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- Iilwimi ezintlanu zothando: Indlela yokubonisa ukuzibophelela okusuka entliziyweni kwiqabane lakho-UGary chapman
- Ukulungela ukubotshwa- iiBill hybels kunye neeLynne hybels
- Imida: Xa usithi ewe, ungayithini indlela yokulawula ubomi bakho-uHenry ilifu
- Uthando & nentlonipho: Uthando aluthanda kakhulu; Intlonipho ayifuna kakhulu-uEmerson eggerichs
- Olona xolo lukhulu: Ukulindela ubabalo phakathi kobunzima bobomi- IKara tippetts, Joni eareckson tada
- Intsingiselo yomtshato: Ukujongana nobunzima bomtshato ngobulumko bukathixo -Timothy keller
Yonke imitshato ihlangabezana namaxesha ovuyo abalulekileyo kunye nengxaki yesiphithiphithi. Ewe, akukho ngqiqweni ukucinga ukuba umtshato uyakuhlala ubalulekile kwaye ungabikho emzabalazweni.
Kungenxa yoko le nto sikukhuthaza ukuba ufunde kwaye ujonge ukusebenzisa ezinye ze Iincwadi ezilungileyo zomtshato zamaKristu kwizibini ezitshatileyo okanye zincwadi nje zobuKristu ezenzelwe izibini, ukunceda isibini ukuba sihlaziye ukholo lwabo kuThixo nasemtshatweni wabo.
Ngelixa ezi ncwadi zokucebisa ngomtshato zamaKristu zinganikeli mgaqo oqinisekileyo womtshato wolonwabo emtshatweni, zinika amaqabane iingcebiso zomtshato wamaKristu ezinokuzisa ukomelela kunye nethemba kwakhona kumanyano olonakeleyo.
Njengokhuthazo olongezelelekileyo lokugcwalisa incoko yokuzibandakanya neqabane lakho, ezi zihloko zeencwadi ezilungileyo zomtshato zisebenzisa uphando olwenziweyo olwenza ukuqonda kunye "neendlela zokuthetha." Ngaba ujonge iindlela ezahlukeneyo?
Zisa uninzi lwale mtshato uncede iincwadi ekhaya kwaye uqwalasele ukwamkela ezinye zeendlela eziphakamileyo kwindawo nganye. Iminqweno emihle njengoko uqala ixesha lokuhlola kunye nethuba lokufumana oku Iincwadi zobudlelwane bobuKristu.
Nazi ezinye iincwadi zamaKristu ezinconywayo kunye nezithengisa kakhulu ngomtshato kunye nobudlelwane:
Iilwimi ezintlanu zothando: Indlela yokubonisa ukuzibophelela okusuka entliziyweni kwiqabane lakho-UGary chapman
Le yenye yezona zininzi kuhle Iincwadi zamaKristu kwizibini ezitshatileyo eziye zaba sisiseko songenelelo kuseto lonyango. Ibuza umbuzo ofanelekileyo kwaye omangalisayo, "Ngaba wena neqabane lakho nithetha ulwimi olunye?"
Ngokucacileyo ayisiyo inkcazo ngezibonelelo zokutyibilika kwesiSpanish okanye isiJamani. Endaweni yoko, lo mthamo uluncedo ulukhulu kakhulu ujonga ixesha elisemgangathweni, amagama okuvuma, izipho, imisebenzi yenkonzo, kunye nokuchukumisa okwasemzimbeni njengelona lwimi lubalulekileyo kwintsebenziswano ebambiseneyo.
Ngokuzilolonga nakwincoko, amaqabane amisela ukuba zeziphi iilwimi ezithetha kwiqabane ngalinye. Injongo kaGqr.Chapman ngezi ncwadi zikhethekileyo kukuxhobisa abalingani ukuba baqonde kwaye bathethe iilwimi zenye.
Nokuba asinakho ukulufaka ngokupheleleyo ulwimi lweqabane, sinokulufaka kolwethu.
Ukulungela ukubotshwa- iiBill hybels kunye neeLynne hybels
Lo mdala kodwa ulungile usebenzisa iilensi zokholo ukunceda izibini zibanga ubabalo lwemihla ngemihla kwaye zifunde indlela yokonwaba ngokwenyani kunye nexesha kunye. Ukunikezela ngeengcebiso ezifanelekileyo kwimicimbi efana nokufumana iqabane elifanelekileyo kunye nokunxibelelana ngonxibelelwano, le ncwadi ibhalwe ngendlela ebandakanyekayo nenobulumko.
Siyixabise kakhulu isaveyi kunye nezikali zokureyitha ezinikezelwa kwesi sihloko. Ngokusebenzisa izixhobo ezibandakanyiweyo, izibini zinethuba lokwenyani lokuphucula izakhono kunye nokomeleza ubudlelwane. Oku ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo enye ye ezona ncwadi zilungileyo zomtshato.
Imida: Xa usithi ewe, ungayithini indlela yokulawula ubomi bakho-uHenry ilifu
Imida emfutshane, ecacileyo nehloniphekileyo iyimfuneko kulwalamano olusempilweni. Ngelishwa, imida yemida ihlala iyinto ebangela ukuba ukuwohloka kobudlelwane kunye noxinzelelo lomtshato.
Incwadi ethi "Imida" inceda amaqabane ukuba ajonge ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokweemvakalelo nangokomoya imida echaza isithuba somnye umntu.
Usebenzisa uphando olucokisekileyo kunye nokuqonda okucacileyo, ilifu linceda abaphulaphuli bakhe - nguwe-ogqiba ukuba imiba yomda ibumba njani, icela umngeni, okanye ibuthintela ubudlelwane. Ngelixa lo mthamo unokudala uxinzelelo phakathi kwamaqabane, imibuzo eyibuzayo ilungile.
Uthando & nentlonipho: Uthando aluthanda kakhulu; Intlonipho ayifuna kakhulu-uEmerson eggerichs
Eli volumu licocekileyo kwaye lavavanywa nguEmerson Eggrichs likhuthaza amaqabane abesilisa nabasetyhini ukuba bajonge indlela izenzo zabo okanye ukungasebenzi kwabo okungcolisa ngayo umkhondo womanyano.
Yenzelwe ukuxhaswa ngophando olunzulu kunye novavanyo olukhulu lwentsimi, Uthando kunye nentlonipho ibuza izibini imibuzo enzima malunga nomsindo, ubundlongondlongo, ukungakhathali, kunye nokucinga.
Ukusebenza ngengqikelelo yokuba amaqabane angathathi ixesha lokwazi nokuxabisa amaqabane abo, uthando kunye nentlonipho lukhuthaza abantu ngaphakathi ngokudibanisa ukutyala imali kwimpilo kunye novuyo lwabanye ababalulekileyo.
Olona xolo lukhulu: Ukulindela ubabalo phakathi kobunzima bobomi- IKara tippetts, Joni eareckson tada
Kubhalwe ngokwembono yokuba ngumama, Uxolo Olunzima Kunikezi abaphulaphuli iimpendulo ezikhawulezileyo xa ubomi bemihla ngemihla kunye neziqhelo kunzima, kodwa incwadi iyanyanzelisa ukuba ubabalo lungasikhokelela kwicala elitsha nokuba ukuthandabuza nokuphelelwa lithemba kubonakala ngathi kunosuku .
Oku Incwadi yomtshato wamaKristu iwonga ukubandezeleka kwabaninzi abaye bazabalaza phambi kwethu, Olona Xolo luLukhuni lujonga iindlela ezifanelekileyo ezisibeka kwindlela yokubuyisela ubudlelwane kunye novuyo oluhlaziyiweyo.
Incwadi ikwanceda abaphulaphuli ukuba bakwazi ukumelana nomda kodwa uxanduva olubalulekileyo lobizo, ukuba ngumzali, nokunye okunjalo. Umthandazo kunye neqela lokuqonda kweBhayibhile ngeli galelo libalulekileyo.
Intsingiselo yomtshato: Ukujongana nobunzima bomtshato ngobulumko bukathixo -Timothy keller
Ibhalwe ngumfundisi uTimoti keller edityaniswe kunye nokuqonda okuvela kumfazi wakhe uKathy, Intsingiselo yomtshato ibonisa indlela ezisa ngayo uvuyo ebomini bethu nokusizisa sonke ngokudala umtshato.
Incwadi isebenza njengokhuthazo lwamaKristu, angengawo amaKristu okanye umntu onokholo malunga nezitshixo zolonwabo emtshatweni.
Incwadi ibandakanya indlela iBhayibhile esifundisa ngayo ubuqaqawuli bobudlelwane bomtshato kwaye isinceda ukuba siziqonde iimfihlakalo zayo. Ibhalwe ngebali leBhayibhile kwaye igcina umtshato embindini, le ncwadi icacisa ngesidingo sokubonisa uthando emtshatweni wethu.
Ke, ukuba ufuna ukwamkela uThixo nothando ebomini bakho, Intsingiselo yoMtshato yenye yeencwadi zokucebisa ngomtshato.
Kunzima phaya, zihlobo. Xa intsebenziswano isengozini, ivakalelwa kukuba ubomi busengozini. Yintoni esifanele siyenze xa ooyeha abanolwalamano befumana okona kulungileyo ebomini bethu?
Cela uncedo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba singqongwe ngabantu esibathembayo esinokukwazi ukusinceda kwiindawo ezingcolileyo. UThixo wenza ukuphilisa kwenzeke. Unokuphinda ufune Izifundo zebhayibhile kubantu abatshatileyo abazenzayo kunye ukuphinda uvuselele uthando emtshatweni wakho.