Umxholo
- Vala yonke i-elektroniki
- Ngoku ninomdla omnye komnye, thethani
- Fumana umzimba kodwa ngendlela engeyiyo eyokwabelana ngesondo
- Thetha ngesondo ngaphandle kwegumbi lokulala
- Sukutyeshela ukuhendwa ngombane
- Misela inqanaba lothando
- Ungakulibali ukusondelelana kwasemva komtshato
Ukwabelana ngesondo ngokulungileyo kuqala ngolwalamano olusenyongweni ngokweemvakalelo, apho uya kuthi wakhe amanye amaxesha amnandi de ungabinako ukunceda kodwa uye kwigumbi lokulala. Eli nqaku lineengcebiso malunga nokuba nobuhlobo obusenyongweni kunye nesoka lakho.
Ngaphandle kwesihloko seli nqaku, esi ayisosikhokelo senyathelo nenyathelo ngesondo kunye nesoka lakho.
Leyo ibiya kuba yincwadi yesifundo kwaye ayizukufundela umdla. Zininzi iziqalo ezithandekayo zokuba sisondele emzimbeni kunye nenkwenkwe yakho, ke siza kuphonononga ezinye zazo.
Ukwabelana ngesondo okuhle ayisiyomizimba nje ethinta imizimba. Ukwabelana ngesondo ngokulungileyo kuqala ngolwalamano olusenyongweni ngokweemvakalelo, apho uya kuthi wakhe amanye amaxesha amnandi de ungabinako ukunceda kodwa uye kwigumbi lokulala.
Masibone ukuba kwenziwa njani oku.
Vala yonke i-elektroniki
Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenzile xa ulungiselela ukusondelelana ngokomzimba kukubamba i-smartphone, ithebhulethi, i-pc kunye nomabonwakude kwaye uzicime zonke.
Ilungile lo nto.
Akukho buzzes, ding-dings okanye ezinye izandi okanye imifanekiso eya kutsala umdla wakho kude nesoka lakho elihle.
Ufuna ukubakho ngokupheleleyo malunga nento eza kwenzeka, kwaye ukuba isikrini sakho siyaqhubeka sikhanya njengomthi weKrisimesi ubusuku bonke, uya kuba nexesha elinzima lokugcina ingqalelo yakho yindoda yakho. Umhlaba unokulinda ngelixa ulungiselela uthando.
Ngoku ninomdla omnye komnye, thethani
Ukutshintshiselana ngomlomo yinxalenye ebalulekileyo ye-foreplay.
Akukho mntu ufuna ukuya kwisondo ngaphandle kwengxoxo efudumeleyo, akunjalo? Ke tune omnye komnye. Mbuze ukuba belunjani usuku lwakhe. Yeyiphi eyona nto intle eyenzekileyo? Okubi kakhulu?
Phulaphula ngenyameko kwiimpendulo zakhe; gcina uqhakamshelwano ngamehlo, wanqwala, uthi "Wow. Iyavakala (okanye imbi)! ” Ngena naye malunga nento othethe ngayo kutshanje; Uyakuchukunyiswa yinto yokuba ukhumbule umcimbi wakhe emsebenzini okanye ukulwa kwakhe nomama wakhe.
Konke oku kuyanceda ukusondeza ngokwasemphefumlweni.
Fumana umzimba kodwa ngendlela engeyiyo eyokwabelana ngesondo
Qalisa ukuqhubela phambili ekwenzeni uthando ngokuthinta ngokulula. Ukuwola ixesha elide. Ixesha elininzi lokumanga nje esofeni. (Sukunciphisa ukubanga kwakho xa usenza uthando ... bazonwabise ngokukhululekileyo ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwegumbi lokulala.)
Njani malunga nentamo ethandekayo kunye nokuthanjiswa kwegxalaba?
Ukuba umqolo wakhe ubotshwe ngamaqhina, mkhulule ihempe yakhe ukuze ukwazi ukusebenza kwiindawo ezifuna ingqalelo.
Inqaku kukuthatha oku kancinci, hayi ukukhawulezisa kule nxalenye yemidlalo engaphambili ukuya "kwizinto ezilungileyo" Zonke izinto zilungile, kwaye ziyinxalenye yamava amnandi, amakhulu ezesondo.
Thetha ngesondo ngaphandle kwegumbi lokulala
Ukuba eli lixesha lakho lokuqala lokwabelana ngesondo kunye nalo mfana, kuyanceda kwaye kuyonwabisa ukuthetha malunga nokulindelweyo. Ayizukufudumeza kuphela ii-libidos zakho ezifanayo, kodwa iyakucacisa ukuba zeziphi izinto ozikhethayo kunye neyona mpendulo yakho.
Iya kukuvumela ukuba umbuze nangezinto azithandayo nangazithandiyo. Ewe, le yingxoxo ekufuneka iqhubeke ngelixa ulele ebhedini, kodwa ukuqala ukutshintshiselana ngelixa unxibile kushushu kushushu.
Ikwayincoko ebalulekileyo ukuba uqiniseke ukuba iinkanuko zakho zesondo zihambelana.
Akukho nto inokuba mbi ngaphezu kokufumanisa emva kwexesha kakhulu ukuba umntu othandana naye ufuna into ethile yesondo oyifumana ikhubekisa ukuze azive anelisekile. Ke vula, uthembeke, kwaye ubeke imida ngaphambi kokuba bawele.
Ukuba uziva ungonwabanga ngayo nantoni na eliqabane elitsha likuxelela malunga neemfuno zakhe, kuya kufuneka uvakalise oku kungonwabi, nokuba oko kuthetha ukungabelani ngesondo ngoku.
Sukutyeshela ukuhendwa ngombane
Uyazi ukuba uceba ukuba nolwalamano olusenyongweni nesoka lakho ngobo busuku.
Ungathini ngokutshintshana ngemibhalo ecacileyo emini (qaphela: hayi iifoto, kodwa imiyalezo) ukuqala kwetheko?
Iza kunibeka nobabini nishushu, nto leyo ethetha ukuba xa nidibana ekugqibeleni, kuya kuba mnandi ngakumbi! "Ndiyakufuna": amagama amathathu alula anefuthe elinamandla kwingcinga yesoka lakho.
Misela inqanaba lothando
Ngaba isithandwa sakho siza endaweni yakho ngokuhlwanje? Chitha ixesha elithile ngaphambi kokufika kwakhe uqiniseke ukuba igumbi lakho licocekile.
Akudingeki ukuba abone iimpahla zakho zangaphantsi zomile kuloliwe weshawa, nokuba umhle kangakanani.
Beka ezinye ezintle, iilinen ezintsha ebhedini yakho kwaye ususe ingqokelela yakho yezilwanyana ezifakiweyo kuyo. Ungathini ngamanye amakhandlela anevumba elithozamisayo (okanye amakhandlela okulinganisa anezikhanyisi ezikhanyayo, ezikhuselekileyo ukuba kufuneka ulale kunye emva kokwenza uthando)?
Beka uluhlu kuluhlu lwakho lomculo oza kunyibilika, kwaye usete inqanaba lolunye ubusuku obumnandi!
Ungakulibali ukusondelelana kwasemva komtshato
Makhe sithethe ngokusondelelana emva kokuba nisondelene.
Ukhe wabelana ngesondo okumnandi nesoka lakho, ngoku yandisa loo mvakalelo yokuhlangana. Kungenzeka ngokulala bebambene ngokuqinileyo. Kodwa uza kuthini ukuba awudinwanga? Kutheni ningavuki nipheke kunye?
Qiniseka ukuba uyigcinile ifriji yakho ngezinto ezithile ezisisiseko onokuzibetha emva kokwenza uthando. Pheka, utye, uthethe, uxabise omnye nomnye, mxelele indlela oziva unethamsanqa ngayo ngokuba naye ebomini bakho.
Ngaba awukhathali?
Uhambo olude oluhle lubambe izandla yindlela ebalaseleyo yokwandisa imvakalelo yokunxibelelana.
Kwaye xa ubuyela ekhaya, unokuziva ufuna ukuqala yonke into kwakhona!