Umxholo
- Kubantu abadala abanolwalamano luka-Asperger banikezela ulwalamano lwabo ngokweemvakalelo
- Amadoda ahlala exilongwa ngaphezulu kwabafazi abane-Asperger's
- Ukuhlala neqabane leAspergers kufuna ukwamkelwa
- Lonke ulwalamano luhlukile
- Ingcebiso kubudlelwane beAspergers
Sifuna uthando olunzulu kwinkcubeko yethu ngaphandle kokungafani kwethu. Kubudlelwane, sihlala sijonga impendulo ehambelanayo evela kumaqabane ethu ukuze sizive siqinisekisiwe, sibambekile kwaye sigcinwe kubudlelwane. UJohn Bowlby waqulunqa eli binzana "uncamathiselo". Abantu abadala baneemfuno zokuncamathisela ezahlukileyo ezazisiweyo kulungelelwaniso lwabo ukusuka ebuntwaneni. Sinentambo yokunxibelelana kwasekuzalweni kwaye sifune olo nxibelelwano kubomi bethu bonke. Olu hlengahlengiso luyimfuneko njengomntwana usagcina ifuthe elinamandla ebudaleni. Kunye nezi zinto zintsha, sihlala sifuna amaqabane asincomayo, kwaye siphinda siqhelane nawo iipateni eziqhelekileyo zokuba sehlabathini xa sithandana, sinobudlelwane kunye nasemtshatweni.
I-Asperger sisifo se-neurodevelopmental disorder. Amaqabane ane-Asperger's anokuqala ahlangane nesidingo kubudlelwane kwaye ezi mpawu zihlala zibonwa zinomtsalane. Kodwa kukho imiceli mngeni ekufuneka uyiqaphele ukuba ucinga ngokuhlala ne-Aspergers iqabane lakho.
Nantsi into ekufuneka uyazi xa uhlala namaqabane e-Asperger-
Kubantu abadala abanolwalamano luka-Asperger banikezela ulwalamano lwabo ngokweemvakalelo
Inxalenye yokuzahlula ejongene nobunzima phakathi kwabantu kuthetha ukuba ungabi wedwa. Nangona indlela abaziphethe ngayo inokujongela phantsi intsebenziswano yabo. Abantu abaneAsperger basafuna unxibelelwano ebomini babo nakumtshato wabo weAsperger. Umtsalane wobambiswano kuqala unikezela ngokhuseleko, uzinzo, kunye nonxibelelwano; Izinto ezithembisiwe emtshatweni ezikhusela uluvo lwesazisi. Abanye abantu abahlala ne-Asperger, kwelinye icala, banokufuna ubomi apho banokushiyeka kwiindawo zabo zokuzilolonga.
Ukuhlala neAspergers iqabane lakho kunokuba ngumceli mngeni kumaqabane abo.
Amadoda ahlala exilongwa ngaphezulu kwabafazi abane-Asperger's
Amadoda angama-Asperger kunye nobunzima kubudlelwane-Ngaphakathi kuluntu olubambe ulindelo lwasentlalweni olwahlukileyo lwamadoda nabafazi emtshatweni, amandla ngaphakathi kobambiswano ngalunye aya kuba neyakhe intetho. Ukongeza, ngamanye amacandelo emibutho yabasebenzi ebandakanya, ubuhlanga, abantu besini esifanayo, amandla omzimba okanye engqondo anokubonelela ngokwabo kwimiceli mngeni kunye namandla. Olunye uxinzelelo emtshatweni olunjengezezimali kunye nabantwana lunokongeza ezinye iindawo zoxinzelelo ngaphezulu kokuhlala neAspergers iqabane.
Ukuhlala neqabane leAspergers kufuna ukwamkelwa
Sonke sinolindelo kumaxabiso ethu njengomntu kwaye siyinxalenye yomanyano lomtshato. Xa iqabane lika-Asperger likwabizwa ngokuba yi-High Functioning Autism oku kunokubonisa amandla angabonakaliyo kulwalamano olucinezela ngaphandle okanye ngokuchasene namaqabane athile agutyungelwe lilifu lehlazo nemfihlo. Unxibelelwano phakathi kwe-Aspergers iqabane kunye nelinye iqabane linokuba nefuthe lexesha elide elikhokelela kuxinzelelo oluqhubekayo, ubundlobongela basekhaya, imicimbi, ukugula ngengqondo, impilo enkenenkene yomzimba, iimvakalelo zebala, iintloni, usizi kunye nelahleko. Xa uhlala ne-Aspergers iqabane, ukwenza igumbi lokuthetha malunga nemicimbi: ukufumana isifo, ukuqonda nokwamkela ukuxilongwa, ukudala iindawo ezikhuselekileyo zokwazisa imeko yezentlalo kunye nefuthe lobuqu kobu budlelwane zihlala zilahlekile kwiindawo ezinqamlezileyo zobomi babucala kunye noluntu. yobudlelwane.
Lonke ulwalamano luhlukile
Kukho ukubakho kwinqanaba lokuqina kweempawu. Wonke umntu otshate naye uza kutshata. Kodwa iindawo ngokubanzi zeengcinga, iimvakalelo, kunye nokuziphatha okuchaphazela usapho, umsebenzi kunye noluntu zezi: iimvakalelo ezi-hyperarousal state, ubunzima phakathi kwabantu, ukungazinzi kwezentlalo, uvelwano, ukusondelelana ngokomzimba, ucoceko, ukuzilungisa, umngcipheko ophezulu we-OCD, ADHD kunye noxinzelelo.
Iindawo eziphambili ekugxilwe kuzo zikwimimandla eneemfuno ezizodwa. Bangakwazi ukugxila kwiiyure bezama ukuqonda ubuchule babo. Esi sipho sinokubakhokelela ekubeni babe ziingcali kwicandelo labo lokufunda. Kodwa kunokukhokelela ekubeni amaqabane azive elilolo kwaye engakhuselekanga emtshatweni. Ukuhlala neAspergers iqabane lakho lithatha ulwalamano oluninzi kwiqabane labo.
Banokonwabela ukuthetha ngezinto abanomdla kuzo ngaphandle kokujonga ubuncwane kunxibelelwano oluqhelekileyo; Iimpawu zentlalo, ukubonakala kobuso, ulwimi lomzimba. Ukuqonda amandla ekhonkrithi engqondo kukhethwa kunokuqonda okungacacanga kweemvakalelo: ulwimi lonxibelelwano. Izidingo kunye neemfuno zika-Asperger nazo ziyingxaki kwelinye iqabane. Kuzo zonke iingxaki zomtshato ka-Asperger, le yeyona inzima.
Ukungabikho kolwalamano olusenyongweni kunye neempendulo ezingavumelekanga emtshatweni kunokuziva njengokuqhawulwa kwezithuba ezifuna ngamandla ukuzaliswa. Ukudana okungafumanekiyo kwiqabane kwiimfuno zabo zovakalelo, mhlawumbi uxinzelelo lokufumana indima yokhathalelo, kunokubangela uloyiko olukhulu kwaye kubangele ungquzulwano kunye nokudana kwabo babini babaphange ukonwaba. Ukuhlala neAspergers iqabane ngaphandle kwesithuba sokuchaza amandla aphilileyo kunye nokunxibelelana nabanye abatshatileyo abanamava afanayo, banokuziva njengamava othando oluthintelweyo.
Ukuzimisela ukwabelana ngembali yakho yeemvakalelo kunye neyakho yokwenyani yokutshata nomntu one-Asperger kubaluleke kakhulu ekukwazini ukunciphisa uxinzelelo lokuzahlula. Ukuba ukubonakaliswa kweemvakalelo zakho akuzange kwabelwane ngako kububulumko ukwenza njalo kwindawo enenkxaso yenkxaso apho unokufumana ukuphindaphinda kunye nokunxibelelana kweemvakalelo zakho.
Awuwedwa kwaye amandla okuphila namaqabane e-Aspergers ayinyani. Iifom zenkxaso zinokuba liqela labanye abatshatileyo, iingcebiso ezizodwa okanye iingcebiso ngezibini. Ukhuseleko kufuneka lube yindawo yokuqala yovavanyo kunyango. Ukuba izinto ziye zanyuka zaya kwinqanaba lokuba kufunwe uncedo lobuchwephesha, ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo wasekhaya ukufumana ugqirha ofanelekileyo kubalulekile. Andikwazi ukuthetha ngokwaneleyo malunga nale ngongoma. Ukuba nonyango olugxile ekunikezeleni ngenkxaso kwizibini ezitshatileyo apho umntu otshatileyo enesifo sika-Asperger, ophinde wasekwa wenza umahluko kwindlela amandla asele ekho akhiwe ngayo kunye nemiceli mngeni ayenzileyo ngendlela eyakhiwe neyomeleleyo. Ukuhlala ne-Aspergers iqabane lakho kunzima kwaye uncedo oluncinci kwi-Therapist lunokuzisa utshintsho olukhulu kubudlelwane bakho.
Ingcebiso kubudlelwane beAspergers
Ukuba ubudlelwane abufikanga kwinqanaba lokuba uzive ukuba ukuhlala ne-Aspergers iqabane lakho akunakwenzeka ke lukhona uncedo olukhoyo. Ukwenza isithuba sokuva indlela eninokuphinda nifumanane ngayo kwaye niyiqonde indawo yangaphakathi yeqabane lakho kukwathetha ukubeka ulindelo olufanelekileyo lwekhonkrithi, ukufumana iindlela zokwenza iinkqubo, uxanduva lomntu kubomi bemihla ngemihla, imisebenzi yokugcina unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo, ukuzimisela, ukulawula ukungqubana , ukuqonda izithintelo kunxibelelwano luka-Asperger, yakha ngokwakho kunye nokuzikhathalela, fumana iindlela zokujongana kunye nokwenza lula iindlela zokuyila. Unxibelelwano oluqinisekisa amava aphilileyo kuthetha ukuba omabini amaqela kufuneka azimisele ukufumana iindlela zokuxhasana.