Umxholo
- Ngaba ufuna ukuba akujonge ngamehlo anentliziyo evuyayo?
- Q: luyintoni kanye kanye uthando?
- Q: Zeziphi izipho zothando ozifumeneyo?
- Q: Zithini ezinye izimvo zothando kuye?
- Q: Zithini ezinye izimvo zothando ngaye kwigumbi lokulala?
- Umbuzo: Ngaba ucinga ukuba wonke umntu kufuneka aye kolu hlobo lokulala?
- Umbuzo: Kuthekani ngokuthandana ekhaya? Yintoni engcono?
- Q: Nawaphi na amagama okugqibela kwiingcinga zothando kuye?
Ngaba ufuna ukwenza ukuba isithandwa sakho siphelelwe ngamandla emadolweni? Mnike ezothando azifunayo ngezi ngcebiso zothando kuye.
Njengoko ufunda uyazithanda ezi ngcebiso zothando kuye njengoko ziya kukunceda uzive uqhagamshelene kakhulu neqabane lakho.
Ngaba ufuna ukuba akujonge ngamehlo anentliziyo evuyayo?
Yenza umphefumlo wakhe uncume ngezi ngcebiso zothando kuye.
Njengoko ufunda eli bali kwibali lothando, uya kufumana imibono yoyilo lwesiqhelo malunga nothando ngaye. Umfazi okhethekileyo ebomini bakho.
Nabani na owathi uthando alufanga zange adibane noCarole Nottingham.
UCarole ungusekela-mongameli wenkampani enkulu engama-50 kwibhanki enkulu, kodwa umfanekiso ongacacanga webhanki eqinileyo ayinakudlula kwindlela uCarole abuphila ngayo ubomi bakhe.
UCarole uhlala kunye nokuthandana.
Yena nomyeni wakhe bakhetha ukugcina ukuthanda njengenxalenye ebalulekileyo yobomi babo.
Abantu abasebenza naye baziva ukuba uzimisele, uthembekile kwaye ujolise kugxa wakhe. Abahlobo bakhe bathi ngoyena mntu ucinga kakhulu kwiqela labo.
Ukuthandana kugcwele kwihlabathi lakhe kwaye kunokubonwa kwimo yakhe yefashoni kunye nesitayile sakhe. Nokuba yimibono yothando ngaye ekhaya okanye iingcebiso zothando kuye, akukho kunqongophala kwezimvo zokufumana abafazi kwimood.
Sibethe uCarole njengengcali yethu kuzo zonke izinto zothando.
Uya kwabelana ngezimvo zothando ngaye, atyhile indlela yokuzisa uthando kubomi bemihla ngemihla kunye neengcebiso ekulula ukuzilandela kwimibono yothando ngaye.
Ukuphucula, ukuphucula, ukuphucula
UCarole wadibana nathi kwigumbi lenkomfa kwikomkhulu lebhanki yakhe.
Ukujonga ngokungakhathali i-chic kwi-Armani enesinxibo esimnyama esimnyama, wahlala kwesinye sezihlalo ezilawulayo zesikhumba ezazijikeleze itafile enkulu yenkomfa.
Uhambise ivazi enkulu yeendlovu ze-vanda orchids ukuze kungabikho mntu ubonwa ngamehlo.
Uqale, “Ndonwabile ukuba ndimenyiwe namhlanje ukuba ndithethe nawe ngesihloko esikufutshane nesithandwa kakhulu kwintliziyo yam, ezothando.
Ndifuna ukwabelana ngezinye zeengcinga zam kunye neengcebiso malunga nesi sihloko sibaluleke kakhulu kwiingcebiso zothando kuye. Ndinegama elilodwa lobomi ebomini: "Ukuphucula". Ngoku masingene kwi-Q yethu kunye no-A.
Q: luyintoni kanye kanye uthando?
A: Nguwuphi umbuzo omkhulu oza kuwuqala. Engqondweni yam, ukuthandana kubalulekile ebomini bam njengeoksijini. Ndicinga ukuba uthando lunokutolikwa ngendlela engaphezulu kweyodwa.
Wonke umntu unokuba nembono eyahlukileyo yento eyenza ukuba kukuthandana, kodwa ndiyayibona inje. Kum, ziimvakalelo kunye nemincili enxulunyaniswa nothando.
Ukuthandana kukucinga ngomnye umntu.
Ezothando zandisa iinkalo ezininzi zobomi. Iingcebiso zothando kuye zimalunga nokukhunjuzwa ukuba ibaluleke kangakanani enye into ayithandayo kwaye iyathandwa.
Q: Zeziphi izipho zothando ozifumeneyo?
A: Ewe, bekukho inani labo. Nantsi enye yezimvo zesipho sam sothando kuye.
Eziqhelekileyo zezi: iiroses, i-bouquets, iitshokholethi, amakhadi. Kodwa eyona nto ichaza ukuthandana kum zizipho ezingalindelekanga: I-limo kwisikhululo seenqwelomoya ngaphambi kokubamba inqwelomoya xa eyazi ukuba ndikuthiyile kangakanani ukuthatha ibhasi, isimanga isidlo sangokuhlwa asiphekayo, isidlo sasemini esimangalisayo esithunyelwe edesikeni yam emsebenzini.
Izipho akufuneki zibe zizacholo okanye iibhabhu, kodwa akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngento eqaqambileyo!
Esinye sezona zipho zothando ndizifumeneyo yileta ebhalwe ngesandla.
Abantu kunqabile ukuba basebenzise iipeni kunye nephepha, kodwa ukubona nje ukubhalwa kothando lwam, kundizisa kwinqanaba elahlukileyo lobudlelwane. Nantso enye iingcebiso zothando kuye eziya kubuyisela ezothando olonwabisayo kunye nomtsalane wehlabathi elidala.
Jonga kwakhona:
Q: Zithini ezinye izimvo zothando kuye?
A: Kwakhona, kukho iingcebiso eziqhelekileyo zothando kuye zokunyusa ukuthanda kunye nothando, uyazi, isidlo sangokuhlwa kunye nomdlalo bhanyabhanya.
Akukho nto igwenxa kuloo nto. Kodwa nangaliphi na ixesha xa nikunye, kufanele kubekho into yothando. Nokuba uhambo oluya eDepho yasekhaya lunokuba loluthandanayo ukuba ukunye nomntu omthandayo.
Jonga phezulu enyangeni njengoko ucanda indawo enkulu yokupaka kwaye ukhumbule ukuba kukho ukhetho oluhle lwee-orchids kwiindawo ezininzi zaseKhaya!
Ndiyazithanda iipiknikiki nokuba kungaliphi ixesha lonyaka. Enye yeengcebiso zam endizithandayo kuye. Awunakuhamba gwenxa kuloo mntu.
Kukho into malunga nokutya kwindawo evulekileyo nokuba uhlala engubeni engceni okanye uhleli kwibhentshi yepikniki, oko kuthandana.
Omnye wemihla yethu yothando kuxa thina sobabini sasizinikela ukunceda ukwakha amakhaya eHabitat yoLuntu.
Sobabini siziva sinoxanduva lokuba kufuneka sibuyise, kwaye ukubona omnye nomnye sincedisana ekwakheni ikhaya losapho olufanelekileyo yenye yezona mini zothando sakha sanazo
Q: Zithini ezinye izimvo zothando ngaye kwigumbi lokulala?
A: Kulungile, masiqale ngokudibanisa: amakhandlela okuvota, ukukhanya okuphantsi, intliziyo eyenziwe ziiroses kwindawo yokulala.
Ngokuqinisekileyo zonke zilungile, kodwa ukukhuphela kancinci zama ukongeza umculo wemood omangalisayo.
Umbhede wakho uya kuba yindawo ekugxilwe kuyo kwigumbi lakho, ke uyile ngendlela ethetha ukuthandana kuwe.
Makhe ndiyichaze.
Udonga olumhlophe lwekhaphethi eludongeni, ukukhanya okuphantsi, i-cymbidium emhlophe eyenziwe ngeebhotile, iintende zesundu ezimbini. Iilinen ebhedini yam zimhlophe iFrette. Yonke into imhlophe. Yindawo yam yokusabela kwihlabathi, i-oasis yam, kunye nezona mbono zithandwayo ngokuhlwa kuye.
Umbuzo: Ngaba ucinga ukuba wonke umntu kufuneka aye kolu hlobo lokulala?
A: Njengam nje? Hayi.
Wonke umntu unoluvo olwahlukileyo lwento eyenzela igumbi lokulala elinothando. Abanye abantu banokuthanda i-shades eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka okanye ebomvu, okanye mhlawumbi nokuba ngumxholo okanye ifenitshala yexesha. Kuxhomekeke kukhetho lwakho lobuqu kwaye inokuthi ikhule kwaye itshintshe ngokuhamba kwexesha.
Xa kuziwa kwizimvo zothando kuye, umhlaba yimbatyisi yakho.
Umbuzo: Kuthekani ngokuthandana ekhaya? Yintoni engcono?
A: Njengamagumbi okulala, oku kuxhomekeke kukhetho lomntu kunye nohlahlo-lwabiwo mali.
Ndikholelwe, bendihlala kwiindawo ekuhombiseni uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali, kodwa ndikwazile ukufumana inkangeleko yothando endandilandela yona. Nantsi ingcebiso eyongezelelweyo kwiingcinga zothando kuye: amakhandlela okuvota.
Baxabisa ngaphandle kwento ngaphandle kokubeka ingcinga kwimihla yakho ngeliso elibukhali ngeenkcukacha, baphakamisa uluhlu lweengcebiso zothando kuye.
Ungazidada kwizitya zamanzi kunye nesibane esisezantsi, zikhangeleka zithandana kumagumbi okuhlala, kumagumbi okulala nakwigumbi lokuhlambela.
Ukuhombisa ngeengubo zelaphu, omnye umhlobo wasebenzisa izinto ezintle ezivela kwi-Indian saris awayeyichola ngexabiso eliphantsi. Yayijongeka ngathi iyathandana. Ukuhonjiswa kwezithandani ekhaya kuthintelwe kukucinga kwakho kunye nohlahlo-lwabiwo mali, ewe.
Q: Nawaphi na amagama okugqibela kwiingcinga zothando kuye?
A: Nokuba umdala kangakanani okanye zithini iimeko zakho, ezothando kufuneka zibe yinxalenye yepasile ebandakanyiweyo ebomini bakho.
Yonyusa yonke into nokuba ngowona msebenzi uqhelekileyo ungabuyisa iinkumbulo zothando. Makhe ndikunike umzekelo: Ndizomisa izitya zam ngeetawuli zeti esizikhethe sobabini kwiholide yethu yasemva komtshato eIreland.
Ndiyakucaphukela ukomisa izitya, kodwa kuba ndisebenzisa ezi thawuli, zibangela ezo nkumbulo zothando kwaye zizise uncumo ebusweni bam nangona ndiphakathi kokwenza umsebenzi endiwudelelayo!
Kwaye okokugqibela, njengoko sisonga uluhlu lwethu lweengcebiso zothando kuye, mnike ingqalelo yakho epheleleyo nengaphelelanga, kwaye ekuphela komqolomba kukuba awumtyhi.
Khumbula ukuba u-bae ufanelekile ukuthandwa kunye nokuqwalaselwa. Akufuneki ukuba acele ixesha lakho kunye nengqwalaselo.