Umxholo
- Izizathu zokuba kutheni ucebisa
- Qinisekisa ukuba umntu othandana naye ukulungele ukutshata
- Umntu wakho
- Ukucela isandla somntu othandana naye emtshatweni
- Kwenziwe ntoni ngeringi yokuzibandakanya
- Ukuguqa okanye cha
Kule mihla kukho ukwanda okuzinzileyo kwabasetyhini abagqiba ekubeni bafuna ukuba ngabo abaya kuphakamisa amaqabane abo kunokuba benze ngenye indlela. Amasiko awasasetwanga elityeni, kwaye xa kufikwa kuzo zonke izinto umtshato, kubandakanya isindululo, yonke into iyahamba.
Oko kuthetha ukuba le ndlela ingeyiyo eyendabuko ayinayo imigaqo emininzi ekufuneka ilandelwe njengesiqhelo apho indoda icebisa kubafazi, nangona kunjalo, kusafuneka ukuba ufumane indlela yokucebisa kwisoka lakho kuba ngumcimbi onobuzaza, kwaye zimbalwa izinto 'onokukhetha kuzo' onokufuna ukuzenza.
Ukuchonga indlela yokucebisa kwisoka lakho kunokuba yinto engaqhelekanga kwaye ivuleleke kubuchule obuninzi, kodwa isadinga ukucwangciswa ngononophelo ukuze iqhubeke ngempumelelo.
Nazi ezinye zezinto ezibalulekileyo ekufuneka uzithathele ingqalelo xa usenza isindululo malunga nesoka lakho.
Ukufunda okuhambelana: Imiqondiso Uya Kuphakamisa kuwe Kungekudala
Izizathu zokuba kutheni ucebisa
Phambi kokuba uqhubele phambili ngokufunda ngendlela yokuphakamisa isoka lakho kuqala kufuneka ujonge ukuba kutheni ugqibe ekubeni uphakamise. Ukuba ucebisa kuba yinto emnandi kunye ne-quirky yokwenza kwaye ngenxa yokuba ukulungele ukuya kwinqanaba elilandelayo eso sisizathu esifanelekileyo.
Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwabasetyhini luthathela ingqalelo ukucebisa kwisoka labo ngenxa yokuba bediniwe kukumlinda awuphakamise umbuzo. Kwaye ukuba ufunda indlela yokucebisa umntu othandana naye ngenxa yeso sizathu, kuya kufuneka ume okomzuzwana kwaye ucinge ngale nto uyenzayo.
Ukuba ukwinqanaba apho kunyanzelekile ukuba umntu othandana naye azibophelele okanye uza kuthathela ingqalelo ukushiya, umtshato awunakuba yindlela elungileyo yokujikeleza izinto.
Kungenzeka ukuba kukho umsebenzi ongakumbi ekufuneka niwenzile kubudlelwane benu malunga nokuzibophelela kunye nolindelo oluya kuthi gabalala emtshatweni wakho ukuba awuzukujongana nawo.
Ukucebisa ngaphambi komtshato kuya kuba yindlela ebiza kakhulu kwaye isebenze ngakumbi ukusombulula le ngxaki kunomtshato, kwaye ngekhe wazi, emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa zokunikwa ingcebiso onokuthi wonwabe kunye nobabini niqinisekile ukuba yinto elungileyo ukuyenza.
Ukufunda okuhambelana: Iindlela zokuPhakamisa intombazana
Qinisekisa ukuba umntu othandana naye ukulungele ukutshata
Ukufunda indlela yokucebisa kwisoka lakho kubandakanya umhlaba omninzi- kodwa iyafana enye indlela ejikelezileyo.
Enye yeendlela ekufuneka uzilungiselele ngayo kukufumanisa ukuba umntu othandana naye ukulungele ukutshata.
Ukukufumanisa oku, cinga ukuba ukhe waxoxa ngomtshato kwaye ngaba wagqabhuka wabalekela iinduli ngokukhawuleza kangangoko anakho okanye ukuba ebesamkela na umbono.
Ngaba umtshato yinto eniye naxoxa ngayo kunye? Ngaba ikwayinto athi ufuna ukuyenza?
Ezi zizinto ekufuneka uzifumene kuqala. Ukuba awuzange ukhulume ngesihloko somtshato okwangoku, phakamisa umbuzo ukubona ukuba leliphi icala locingo akulo ngaphambi kokuba uqhubeke nezicwangciso zakho zokuphakamisa isoka lakho.
Umntu wakho
Amadoda ngokwendalo atyhala izinto (akukho pun kujoliswe kuyo) bahlala bathanda ukuziva belawula kungoko kutheni uninzi lwabasetyhini abonwabileyo emtshatweni besandla sokuvumela umyeni wabo ukuba acinge ukuba yonke into yayiyimbono yakhe!
Ke, into ebalulekileyo yokufunda indlela yokucebisa kwisithandwa sakho kukuthathela ingqalelo ukuzazisa kwakhe. Ngaba uya kuziva onwabile kwaye aphefumlelwe nguwe ngokuthatha ulawulo? Ngaba uya kuyifumana loo nto inomdla kwaye inomdla, okanye iya kumenza azive ethotyiwe, enganqabisekanga kwaye engonelanga kuba engakhange enze lo msebenzi 'wayefanele ukuba awenze? Nguwe kuphela owaziyo impendulo yalo mbuzo kuba nguwe kuphela owaziyo isoka lakho.
Kodwa khumbula oku, isindululo kufuneka sibe yimemori eyonwabisayo kuni nobabini kwiminyaka ezayo.
Ukuba uziva ngathi umyeni wakho wexesha elizayo uza kuba neentloni xa ibali lendlela ocebise ngayo libaliswa, kunokuba kulungele ukuphinda ucinge ngokucela isoka lakho.
Endaweni yokuthetha phandle naye malunga nomtshato. Ukuba ucinga ukuba uyakuphola nayo nangona kunjalo kukukhanya okuluhlaza okuvela apha!
Ukufunda okuhambelana: Ungasicebisa njani isithandwa sakho
Ukucela isandla somntu othandana naye emtshatweni
Olu luqwalaselo olukhohlisayo kuba sisehla ngendlela engaqhelekanga. Kwelinye icala, kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo ukuba awuzukufuna ukuphoxa iqabane lakho phambi kosapho lwakho ngokumenza abonakale okanye azive ebuthathaka phambi kwabo (kodwa awuyi kuthi ukuba ufunde kwaye uyiqondile ingcebiso engentla Le).
Kodwa ukuba uyazi ukuba umfana wakho uyakulunga ngesicwangciso sakho sokuphakamisa kuye, ke kukuwe ukuba wenze ntoni ngale nkcubeko.
Umbono omnandi kukuba mhlawumbi ukhuphe uMama wakhe aye kutya isidlo sasemini, thetha naye malunga nezicwangciso zakho kwaye umcele ukuba avume. Uya kuvuyiswa kukubuza kwakho!
Kwenziwe ntoni ngeringi yokuzibandakanya
Kuye, awudingi umsesane wokuzibandakanya, kodwa isipho somqondiso siya kuba sisenzo esimnandi, cinga ngeekhaflinks, ikhonkco, okanye into anokuyithanda kwaye azive ekhethekileyo ngayo. Ewe, ukuba unxiba amakhonkco, akukho nto ikuthintelayo ukuba ungamfumani nayo.
Kodwa owona mbuzo mkhulu apha uza kwenza ntoni malunga nokufumana iringi yokuzibandakanya?
Amathuba uza kufuna enye. Ke kuya kufuneka ucinge ngendlela oza kuyifumana ngayo. Elinye icebo kukuya kunye uyokuthenga iiringi yokuzibandakanya kwaye wenze usuku olukhethekileyo emva kokuba ethe ewe.
Zama kwakhona: Ngaba uza kuphakamisa imibuzo
Ukuguqa okanye cha
Ngokwesiko lo mfo uguqa ngamadolo xa ephakamisa, uya kucinga ukuba uza kwenza ntoni apha. Ewe unokwenza ngendlela othanda ngayo.
Nangona kunjalo, kukho into ekumgangatho ofanelekileyo ngokungaguqi ngedolo elinye. Kwaye kuya kuba nzima ukuba unxibe izithende eziphakamileyo kunye nelokhwe! Cinga ngenyameko ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isigqibo.
Iingcinga zokugqibela malunga nendlela yokucebisa kwisithandwa sakho kubandakanya ukucinga ngento ekufuneka uyenzile ukuba uthi hayi- khumbula oko akuthethi ukuba ubudlelwane buphelile. Kodwa kufanelekile ukuba nesicwangciso sendlela oza kuyiphatha ngayo. Intsalela yomsebenzi ekufuneka uwenzile ukuze ususe isindululo sakho kwisoka lakho konke malunga nokucwangcisa into ekhethekileyo, kunye nokusebenza kwento onokuyithetha nento oza kuyenza kunye emva koko.
Kwaye emngciphekweni wokukhwaza ubufazi obuncinci kwinto engeyiyo eyokwesiko enjengokuziphatha kwakho okuhle kodwa Abasetyhini bahlala benento yokucwangcisa engxoweni, yenza nje into eniza kuyithanda niyikhumbule nobabini ngonaphakade, kwaye iya kuba ilungile- nokuba Yenza isindululo ngokuncamathelisa iimagnethi kwifriji efrijini.