Umxholo
- Unokufuna umntu:
- "Kutheni ingxaki?" usenokuzibuza
- Wazi njani kwaye utsale umyeni wakho wexesha elizayo?
- Nanku umahluko:
- Umahluko phakathi ukuthandana iimpawu kunye neempawu umyeni
Ukuba awutshatanga-kwaye awufuni ukuba-ukhethe amadoda angalunganga.
Ewe, ndiyazi ukuba kuninzi okucacileyo — kodwa ndifuna ukukunceda uqonde ngoba ukhetha amadoda angalunganga kwaye akunike izixhobo zokukhetha ezifanelekileyo
Nantsi into. Kunokubakho (kwaye mhlawumbi) zininzi izizathu zokuba ukhetha amadoda angalunganga, kodwa ndinokukunceda ungene kwindawo enkulu: Utsalela iimpawu ocinga ukuba ufuna kwindoda. . . kwaye uzifumanise uphoxekile ngokuqondakalayo kwiziphumo.
Nantsi into endiyithethayo. Nokuba uyayiqonda okanye awuyazi, udale uluhlu lokujonga (kwaye mhlawumbi, ngokomzimba) lweempawu ovavanya amadoda odibana nawo kunye nomhla.
Unokufuna umntu:
- Ingaphezulu kweenyawo ezi-6 ubude
- Yenza i $ 100,000 + ngonyaka
- Unesidanga sokuthweswa isidanga
- Uthanda ukutya newayini
- Akanabantwana
- Uwuthanda kakhulu umsebenzi wakhe
- Uthanda ukunyuka intaba nokubaleka
- Ziqhelanise nenkolo yakho enye
- [faka umgangatho owuthandayo apha]
Kwaye ingxaki utsalela la madoda ebomini bakho!
"Kutheni ingxaki?" usenokuzibuza
Ndiza kukuxelela: Ezi ayizizo iimpawu ezenza umyeni "afezekileyo". Ezi ziimpawu ezikufumanayo:
- Indoda "elungileyo ephepheni" omele uyithande. . . owawungenayo intlantsi.
- Indoda eshushu kakhulu, esisityebi. . . ongavumi ukumamela okanye ukuzibophelela kuwe.
- Umntu okrelekrele, ohlekisayo. . . ophela ngokuzingca okanye kangangeveki qho emva kwexeshana.
- Indoda ethandwa ngabazali bakho (kuba nobabini niKatolika, kunjalo). . . ngubani ongafuniyo ukulalanisa.
Ayisoze yasebenza nala madoda ahlangabezana nazo zonke iimfuno zakho-kwaye kulungile! Akufanelekanga. Uya kuhlala-uyadika, awufumaneki ngokwasemphefumlweni, uzingca, awuphuhlanga, awunalusini ixesha lakho ngenxa yokuba bade, bayaphumelela, bayahlekisa, kwaye bayathanda ukutya ngaphandle okanye ukunyuka intaba.
Wazi njani kwaye utsale umyeni wakho wexesha elizayo?
Endaweni yokutsala (emva koko ulahle) la madoda-okanye mandundu, ukuzinza komnye wawo!
Ukuze uyeke ukubuza, "ingaba nguye?" Kuya kufuneka uhlaziye uluhlu lwakho lomyeni olufanelekileyo! Yeka ukuzinza "kwiimpawu ezintle" kwaye ucace gca "kwiimpawu zobambiswano ezingapheliyo" ofuna ukubizela kuzo.
Nanku umahluko:
Iimpawu ezinomtsalane zibangela inkanuko kuwe kwaye zikuvule. Iimpawu eziDibeneyo zokuBambisana zikwenza wonwabe ekuhambeni kwexesha.
Ezi mpawu zibonisa ukuba iqabane lakho elizayo likwenza uzive njani kunye nendlela ekuphatha ngayo.
Umahluko phakathi ukuthandana iimpawu kunye neempawu umyeni
Nangona ezi mpawu ziya kwahluka ukusuka komnye umntu ukuya komnye, nantsi imizekelo embalwa yokuguqula iivili zakho:
Umtsalane iimpawu zokuthandana:
- Kuyonwabisa
- Ikhulisiwe
- Mde
- Ukuthanda
- Uyaphumelela
- Ehlekisayo
- Kufanelekile
- Inkolo Yokomoya / Enye
- Ezopolitiko ezifanayo
- Umhle
Iimpawu zobambiswano ezingapheliyo:
- Iyahambelana
- Inokuthenjwa
- Ukuzibophelela
- Uhlobo
- Uyolo
- Ngesondo
- Unokuthenjwa
- Isempilweni
- Inkxaso
- Uzinzile
- Ngqalelo
- Masonwabe
- Ingaba ndingayiqasha pho imoto
Uyawubona umahluko?
Ukuba ukulungele ukuyeka ukungatshati. . .
Ukuba ukulungele ukuthandana ngoku. . .
Ukuba ukulungele ukutsala indoda eya kukuxabisa kwaye ikuphathe kakuhle. . .
. . . Emva koko awungekhe ulungele ubudlelwane apho eyona nto yakho inzima, ezona mfuno zibalulekileyo zingafezekiswa.
Ezo mfuno ayizizo ukuba iqabane lakho libe lide okanye libe nempumelelo okanye luthande ukunyuka-ubuncinci, ezo ayizizo iimfuno zakho kuphela.
Yiyo loo nto ndiyathemba ukuba ungalalanisa kubude bakhe ukuba uzimisele kwaye unyanisekile.
Yiyo loo nto ndiyathemba ukuba ungalalanisa kwimpumelelo yangaphandle ukuba unomdla kwaye uyayixhasa.
Kungenxa yoko le nto ndiyathemba ukuba unokulalanisa kunyuko ukuba ulala ngesondo kwaye uthembekile.
Yiyo loo nto ndiyathemba ukuba uyala ukuzinza kwezo mpawu zihlala zibambisene nentliziyo kwaye uhlala uvulekile ukuba uzinikele kwiimpawu ezimbalwa ezinomtsalane kwiqabane lakho elizayo.
Yeka ukunika ixesha lakho namandla akho kumadoda angenako ukukunika eyona nto uyifunayo. Endaweni yoko, cacisa kwiimpawu zentsebenziswano ongasayi kuhlala kuzo-emva koko uye emhlabeni kwaye ubize ubumnandi, uthando, ubudlelwane obuhlala buhleli obufunayo kwaye obufanelwe.