Umxholo
- Kutheni ubuhlobo kubaluleke kangaka kubafazi
- Umhlobo womfazi wakho osenyongweni kwaye kutheni kunokubakho iingxaki
- Yintoni omele uyenze xa umhlobo wakho osenyongweni engekho kwicala lakho
Umhlobo osenyongweni womfazi wakho unokuba ngoyena mlingane wakho mkhulu okanye olona tshaba lukhulu. Yeyiphi eya kuxhomekeka kwizinto ezininzi, kwaye uninzi alukho kumandla akho okuba nefuthe. Nangona kunjalo, kukwakho izinto ezimbalwa onokuzenza ukukhulisa ubudlelwane obunobuhlobo kunye nomhlobo osenyongweni womfazi wakho kwaye uqiniseke ukuba awuthotywa yimpembelelo yakhe.
Kutheni ubuhlobo kubaluleke kangaka kubafazi
Ngelishwa, kukho amadoda amaninzi athi kwaye akholelwa ngokuqinileyo ukuba abafazi abanako ukuba nobuhlobo bokwenene. Ngelixa isifundo esihlala sisiseko sokuqwalaselwa kwabagxeki malunga nehlabathi, eli bango likude kakhulu nenyaniso. Ewe, uninzi lwabahlobo ababhinqileyo luyaqhekeka, kodwa kunjalo nangobuhlobo bendoda. Ngapha koko, nangona ubuhlobo babasetyhini buhlala buhlupheka phantsi komthwalo woxanduva lwemihla ngemihla, usapho, uthando olutsha, kunye nomona rhoqo kunye nokhuphiswano xa abafazi baba ngabahlobo bokwenyani, ihlala iluhlobo lomanyano olunokufikelela kuloo nto phakathi koodade abasondeleyo. Kwaye wonke umntu wasetyhini unethamsanqa lokuba nomhlobo olungileyo wokumxhasa nokumthuthuzela.
Ubophelelo ababhinqileyo ababelana nabo xa bengabahlobo abasenyongweni ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba lilitye lembombo lentlalontle lomfazi wakho. Kwaye akukho nto unokuba nomona ngayo, kodwa ibhiyozele le nyaniso. Abasetyhini banesidingo sokwabelana ngeemvakalelo ezithile kunye namava ahlala edibana nomnye umfazi. Abahlobo ababalaseleyo babafazi bakhona ukumamela iingxaki zomnye nomnye, ukunika intuthuzelo kunye namagama afanelekileyo. Oku kukhokelela kukuziva ulwaneliseko lobomi ngokubanzi kunye nokuba sempilweni.
Nangona bebaninzi abafazi abatshatileyo abathi abayeni babo ngabona bahlobo babo basenyongweni, abaninzi bayabaxabisa nabahlobo babo ababhinqileyo. Njengoko izifundo zibonisa xa umntu anelisekile ngobuhlobo babo, ukoneliseka kwabo bubomi ngokubanzi kuyanda. Ukuba nomhlobo osenyongweni onokwabelana naye ngeengxaki zabo kunye nokunciphisa umthwalo kungqineka kuyeyona nto ibalulekileyo kwimpilo yengqondo nolonwabo.
Umhlobo womfazi wakho osenyongweni kwaye kutheni kunokubakho iingxaki
Ngoku, njengokuba usenokuba sele ufumene amava, umhlobo osenyongweni womfazi wakho unokufaka isandla emtshatweni wakho okanye abe negalelo kwiingxaki ezikuwo. Isizathu sichaziwe kwicandelo elidlulileyo- umfazi wakho uya kuthi abelane ngeengxaki zakhe nomhlobo wakhe, kwaye ezinye zezo ngxaki ziya kuba malunga nomtshato wakho. Akuqhelekanga ukuba amadoda akhononde kumcebisi womtshato malunga nefuthe lomhlobo obalaseleyo womfazi kulwalamano lwabo.Oku kunokuba kuyinyani okanye kungabi yinyani, ngamanye amaxesha kunokwenzeka ukuba utolike ngokungalunganga isenzo somfazi wakho njengesiphumo seengcebiso zomhlobo endaweni yokucinga kwakhe. Oku kuyalinga kuba kulula ukuba nomsindo emntwini ongaphandle kunomlingane wakho wobomi.
Masithi ngamanye amaxesha oku kunokuba yinyani. Kwaye isenokungabikho ngenxa yeenjongo ezimbi. Abasetyhini bakhusela kakhulu abo babathandayo. Akuqhelekanga ukuba umhlobo athathe isimo sengqondo sokuzikhusela kwaye aqale ukusebenza ngokuchasene nawe. Ungenelelo olunjalo lunokuthi lubeke emtshatweni umtshato, njengoko abahlobo banokuba nefuthe elikhulu emntwini.
Yintoni omele uyenze xa umhlobo wakho osenyongweni engekho kwicala lakho
Nangona kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhathazekile kwaye unomsindo, khumbula ukuba oyena mhlobo womfazi wakho usenokuba akakhohlakalanga. Ngapha koko, ngokuqinisekileyo uyakholelwa ukuba wenza eyona nto ilungileyo kumhlobo wakhe osenyongweni. Oku kunokuba yinto ekhubekisayo kwaye ibenzakalise, kunye nokusongela. Okwangoku, ukubandakanyeka kungquzulwano oluthe ngqo lwalo naluphi na uhlobo, kunye nenkosikazi yakho okanye umhlobo wakhe osenyongweni, ayisosisombululo silungileyo kule meko. Endaweni yoko, zama ukuzuza kule meko.
Qala ngokuzibuza ukuba yintoni na onokuyifunda kuyo. Masikuncede-nangona umhlobo abona into oyenzayo njengengxaki mhlawumbi uyibaxileyo, inyani kukuba umfazi wakho akanelisekanga zizinto ezithile kubudlelwane bakho. Ke ngoko, jonga njengethuba lokuqinisa umtshato wakho kunye nokuphucula indlela ophatha ngayo umfazi wakho.
Ukwenza njani oku? Njengesiqhelo, unxibelelwano ngoyena ndoqo. Kukho izinto ezimbini ekufuneka uzidlulisele kumfazi wakho. Eyokuqala ngumdla kwiminqweno yakhe kunye neemfuno, kunye nokuzimisela ukwenza izinto zibengcono. Okwesibini kukuziva kwakho malunga nokuqhubekayo. Ngokunxibelelana ngokuthe ngqo nangokuzimisela, ninokufikelela emtshatweni ongcono kwaye nifunde izinto ezintsha malunga nomnye.