Umxholo
- Thatha isigqibo malunga nesidlo sangokuhlwa. Ndiyacela
- Phuma kwimidiya yoluntu. Akakhathali
- Nika kwaye uya kwamkela
- Zama ukondla ngakumbi ngexesha "lomntu obandayo"
Manene, lixesha lokuba lenene. Ukuhlekisa ngokwenene ... kulungile, ngethemba. Iingcebiso zomtshato zinokuba zindala kwaye ziyadika, kwaye umtshato, ngokwawo, ukude kuwo. Kuyasendle, kuyaphambana, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kuyathandeka ukuba uzivumela ukuba uvuleleke kuyo. Amacandelo alandelayo eengcebiso asachanekile, kodwa yiza usongelwe kancinci kunye nokuqaqamba. Sebenzisa amandla akho ngokuthanda kwaye ubukele umtshato wakho utshintsha ube ngcono xa wena nomyeni wakho nihleka.
Thatha isigqibo malunga nesidlo sangokuhlwa. Ndiyacela
Xa umyeni wakho ekubuza ukuba ufuna ukuya kwisidlo sangokuhlwa nini, zama ukuphepha ukuthetha izinto ezinje "Andikhathali", "naphi na apho ufuna ukuya khona", okanye "ayinamsebenzi kum". Usenokuba uqaphele ukuba indoda yakho iyaphazamiseka yile mpendulo amaxesha ngamaxesha kule minyaka idlulileyo, kwaye ayisiyiyo ngenxa yokuba bacaphukile ukuba ubanike inkululeko yokulawula ngaphezulu kwezicwangciso zesidlo sangokuhlwa. Kungenxa yokuba bacela uluvo lwakho kwaye bafuna ukutya kwindawo oya kuyonwabela. Uninzi lwamadoda (kubandakanya nam) luya kutya malunga nantoni na. Indawo yokutyela ayinamsebenzi kuba naphi na apho baya khona, baya kufumana into abayithandayo kwimenyu.
Ngokubanzi, nangona kunjalo, oogxa bethu abangamantombazana bakhetha ngakumbi ukutya kwabo. Sinikezela ithuba lokuba wenze ukhetho ukuze waneliseke yinkampani yakho kunye nezifundo zakho eziphambili.
Endaweni yokudlala lo mdlalo mncinci wokuba "ndiza kuya naphi na, sithandwa, ukhetha," ngaphezulu nangaphezulu ubusuku bonke bomhla, lula inkqubo. Ukuba ukubuza ukuba ungathanda ukuya kutya phi, mnike izinto ezintathu onokuzikhetha. Kwezi ndawo zokutyela, unokukhetha nokuba yeyiphi na evakala ilungileyo kuye. Eli liqhinga lokuphumelela kuba wonelisekile kukukunika ithuba lokukhetha, kwaye wanelisekile ngokungafuneki ukwenza esona sigqibo.
Phuma kwimidiya yoluntu. Akakhathali
Ukuba uthembele kumyeni wakho kwaye umbonise ngothando ukuba zingaphi izinto ezithandwa nguwe kunye nenja yakho kwi-Instagram, ungothuki ukuba akonwabanga okanye akanamdla kulonwabo lwakho. Njengoko ubukela amanani enyuka kwimifanekiso oyithandayo kunye nokuhlaziywa kwesimo, unokungahoyi oyena mntu ufuna ingqalelo kuye. Iya kuba ngokungangqalanga ekuqaleni, kodwa ngaxa lithile unokujika abhekise kuwe athethe into ecaleni kwemigca:
"Kutheni ungamphathi uDick wam njengoFacebook kwaye ubonise ingqwalaselo encinci?"
Ngqwabalala? Ngokuqinisekileyo. Kodwa nditsho nje ukuba ungothuki. Ndiyathemba ukuba umfana wakho uthetha into ekufuneka eyithethileyo ngentlonelo, kodwa mhlawumbi unciphise elo xesha kwi-Snapchat ukubamba nje kwimeko. Ndiyazi ukuba kunzima ukungahoyi unxibelelwano onalo nabantu kwihlabathi ledijithali, kodwa ungabavumeli ukuba basibekele kunxibelelwano olunokubakho oluhleli ecaleni kwakho.
Nika kwaye uya kwamkela
Ngaba ukhe uzifumane ukhalaza ukuba akusekho ntlantsi kubomi bakho bothando? Ukuba uyakwenza oko, cinga emva ekuqaleni komtshato wakho, kanye emva kokuba isigaba sasemva komtshato siqale ukuphela. Kukangaphi usibetha ngesandla okanye umxelele “Hayi ngokuhlwanje, sana. Ndidinwe nyani ”? Ewe, ndiyakucaphukela ukuyithetha, kodwa ukwaliwa kushiye iziva ezingaqondakaliyo kwindoda yakho, kwaye kukuwe ukuba uzilungise.
Ukuba ufuna ukwenza ubomi bakho bobulili bube mnandi ngakumbi, yenza inyathelo lokuqala. Usenokuba wayefuna ukwenza into enye, kodwa ubambekile kwigobolondo elidalwe kukungakhathalelwa kwakho kwangaphambili. Mnike isibonelelo sokungathandabuzeki kwaye uvuselele injini yakhe ngokuthatha imali. Ngena kwigumbi lokulala unxibe iwigi. Yihla naye ngaphandle kwesizathu (kwaye ngaphandle kokulindela nantoni na ukubuya). Nika kwaye uya kwamkela. Ndithembe.
Zama ukondla ngakumbi ngexesha "lomntu obandayo"
Kulungile, ukuba awuyazi ukuba yintoni "indoda ebandayo", thatha umzuzu kwaye uyiGoogle. Ndiza kulinda. Kulungile, kuhle. Ubuyile. Ke, njengoko usenokuba ukhe wafunda, xa thina bantu sigula, sihlala sivela kwimpilo ephakathi ukuya ebhedini yokufa ngokukhawuleza. Ndiyazi ukuba kunokubonakala ngathi kuyathandabuza. Ndiyazi ukuba uyasigweba ngayo. Kodwa usikhathalele, kunjalo?
Ndingathanda ukuthi kungenxa yokuba sinzima kangangokuba siza kungeniswa emadolweni zizinto ezinzulu, kodwa sobabini siyazi ukuba ndiyaxoka. Inyani yile yokuba kufuneka usikhathalele njengoomama bethu. Oku kunokwenzeka ukuba kuhlikihle abanye bakho ngendlela engeyiyo, kodwa sinike le. Unemikhwa kunye nokusilela kwakho, masikhuphe kwaye sikhale njengabantwana xa sigula. Kwaye ngekhe kube buhlungu ukusibuyisela ebomini unxibe loo costume yomongikazi oyinxibileyo yealloween ebuyile ekholejini. Unokuphuma ebhedini ngokukhawuleza kunokuba ucinga.
Ndiyathemba ukuba ezi ngcebiso zikwenze wahlekisa kancinci, ngelixa ukwazisa ngezinye zezinto onokuzenza ukugcina uncumo ebusweni bendoda yakho. Ewe akafezekanga, kodwa nawe unjalo. Okukhona nobabini nigcina le nto iphambili engqondweni, kokukhona niza kuba ngcono ekuhambeni kwexesha. Yamkela ezo quirks kwaye uzisebenzise ngokuzenzela ukuhleka okuzuze kakuhle. Kwaye ngokungathandabuzekiyo, isigqibo ngento ethile isidlo sangokuhlwa. Ndiyacela.