Umxholo
Yimini enelanga. Uphume nosapho lwakho, okanye mhlawumbi uhamba nenja yakho uhamba ngepaki. Emva koko, ngequbuliso, amafu ayangena, uye uve ukuduma, kunye nemibane. Into eyayikade ilusuku oluhle ngoku ijike yangumva kwemini embi, enesaqhwithi. Ekuphela kwethemba onalo kukufika ekhaya ukhuselekile ngaphandle kokuntywila.
Ukuphathwa gadalala emtshatweni kufana nqwa nesaqhwithi esingalindelwanga ngasentla. Xa utshata, ilanga kunye nemvula. Ubomi bulungile, kwaye kujongeka ngathi buzoqhubeka bunjalo ngonaphakade.
Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ayenzi. Ngamanye amaxesha uqhwithela ludla ngokungena. Ukungaboni ngasonye kukhokelela kumlo. Okulandelayo kufumana umzimba omncinci. Ngokukhawuleza, ufumanisa ukuba uya emfazweni ngenxa yezona zinto zilula.
Ngelishwa, abanye abantu abazi malunga nokuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni okwenzeka kubudlelwane babo. Nokuba kunjalo okanye abafuni kuyamkela.
Kubalulekile ukwazi kakuhle ukuba yintoni kuba oko kufana nokuba ungazi nto kwisaqhwithi esikungqongileyo: mayikunethise ngaphandle kokuzikhusela kule meko.
Ukubetha
Masiqale ngokucacileyo: ukuba iipunch ziyaphoswa, kukho ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni okwenzekayo ekhayeni lakho. Ayinamsebenzi neenjongo zokukhaba, ukubetha, okanye ukubetha ngamanqindi kunikezelwe, kusengokuxhaphaza ngokwasemzimbeni.
Abanye banokuyikhuhla, okanye bade bathethelele lo mpatho gadalala ngokuthi “Ewe, ndikuqalile.” Nokuba "uyayiqala", ayizukugqitywa de uxhatshazo olo lwamkelwe ukuba luyintoni na. Uhlaselo luza kuqhubeka ukwenzeka, umtshato wakho uyakuthi uphume ngaphandle kolawulo, kwaye ngaphandle kokuba kukho ungenelelo uza kuba uhamba wedwa, kwaye indlela ebuhlungu. Sukuzithethelela izenzo zeqabane lakho ukuba oku kuyenzeka kuwe. Funa ukhuseleko kwaye wazise umntu ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kanye kanye.
Ukubamba
Ukuba asikhange sitshintshane, oko akubalulekanga. ”
Akulunganga.
Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni konke malunga nolawulo. Ngokufaka iintlungu emzimbeni, irhamncwa ligcina ixhoba lalo endaweni yalo. Ukubamba ngenkani kunokoyikisa ngempama okanye inqindi. Ukubamba ingalo yakho, ubuso bakho, okanye naliphi na elinye ilungu lomzimba zonke ezi zinto zijongwa njengeendlela zokuhlukumeza emzimbeni. Sukuyidlulisa le nto ngenxa yokuba bekungekho ziphoso ziphosiweyo. Ukubamba kungashiya imivumbo emininzi njengepunch okanye impama, kwaye inokuthi ifane noloyiko lwayo lweemvakalelo.
Ukuphosa izinto
Isenokuba yipleyiti, isibane okanye isitulo; Into ephoswa ngendlela enobungozi ibalwa njengokuxhatshazwa emzimbeni. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba ithagethi ibethiwe okanye hayi. Inqaku kukuba umntu omnye wayenjalo ndiyazama ukwenzakalisa omnye. Ngenxa yokuba bengaphumelelanga oko akuthethi ukuba kufanele kugxothwe. Nokuba sele yenzekile kube kanye okanye ikhulu lamaxesha, yazi ukuba luhlobo lokuhlukumeza emzimbeni kwaye alunakuhoywa.
Izenzo zesondo ezinyanzelisiweyo
Ngenxa yokuba utshatile oko akuthethi ukuba imvume ihlala inikwa. Ukuba iqabane lakho liyazinyanzela kuwe, luhlobo lokuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni; udlwengulo. Uninzi lwabantu aluyiboni le nto njengemeko esemthethweni yokuxhatshazwa emtshatweni ngenxa yokuba ukutshata kukuzibophelela ukuba ube ngamaqabane ezesondo ubomi bakho bonke. Kodwa sonke sineentsuku ezinde, iintsuku apho singekho kwimood, kunye neentsuku ukuba isini asisithandisi.
Ungazikhohlisi ngokucinga ukuba oku kufanele kungakhathalelwa. Oku, njengazo zonke ezinye iindlela zokuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni, yindlela umntu ophetheyo afuna ukulawula ngayo iqabane lakhe. Ukuba uziva ngathi iqabane lakho liyazinyanzela kuwe, kwaye uziva ngathi awukwazi ukulawula kwigumbi lokulala, funa uncedo ... kwaye ukhawuleze.
Iingcinga zokugqibela
Elula njengokuba inokubekwa, ukuphathwa gadalala nasiphi na isenzo somzimba oko kukwenza uzive usengozini okanye ungalawuleki kubudlelwane bakho. Ijongeka yahlukile kuye wonke umntu kwaye ihlala ichaphazela imiba yobudlelwane bomntu ngamnye.
Into ebalulekileyo kukuba awuhlali kwimeko yokwala malunga nokuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni okwenzeka ekhayeni lakho. Ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukuza kummiselo wento ejikelezileyo, kodwa kunyanzelekile ukuba ufuna umtshato wakho kunye neemeko zobomi ziphucuke.
Ukuba uhlala ukwesaba rhoqo, ulinde nje ukuba iqabane lakho liqhume, yazi ukuba awuwedwa. Kukho abantu abanokukunceda. Kukho iinkonzo ezinokugcina ukhuselekile.
Rhoqo, xa uziva ungaphaya kolawulo lelo xesha kanye ekufuneka ulawule ngalo. Qalisa ukuthetha. Fumana umhlobo okanye ilungu losapho kwaye ubaxelele ukuba uziva ungakhuselekanga. Okukhona uya kufumana abantu ngokuzithemba, kokukhona kungcono. Oku kuyakwakha umfutho njengoko unqwenela ukufumana uncedo kwiingcali, okanye nokuba kunyanzeliswa nomthetho. Ukuba nale nkqubo yenkxaso kuya kubaluleka njengoko uzama ukulwa nendlela yakho yokuphuma kwikona ekubeke kulo iqabane lakho.
Nokuba ukuvumile ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni kubudlelwane bakho okanye akunjalo, ndiyathemba ukuba oku kuyakukukhanyisa kwimeko yakho. Musa ukwenza iswekile kwinyani yakho. Musa ukukucekisa ukuxhatshazwa ngenxa yothando lweqabane lakho. Ukuba uthando beludibene, ubungayi kuba kule meko. Ekuphela kwendlela yokulungisa kukuvuma into eyaphukileyo. Funa uncedo namhlanje ukuba uyahlukunyezwa emzimbeni liqabane lakho.