Umxholo
- 1. Ukuyigcina isisithethe
- 2. Ngazo zonke iimpazamo namandla ethu
- 3. Abahlobo abasenyongweni
- 4. Uthando, ukuzinikela nenkathalo
- 5. Esona simemo sokugqibela
- 6. Abahlobo kunye nabahlobo
- 7. Ukulwa amadabi kunye
- 8. Ndiyabulela ukufunyanwa nokukhethwa
- 9. Iqabane elithembekileyo
- 10. Amaqabane ebomini
- 11. Ukuhamba indlela entsha kunye
Kukho into engenakuphikiswa ehambayo malunga nokuva abantu ababini bezibophelela ngokuzinikela omnye komnye kubudlelwane obusondeleyo obunokwenzeka ebantwini. Ewe, izifungo zomtshato zenzelwe ukuba zinzulu kwaye zingcwele, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba azinakuba zezobuqu.
Ukuba ucwangcisa ukutshata kwaye ucinga ukuba ungazichaza njani izifungo zakho, jonga kule mizekelo ilishumi elinanye kwaye ubone ukuba ngaba ikhona into elungele wena kunye nentanda yakho.
Okanye mhlawumbi thatha umgca apha kunye nomgca apho de ufike kwindawo emnandi yokwazi ukuba yintoni kanye ofuna ukuyifaka kwizifungo zakho zomtshato.
Khuthazwa yile mizekelo yezibhambathiso zomtshato
1. Ukuyigcina isisithethe
Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngezibhambathiso ezindala zesintu ezisenamagama anzulu kwaye anentsingiselo:
"Ndi [igama], ndikuthabathele [igama], ukuba ube ngumfazi / umyeni wam osemthethweni, ukuba ubambe, ukusukela namhlanje ukuya phambili, nokuba ngcono okanye okubi, ukuba sisityebi okanye uhlwempu, ukugula kunye nempilo, ukuthanda kwaye sigcine, de sahlukane nokufa, ngokommiselo ongcwele kaThixo; kwaye ndiyazibophelela kuwe. ”
2. Ngazo zonke iimpazamo namandla ethu
Le iqala njengezibhambathiso zesiko kodwa iqhubeke ngendlela yayo eyahlukileyo:
“Ndi [Chaza], ndithathe [iGama], ukuba ube ngumyeni / inkosikazi yam etshate ngokusemthethweni. Phambi kwala mangqina, ndenza isifungo sokukuthanda kwaye ndikukhathalele okoko nje siza kuphila sobabini.
Ndikuthatha, ngazo zonke iziphene namandla akho, njengoko ndizinikela kuwe ngazo zonke iimpazamo zam kunye namandla am. Ndizokunceda xa ufuna uncedo ndize kuwe xa ndifuna uncedo. Ndikhetha wena njengomntu endiza kuchitha ubomi bam naye. ”
3. Abahlobo abasenyongweni
Le nguqulo intle yezifungo zomtshato ibonisa imeko yobuhlobo kulwalamano:
“Ndiyakuthanda, [Igama]. Ungumhlobo wam osenyongweni. Namhlanje ndizinikela kuwe emtshatweni. Ndiyathembisa ukukhuthaza nokukukhuthaza, ukuhleka nawe, nokukuthuthuzela ngamaxesha osizi kunye nomzabalazo.
Ndiyathembisa ukukuthanda ngamaxesha amnandi nasebubini, xa ubomi bubonakala lula kwaye xa kubonakala ngathi bunzima, xa uthando lwethu lulula, kwaye naxa kungumzamo. Ndiyathembisa ukukwazisa kwaye ndisoloko ndikubamba ngeyona ndlela iphezulu. Ezi zinto ndikunika zona namhlanje, yonke imihla yobomi bethu.
4. Uthando, ukuzinikela nenkathalo
Ezi zifungo zimfutshane kwaye zimnandi, zithatha ubume bento emalunga nayo:
“Mna, [Igama], ndiyakuthatha, [Igama], ukuba ube ngumyeni / inkosikazi yam etshatileyo. Ngovuyo olukhulu ndinamkela ebomini bam ukuze sonke sibe banye. Ndiyakuthembisa uthando lwam, ukuzinikela kwam ngokupheleleyo, ukukhathalela kwam umdla. Ndiyathembisa kuwe ngobomi bam njengendoda / yomfazi onothando nothembekileyo. ”
5. Esona simemo sokugqibela
Esinye sezifungo zomtshato apha sichaza isimemo sokugqibela sokuchitha ubomi bakho nomntu:
“Ndi [Chaza] uqinisekisa uthando lwam kuwe, [Igama] njengokuba ndikumema ukuba wabelane nabanye ngobomi bam. Ungoyena mntu mhle, ulumkileyo, kwaye unesisa kwendakha ndazi, kwaye ndiyathembisa ukuba ndiyakuhlonipha kwaye ndiyakuthanda. ”
6. Abahlobo kunye nabahlobo
Umzekelo omnandi wesifungo somtshato uxelela ngeempawu ezizodwa zobudlelwane kunye nobuhlobo:
“Ndiyathembisa ukuhlala liqabane lakho nomhlobo wakho, ndiyathembisa ukuba ndiza kuhlala ndikunye nawe, ndikukhathalele kwaye ndikuthande nokuba sikude kangakanani. Ndiza kuhlala ndibonisa umdla kwizinto ozenzayo kunye nemibono yakho. Ndiya kuba nawe entliziyweni yakho, ndikhusele kwelam; Xa wonwabile, ndingavuya kunye nawe. Xa ulusizi, ndiza kukwenza uncume. Ndiza kukukhuthaza ukuba uqhubeke nokukhula buqu njengoko sisebenza kwiinjongo zethu ezifanayo. Ndimi nawe njengomhlobo nenkosikazi yakho kwaye ndiyavuma ukuba ukhetho lwakho lusemthethweni. Ndiyathembisa ukukunika uthando, ukuthembeka, ukuthembana kunye nokuzinikela, kwaye, ngokubanzi, ugcine ubomi bakho bunomdla njengoko siguga kunye. ”
7. Ukulwa amadabi kunye
Ezi zibhambathiso zomtshato zikhethekileyo zibonisa ukuba esi sibini siyazi ukuba kuya kubakho ubunzima ngaphambili kodwa bayathembisa ukujongana kunye kwaye boyise njengeqela:
“Ndithembisa ukulwa amadabi enu kunye nani njengeqela. Ukuba utyhafa, ndiza kube ndikulwela amadabi akho. Ndiza kukunceda kuxanduva lwakho kwaye ndizenzele ezakho iingxaki ukuze ndisasaze ubunzima ngokulinganayo. Ukuba kufuneka uthwale ubunzima behlabathi emagxeni akho, ndizakube ndibambene nawe. ”
8. Ndiyabulela ukufunyanwa nokukhethwa
Sukutyhafiswa bubufutshane bezifungo-zinamandla kwaye zinomdla nangona kunjalo:
“Mna, [Igama], ndikhetha wena [Igama], njengendoda yam / inkosikazi, kubuhlobo nothando, ukomelela kunye nobuthathaka, ukuba sabelane ngamaxesha amnandi namashwa, kwimpumelelo kunye nokusilela. Ndiyakuxabisa kwaye ndikuhloniphe ngalo lonke utshintsho kubomi bethu, ndibulela ngokungapheliyo ukuba sidibene. ”
9. Iqabane elithembekileyo
Ezi zibhambathiso zomtshato zibonisa izinto ezintle zokuthembeka kunye nokuthembela:
“[Igama}, ndizisa kuwe ngale mini ukuze ndibelane ngobomi bam nawe. Ungaluthemba uthando lwam, kuba luyinyani. Ndiyathembisa ukuba liqabane elithembekileyo, kwaye ngokungaphumeleliyo ukwabelana kunye nokuxhasa amathemba akho, amaphupha akho, kunye neenjongo. Ndiyafunga ukuba ndiya kuhlala ndikho ngalo lonke ixesha.
Nokuba uthe wawa, ndokubambisa; xa uthe walila, ndiya kukuthuthuzela; xa ndihleka, ndonwaba kunye nani. Yonke into endiyiyo nayo yonke into endinayo yeyakho, ukusukela ngoku nangonaphakade. ”
10. Amaqabane ebomini
Esi sifungo somtshato esithembekileyo sithi konke - amaqabane kunye nabahlobo ebomini:
"[Igama], ndikuthatha njengeqabane lam lobomi, ndikhuselekile kulwazi lokuba uyakuba ngumhlobo wam osenyongweni nothando lwam olunye lokwenene."
11. Ukuhamba indlela entsha kunye
Ukususela kulo mhla ukuya phambili awuyi kuba wedwa xa uhamba kwindlela yobomi bakho, ngamazwi alo mzekelo wesifungo somtshato:
“Namhlanje, [Igama], ndidibanisa ubomi bam nobakho, hayi njengendoda / inkosikazi yakho, kodwa njengomhlobo wakho, isithandwa sakho, nomntu othembekileyo kuye. Makhe ndibe ligxalaba oncike kulo, iliwa othembele kulo, iqabane lobomi bakho. Ndiza kuhamba nawe ukusukela namhlanje. ”
Khetha kolu luhlu lwemizekelo yezifungo zomtshato ezinentsingiselo, okanye uphefumlelwe ukuba ubhale izifungo zakho zomtshato ukuphawula ukuqala kobomi bakho obonwabileyo emtshatweni.