Umxholo
- 1. Mxelele into oyithandayo ngaye
- 2. Fika ngendlela efanelekileyo
- 3. Phuma ngomhla
- 4. Thumela umyalezo wothando
- 5. Yiba nokuzonwabisa
- 6. Khuthaza abafana ukuba baphume ebusuku
- 7. Mnike ixesha lokuphumla
- 8. Fumana ii-endorphins zakho zokumpompa
- 9. Nxiba into ayithandayo
- 10. Ukudlala ngokufihlakeleyo
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Kodwa kuthekani ngabafana bemihla ngemihla? Kuthekani ngamadoda afana nomyeni wakho? Uninzi lwamadoda alungeni kwezi zinto zigqithisileyo. Amadoda ayakuthanda kwaye ayakuxabisa ukuthandana kanye njengabafazi, nangona ngamanye amaxesha inkcazo yabo yothando yahlukile. Kwaye amadoda ngokuqinisekileyo akufuneki athathe indima yokuba yedwa yokwenza izinto zothando nakweyiphi na ubudlelwane.
Ukuba ufuna ukubonisa abafana bakho ukuthandana, zama enye yeendlela ezilishumi ezilula zokuthandana nomyeni wakho.]
1. Mxelele into oyithandayo ngaye
Ukuva into oyithandayo ngaye kuyangqina kumyeni wakho. Thatha umzuzu yonke imihla ukumncoma. Ngaba uyayithanda indlela ahlala ekuhlekisa ngayo? Ngaba uyayithanda indlela aqhutywa ngayo emsebenzini wakhe? Ngaba uyenza isosi enkulu ye-marinara okhe wayingcamla? Mxelele! Yenza rhoqo, inyani, izincomo ziyinxalenye yosuku lwakho.
2. Fika ngendlela efanelekileyo
Hayi, asithethi ngesondo (nangona oko kumnandi). Yenza umnxeba indawo eqhelekileyo ebomini bakho kunye. Bamba isandla sakhe xa uhamba esitratweni, okanye umnike igxalaba okanye unyawo xa uphumla esofeni kunye. Ukubamba nje ingalo yakho kuye okanye ukumanga okanye ukumncamisa esidleleni kukudibanisa nobabini kwaye kukhuthaza ukusondelelana.
3. Phuma ngomhla
Xa utshatile, kulula kakhulu ukulibala ngokuthandana. Lixesha lokuba uvuselele idangatye-ukuphuma ngomhla kuyindlela eqinisekileyo yokuthandana nomyeni wakho. Hlela i-sitter yasebusuku kwaye uthathe isigqibo ngendawo yomhla wakho. Phuma ubone umboniso okanye utye ngaphandle. Ngothando olongeziweyo, zilungiselele ngokwahlukeneyo kwaye nidibane kwindawo, kanye njengokuba wenzayo ekuqaleni kobudlelwane bakho.
4. Thumela umyalezo wothando
Mbhalele inowuthi eyenzelwe ukubeka uncumo ebusweni bakhe. Nokuba imnandi okanye isosi, x-ikaliwe okanye iyahlekisa, bhala into uyazi ukuba angayithanda. Slip kuyo ibrifkheyisi okanye ibhegi yasemini, okanye uyifake ngaphakathi kwincwadi ayifundayo. Yinto elula, eyothusayo, eya kumenza azive ethandwa kwaye ethandana.
5. Yiba nokuzonwabisa
Ukuba ne-adventure kunye yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokubeka i-spark encinci kubudlelwane bakho. Ngaba ikhona into ayithandayo umyeni wakho, okanye ebesoloko efuna ukuyenza, njengokuskiya okanye ukufunda ulwimi olutsha? Ngaba ikhona indawo obusoloko usithi niya kuhamba kunye, okanye ivenkile yokutyela ugcina intsingiselo yokuzama? Ngoku lixesha lokuba uyenze. Thatha ubusuku okanye impelaveki kwaye ube ne-adventure yakho encinci-ukwenza into entsha kunye nokutsha kwenza ubudlelwane bakho baziva butsha, nabo.
6. Khuthaza abafana ukuba baphume ebusuku
Abafana bafuna ixesha nabahlobo babo kanye njengoko ufuna ixesha lamantombazana. Jonga abantwana ubusuku ukuze aphume kunye nabahlobo bakhe. Ukuba uyazi ukuba kukho umsitho ozayo afuna ukuya nawo nabahlobo bakhe, mkhuthaze ukuba awenzele. Uyakuthanda ukuba uyalixhasa ilungelo lakhe lokufumana ixesha lomfana.
7. Mnike ixesha lokuphumla
Ngaba uhlala epheka isidlo sangokuhlwa okanye ekhupha inkunkuma? Yenza enye yemisebenzi yakhe yasebusuku kwaye umnike ixesha lokuba yedwa. Mhlawumbi uxinezelekile malunga neprojekthi yomsebenzi, okanye usebenze iiyure ezongezelelweyo. Bonisa ukuba uyakhathala ngokurabha iinyawo, ibhiya ebandayo, okanye ukwenza ezinye izinto ezongeze indlu ukumxhasa kude kube sezolile.
8. Fumana ii-endorphins zakho zokumpompa
Akukho nto injengokuphuma kunye nokusebenza.Ukwenza umthambo rhoqo kuyilungele impilo yakho - kwenze kunye ukuze nibe nobudlelwane kwaye wonwabisane kunye ngexesha elinye. Yibalekela ipaki yendawo, zama ukutyibilika emkhenkceni okanye intenetya, okanye ubambe abahlobo bakho ngomdlalo wefrisbee. Uya kuziva ulungile kwaye ixesha kunye liya kongeza ukuthandana kubudlelwane bakho.
9. Nxiba into ayithandayo
Ngoku ayisiyiyo-1950s kwaye asicebisi ukuba uqale ngokunxiba indoda yakho kuphela. Kukho into enokuthethwa ngokunxiba into owaziyo ukuba uyayithanda, nangona. Uyayithanda into ayibonayo, kwaye uyakuxabisa ukuba uthathe inkathazo yokumnxibisa yona. Ngexesha elizayo xa ekhankanya ukuba uyayithanda indlela okhangeleka ngayo kule lokhwe, okanye ukuba ujongeka umhle kwelo qhosha lisezantsi lehempe, qaphela kwaye uyinxibe ngexesha elizayo xa usenza into kunye.
10. Ukudlala ngokufihlakeleyo
Ukudlala ngothando okufihlakeleyo okuncinci kuyonwabisa kwaye kubi, kwaye indlela egqibeleleyo yokuthandana nomyeni wakho. Mthumele isicatshulwa sesosi phakathi kwemini. Yoyama ngaphezulu kwekofu okanye ngexesha lokuthenga ukutya kunye nokusebezela izinto ezimnandi endlebeni yakhe. Ukuba uphume ukuya kwisidlo sangokuhlwa okanye kumdlalo othile, bhala into kuye kwi-napkin okanye itikiti kwaye uyidlulisele kuye-imfihlo ecebisayo ukuba wena kuphela owabelana ngayo iya kukhawulezisa umlilo.
Ukuthandana nomyeni wakho kumenza azive ethandwa kwaye exatyisiwe kwaye kongeza ukuqaqamba kubudlelwane bakho nokuba unexesha elingakanani utshatile. Ngale mibono ilula kuhlala kukho ixesha lokuthandana, kutheni ungazami enye namhlanje?