Umxholo
- Iimpawu zomyeni we-narcissistic
- Imibuzo yokuqinisekisa ubundlobongela bomyeni wakho
- Ukuntywila ngokunzulu kwimibuzo
Ngaba nditshatile kwi-narcissist? Ngaba uqhubeka ukhangela imiqondiso otshatileyo narcissist?
Kunzima ukufumanisa ngamanye amaxesha, ngakumbi kuba ukuba unayo iqabane le-narcissist, kusenokwenzeka ukuba sele usetyenzisiwe ngokwaneleyo ukuba ungazibuza kwaye uphulukane nengqondo yakho.
Iimpawu zomyeni we-narcissistic
Ke ukukunceda ungene Ukuchonga iimpawu zeqabane elithandanayo, senze uluhlu lokutshekisha.
Umntu oneNarcissistic Personality Disorder ufuna ukunconywa ngabanye abantu ngokuqhubekayo, kwaye babonisa amanqanaba aphezulu okuzibamba kunye nokuswela uvelwano.
I-narcissism encinci inokuba sempilweni- iyasinqanda ekubeni sihambe yonke indawo kwaye singazicingeli kangangokuba asinakuphila.
Kodwa xa umntu ezixakekise kakhulu, njengakwimeko ye-narcissism, iba sisifo kubuntu; ngunobangela wenkxalabo.
Ukuba iqabane lakho liyabongoza ngeempawu zomyeni ongatshatanga, kunokuba yingozi kwimpilo yakho kunye nokuzazi kwakho.
Jonga kwakhona:
Imibuzo yokuqinisekisa ubundlobongela bomyeni wakho
Phendula le mibuzo ngo-ewe okanye u-cha ukufumanisa ukuba utshatile okanye utshatile kumyeni ongalunganga.
Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba bayazibonakalisa iimpawu zendoda ye-narcissist, kukho amanqaku amaninzi kule ndawo ukukunceda uqonde ukuba amanyathelo akho alandelayo ayakuba yintoni.
- Ebe inomtsalane kakhulu kwaye iyathandeka ukuqala kwakho ukudibana naye?
- Ngaba umyeni wakho uthetha izinto ezibeka abantu phantsi?
- Ngaba umyeni wakho unayo indlela yokuphembelela abantu ukuba beme ecaleni kwakhe?
- Ngaba umyeni wakho ebenayo uluhlu olude lobudlelwane bangaphambili?
- Ngaba umyeni wakho unokhetho kubantu abamncomayo?
- Ngaba uqaphele utshintsho olukhulu kwindlela aziphethe ngayo ngokuhamba kwexesha?
- Ngaba umyeni wakho uphendula gwenxa ngamanye amaxesha xa wabelana naye malunga nokuziphatha okuthile okanye indlela yokuthetha ongayithandiyo?
- Ngaba ubeka phambili ekubeni kwiindawo okanye iimeko ezimvumela ukuba abonise ukuchitha ixesha kunye nawe?
- Ngaba ukugabadela ukubaluleka kwakhe ngokuzimanya nabantu ababonisa iimpawu ezintle zearhente?
- Ngaba uyaziqonda iimfuno zakho zesondo ngokwaneleyo ukuba azilungiselele?
- Ukhe wa wakhe wambamba esenza ubuxoki?
- Ngaba ubonakalisa umsindo ogqithileyo xa ufike emva kwexesha kwimihla yakho?
- Ingaba u uvakalelo kakhulu kugxeko (Nokuba iyancomeka)?
- Ngaba iincoko zakho zijolise kwiimfuno zakhe?
- Ngaba ukhe wazama ukukulawula? (okt, unyanzelekile ukuba unxibe impahla ethile okanye ufune ukuba iinwele zakho zisikwe kubude obuthile?
- Ngaba umyeni wakho uhlala ephuma?
- Ngaba wakhe wathetha kakubi ngawe?
- Ngaba ukholelwa ukuba uphakamile kunabanye ukumngqonga?
- Ngaba uyabuxabisa ubuchule bakhe bokucinezela nokujongela phantsi abanye?
- Ngaba umyeni wakho uhlala ethanda ukuthenga iimpahla ezisefashonini okanye ukuthenga izinto ezinkulu ezinje ngemodeli yakutshanje yemoto okanye indlu enkulu?
- Ngaba umyeni wakho unomkhwa wokuthatha incoko?
- Ngaba umyeni wakho ukhe wathetha indlela yakhe ukuphuma kwitikiti?
- Ngaba umyeni wakho uchithe ixesha lokujonga phambi kwesipili?
- Ngaba uthenga izinto ezixabisa kakhulu ukuze anyuse imbonakalo yakhe?
- Ngaba umyeni wakho unephrofayili esebenzayo yemidiya yoluntu?
- Ngaba yena ndiyathanda ukubonisa kumaqonga ezentlalo?
- Ngaba umyeni wakho uhlala ebuza ukungqinisisa, ngokucacileyo okanye ngokuncinanana?
- Ngaba kubalulekile ukuba indoda yakho ihlale iphumelela kwiingxoxo zakho?
- Ngaba uziva ngathi akazinikelanga kubudlelwane bakho bothando?
- Ngaba ngokucacileyo akanalwazi malunga notyekelo lokuthanda izinto zoburharha?
Ukuba uphendule ikakhulu 'EWE,' kunokwenzeka ukuba ube nomyeni othanda ukuxhaphaza.
Le mibuzo ibhekisa kwiindlela zokuziphatha ezibonisa iimpawu zomyeni oziphethe kakubi. Ukuqhubeka nokufumanisa ukuba umyeni wakho ungumntu othanda ukubhengeza, thatha u "Ngaba Nditshatile kwi-Quiz yeNarcissist."
Ukuntywila ngokunzulu kwimibuzo
Masiqwalasele nzulu kweminye imibuzo ekwiphepha lemibuzo:
Ngaba umyeni wakho unomkhwa wokuthatha incoko?
Abantu abane-NPD baziwa ngokuhlala bethatha incoko. Le yindlela yabo yokubonisa ukuba "bakhulu" kangakanani.
Nokuba sithini na isihloko, baya kuhlala benento ethi "yingcali". Ukuba uyeka ukuthetha ngento abayaziyo, baya kuba banobuchule ngokwaneleyo bokuhambisa incoko babuyele kubo.
Ngaba umyeni wakho uthetha izinto ezibeka abantu phantsi?
Ukubeka abantu phantsi yenye yeempawu zokuziphatha kwendoda ye-narcissist. Xa bethetha abantu phantsi, amaxhoba aphulukana noonogada kwaye ngequbuliso aba sesichengeni sokuhlaselwa.
Umhlaseli, ongu-narcissist, uya kusebenzisa obu bungozi bokufumana indlela yabo.
Ixesha elingaphezulu, amaxhoba enza uxinzelelo lwengozi kunye nomhlaseli wabo ... kwaye oku akusempilweni.
Benza le nto yokuba baphume beyimbiza ekhazimlayo okanye “ukhilimu wesityalo” kuba bafuna ukunconywa ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na enye into emhlabeni.
Ngaba umyeni wakho uphendula gwenxa xa uxoxa ngokuziphatha kwabo?
Ukuphendula ewe kulo mbuzo luphawu olucacileyo lomyeni we-narcissist.
Umntu owenza iziyobisi uzijonga njengogqibeleleyo nongenasiphako; abayithandi into yokuba bacelwe umngeni kuba icel'umngeni kwingqondo yabo “yokugqibelela.”
Ababoni ngaphaya kweempazamo zabo, konke abakubonayo yindlela "abagqibelele ngayo" (nokuba sonke siyazi ukuba abekho).
Ngaba uyaziqonda iimfuno zakho zesondo ngokwaneleyo ukuba azilungiselele?
Ukuba uhlala ukwicala lokunika xa kufikwa kubuhlobo obusondeleyo nomyeni wakho kwaye uwunike lo mbuzo 'ewe' kunye nokuthi ewe kweminye imibuzo, usenokuba nendoda ethandabuza.
Olunye uphawu lomyeni oluthandayo kukuba akazivumi iimfuno zakho zesondo, kwaye akazukuzama ukuzibandakanya.
Ukuzingca yeyona nto ichazayo indlela umyeni aziphethe ngayo kunye nento ekufuneka ijongelwe yona.
Ukuba uphendule ikakhulu 'HAYI,' awutshatanga kwindoda ye-narcissistic
Ke oko kuthetha ukuba unomyeni ozinzileyo ongabethiyo isikali se-narcissistic.
Unomyeni onokukhathalela kwaye okwaziyo ukubonisa uvelwano, kodwa kunye nomntu onokuthi enze iimpazamo ezimbalwa ngamanye amaxesha, abe neminye imiba engunobangela, okanye abambeke kwindlela yokuziphatha.
Imicimbi yakhe yokuziphatha inokubangela ukuba ubuze ukuba unayo indoda ye-narcissistic.