Umxholo
- Imibuzo eqhelekileyo yokucebisa ngomtshato
- Yimpazamo kabani?
- Kuya kuthatha ixesha elingakanani oku?
- Akukho ngxaki, uyasabela, akunjalo?
- Iingcebiso zomtshato
- Hlala ungathathi cala
- Hlala uzolile
- Nika umsebenzi wasekhaya
- Kubalulekile ukuba ugqirha ayazi indima yabo kuyo yonke inkqubo
- Isibini kufuneka sisebenze ngakumbi njengomcebisi-ngumcebisi kunokuba ngumncedisi
Umtshato ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu ababini abahlukileyo. Ke yintoni ukucebisa kwaye kubandakanya ntoni inkqubo yokucebisa ngomtshato?
Kukho ezinye izibini ezide zihambe ngenkqubo yokucebisa ngomtshato nangaphambi komsitho osemthethweni wokuphucula ubudlelwane babo.
Ayisiyonto ingakanani uthando olukhoyo phakathi kwabantu ababini, baseneempawu zabo ezizodwa. Ngaphezulu kwexesha elide, imikhwa emibi kunye nokuziphatha kunokuluxinzelela ubudlelwane babo. Yiyo loo nto ngamanye amaxesha kuye kufuneke ukuba nomntu wesithathu ozimiseleyo asebenze njengomlamli ukunceda izibini ezitshatileyo ngoncedo lwengcebiso.
Imibuzo eqhelekileyo yokucebisa ngomtshato
Kukho izifundo ezimbalwa ezihlala zivela ngexesha lokucebisa ngomtshato. Masijongane nazo, kunye nezisombululo ezenziwa ziingcali ukujongana nazo.
Yimpazamo kabani?
Ngomnye wemibuzo yokufumana iingcebiso ngomtshato ephindaphindwe njengesixhobo sasemgodini ngexesha leseshoni yokucebisa.
Ukuhlala neqela elinye kuwo nawuphi na umba kuyakwenza ukuba ugqirha alahlekelwe yinjongo. Isonjululwe ngokungagxili kwityala nasekusebenzeni ukuya phambili.
Ngaba oku kuyimfuneko kwiseshoni yokucebisa ngomtshato?
Singamelana neengxaki zethu. Lilinge lokulwa ulawulo lwemeko ukusuka kunyangi ukuya kumntu ophakamise umbuzo ngexesha lokucebisa. Ungahendeka ukuba uphendule "ukuba unako, nge ungekho apha." Kodwa abantu abaninzi baya kukhathazeka xa bejongana nonyango kunye nokubuyela umva.
Kusonjululwe ngcono ngokukhumbuza esi sibini ngomfanekiso omkhulu. Njengokuthi "Kuyimfuneko kuphela ukuba ucinga ukuba umtshato wakho / abantwana bosapho babalulekile."
Kuya kuthatha ixesha elingakanani oku?
Umbuzo ungabhekisa kulo mbuzo ungqalileyo okanye kunyango olupheleleyo kwaye uvune rhoqo ngexesha lokunikwa kwengcebiso.
Olunye uhlobo lolawulo lokulwa oluvela kunyangi ngokuchaza ukuba kukho ezinye izinto eziphambili ekufuneka zenziwe. Isigqibo soku siyafana nesangaphambili.
Akukho ngxaki, uyasabela, akunjalo?
Olu luphawu olucacileyo lokunxibelelana gwenxa okukhulisa intloko yayo embi ngexesha lenkqubo yokucebisa ngomtshato.
Kukho ukungangqinelani phakathi kwesi sibini kwimeko yomtshato waso ngexesha lokunikwa kwengcebiso. Umntu obuze lo mbuzo ukholelwa ukuba umtshato wabo ulungile, kodwa elinye iqela alivumelani ngokucacileyo. Ukuba ayisiyonto imbi, ngekhe babenencoko phambi komcebisi womtshato.
Ingcebiso ebalulekileyo ngomtshato iya kuba kukugxila kumcimbi osisiseko ngexesha lokunikwa kwengcebiso. Ukusilela kokuqonda kunye nonxibelelwano.
Ukuba abantu ababini ebhafini enye banezimvo ezahlukeneyo malunga nobushushu bamanzi, ayingawo amanzi, okanye ibhafu ayilunganga. Ukwahluka kwabo kokuqonda.
Iingcebiso zomtshato
Ngokusekwe kwimibuzo ekwicandelo elidlulileyo, zininzi izihloko ezinokuthi, xa ziphathwe ngokungalunganga, zonakalise amathuba oxolelwaniso ngonyango.
Iingcali zonyango zibiza le migibe okanye izigcayiseli. Nokuba ngabantu abatshatileyo, okanye abantu abatshatileyo abafuna iingcebiso zomtshato ngaphambi komtshato, le migibe inokuba yingozi kulwalamano lokonwaba.
Ukusilela ukuqonda nokuyiphepha le migibe kunokubenzakalisa abatshatileyo kwaye kulwenze lube mandundu ulwalamano lwabo. Umcebisi okanye ingcali kufuneka yenze konke okusemandleni ukukhusela oko.
Hlala ungathathi cala
Nokuba wenze into engenakuxoleleka njengokungathembeki, awunguye umgwebi.
Umsebenzi womcebisi kukulungisa ubudlelwane, ukuphilisa iintlungu, nokulungelelanisa iyantlukwano. Awukho apho ukuphanda into engekhoyo, ukukhusela ixhoba, kwaye ukohlwaya lowo ukonileyo. Ukuba yile nto ufuna ukuyenza, joyina amapolisa.
Kukho iimeko ezinje ngokuxhatshazwa kwasekhaya xa kunokuba yimfuneko ukugqitha koku kugqithisileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba omabini amaqela aya kwiseshoni yonyango, ke bakulungele ukuya phambili. Yenza oko kubandakanya umsebenzi wakho kodwa uqaphele izenzo zolwaphulo-mthetho. Iingcali zonyango zikhuselwe ngumthetho ukuba zingazivezi iinkcukacha ngaphandle komyalelo wenkundla.
Cinga ngaphambi kokuba uthethe nantoni na, ungaze uzibeke kwindawo eza kwenza ukuba kubonakale ngathi uhlala kwelinye icala okanye kwelinye.
Hlala uzolile
Unokuva izinto ngexesha lokucebisa ozifumanayo zikukhubekisa, kodwa kungabi njalo. Umzekelo, elinye iqela lichitha lonke uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali losapho kunye nokungcakaza ngalo lonke ixesha, kunzima ukungagwebi kwangoko, kodwa akufuneki.
Ukuhlazisa elinye iqela ngamazwi arhabaxa okanye ukubacaphukisa kunokubangela ingxabano. Basenokungafuni ukukutyelela kwakhona.
Okwangoku elinye iqela lingavumi ukuthetha nawe, usilele. Okona kuncinci, wenze ukuba kube nzima kuwe. Kuya kuba nzima kakhulu ukubuyisela ukuthembana.
Nika umsebenzi wasekhaya
Emva kokuphela kweseshoni nganye, kubalulekile ukuba esi sibini sigoduke neengcebiso ezizezinye ezinokuthi zisebenze kude kube yintlanganiso elandelayo.
Iya kubanika into ekufuneka bajonge kuyo kwaye ikunike isalathiso sobuzaza nokuzinikela kwabo.
Nazi iikhrayitheriya zomsebenzi olungileyo wesikolo
- Ngokukodwa
- Iyasebenza
- Nikezela kuwo omabini la maqela
- Kulula ukuyenza
- Iyaphinda, into enokujika ibe ngumkhwa olungileyo
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Kubalulekile ukuba ugqirha ayazi indima yabo kuyo yonke inkqubo
Abakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi kwesi sibini. Banokubakhokela kuphela. Kuyenzeka ukuba babambe izandla zabo kwaye babethe iintsiba zabo kuyo yonke inkqubo, kodwa esi sibini kuya kufuneka siphakamise kakhulu.
Isibini kufuneka sisebenze ngakumbi njengomcebisi-ngumcebisi kunokuba ngumncedisi
Ukunceda esi sibini kakhulu kunokudala ukuxhomekeka okuyingozi ekuhambeni kwexesha. Bangabantu abadala kwaye bafikelela kuwe ukufuna uncedo, kodwa ukuba uyenza kakhulu, abayi kuba nakho ukunxibelelana ngaphandle kobukho bakho. Yinto yokugqibela le ufuna ukuyenza.
Okwangoku xa bephuma eofisini yakho emva kweseshoni yokuqala, kuya kufuneka uphuhlise isicwangciso sendlela abanokusombulula ngayo imicimbi yabo ngokwabo ngaphandle kokubandakanyeka kwakho.
Ukuba isibini esitshatileyo okanye ubuncinci kubo sihlala sinxibelelana nawe ngeengxaki zabo ngaphandle kweeseshoni zonyango, ngumqondiso wokuba awenzi msebenzi ulungileyo.
Ukulungisa ubudlelwane babo kuthetha ukuba umcebisi kufuneka abenze baxhomekeke komnye nomnye. Ukuba baqala ngokuxhomekeka kuwe ukulungisa umba ngamnye, usilele.