, kwaye isebenza njengohlobo lwesibhengezo. Eli nqaku liza kuxubusha ngebhayoloji emva kwesondo esingxolayo, iziphumo zaso phakathi kwabantu, kunye nendlela yokuphatha abanye abalala ngesondo kunye kwaye kufuneka umamele.
Ukwabelana ngesondo ngokuvakalayo kunye nemikhwa yethu esisiseko
Xa sijonga ezona zihlobo zethu zikufutshane kwilizwe lezilwanyana, ii-primates, siqala ukuqaphela ukufana okuthile. Ngapha koko, ngokuhlalutya ukuba kutheni kwaye kutheni besenza, sihlala sifunda ngakumbi malunga nobume bethu bokuqala. Kungenxa yokuba uninzi lokuziphatha kwethu lutshintshe ngokunzulu ngenxa yezithethe zentlalo. Oku kuyinyani xa kufikwa kwisini.
Xa inkawu yabasetyhini ingxola ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, oku kunefuthe lokuziqhelanisa. Uphakamisa amathuba akhe okuba nenzala eyomeleleyo nesempilweni. Oko kukuthi, ukungxola kwakhe ngesondo kutsala umdla wamanye amadoda, kwaye bayafola.
Ngale ndlela, izinto zabo zemfuza ziyakhuphisana, kwaye oyena “mgqatswa” ungcono uya kumitha. Ngaphaya koko, xa umntu obhinqileyo engxola ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo, amathuba endoda ejaculating ayanda.
Okuchasene kwenzeka xa umntu obhinqileyo elala ngesondo kufutshane namanye amabhinqa. Ukhetha ukuyithula ngandlela ithile. Oku kutolikwa ziingcali zebhayoloji njengenzame yemazi yenkawu yokugcina iqabane eliyindoda naye ekugqibeleni. Ukuba ibinokutsala umdla wabasetyhini kwaye iya kuqokelelana, inkunzi inokuya kwelinye ibhinqa.
Enye into ebonakala ngathi ihanjisiwe ivela kwilizwe leeprimates kukuqonda kwethu ngesondo esikhulu. Ngokukodwa, phakathi kwamakhwenkwe, isondo esingxolayo sihlala sinxulunyaniswa neentlobo zokuziphatha gwenxa. Ukuba uhlalutya ngokunyanisekileyo imbono yakho yowesifazane ovakalayo ngesondo, unokuqaphela ukuba unokukhetha ukuba uziphatha kakubi.
Isini esingxolayo kunye nabasetyhini abangabantu
Ngokucacileyo, iindawo zethu zoluntu zilungelelaniswe ngendlela eyahlukileyo, kwaye sihlala singaziphathi ngokwemigaqo yamabamba. Asinayo isondo esivakalayo ukutsala amanye amadoda, okanye umntu ozolileyo angatsali amanye amabhinqa.
Sihlala sisabelana ngesondo ngasese emakhayeni ethu. Kwaye sihlala sinyanzelwa ngamalungiselelo okuhlala, ngakumbi ukuba esi sibini sinabantwana.
Kodwa, ibhayoloji ikhona ukuseta iziseko zokuziphatha kwethu. Kwaye, nangona abanye abantu basetyhini benokuziva ngokwenyani ukuba bebengenakwenza nangayiphi na indlela kodwa bekhwaza phezulu kwimiphunga yabo xa besabelana ngesondo, sisimo sethu sokwenene esijolise kuthi.
Ngokukhwaza ngesondo, umfazi ubanegalelo kukonwaba kwendoda kwaye isini sonke kufanelekile ukuba sibe ngcono.
Ewe kunjalo, kuninzi kakhulu kunxibelelwano lwabantu, kubandakanya isondo kunebhayoloji. Kodwa enye inkalo yobukho bethu inxulunyaniswa kakhulu nookhokho bethu bezilwanyana, kwaye ubuncinci bujongwe yimilinganiselo yentlalo, kwaye eso sisini. Kungenxa yoko le nto sisenza izinto ezithandekayo ngesondo, kubandakanya ukuba neentlobano zesini ezivakalayo ukunyusa ukonwaba kweqabane.
Ukujongana nesini esiphakamileyo sabanye abantu
Ngoku, sinokuba nokuzingca xa kufikwa kwisini.
Sisenokuba neentlobano zesini ezivakalayo. Okanye hayi. Kodwa, eyona nto iyasikhathaza kuxa abamelwane bethu besabelana ngesondo ngokuvakalayo kwaye asikwazi ukuhamba malunga neentsuku nobusuku ngaphandle kokubala ii-orgasms zabo. Ngokukodwa ukuba sinabantwana, kwaye kunzima ukubachazela ukuba ummelwane wabo akabulawa.
Ke, ungayenza njani le nto?
Okokuqala, jongana neemvakalelo zakho
Kuqhelekile ukuba uzive uneentloni ngento oyivayo, nokuba uyenza kwa into enye. Yindlela esikhuliswe ngayo esenza sizive ngale ndlela. Kwakhona kulungile ukuba ube nomona. Kuyafana nezinye izinto ebomini, ingca ibonakala iluhlaza kwelinye icala.
Zama ukungaziva ungonwabanga ngayo, kwaye ukuba unemicimbi yesondo, zama kwaye usebenzise eli thuba ukuyisombulula endaweni yokuba uzive ukhathazekile ngayo.
Xa kuziwa kwiintsapho ezinabantwana, zama ukuthetha nabamelwane bakho. Yenza oku ngaphandle komgwebo, kwaye ngokuphandle kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Bacacisele ukuba nabantwana bakho bayabeva.
Uninzi lwabantu luya kukuqonda oku. Ukuba akunjalo, zama ukutshintsha indawo ohlala kuyo ukuba kunokwenzeka ukunqanda abantwana bakho ekuphazanyisweni rhoqo yingxolo.