"Nguye kuphela ubungqina bukaThixo endibubonileyo ngaphandle kwamandla angummangaliso asusa isokisi enye kwindawo yokomisa ngalo lonke ixesha ndihlamba." —St. Umlilo kaElmo
Umxholo oqhelekileyo kumdlalo bhanyabhanya oqukethe uhlobo oluthile lobambiswano lothando luhlobo lothando umntu analo emfazini. Kule filimu ethile, umlinganiswa wasebenzisa uburharha ukuthelekisa uhlobo lommangaliso umfazi awayemthanda wayebonakala enjalo. Kwangokunjalo, uthando onalo kwiqabane lakho kufuneka luzive lingaqondakali kwaye lingummangaliso njengosuku owathandana ngalo. Izibini ezininzi zinokucinga ngeempawu malunga namaqabane abo ezenza ngaphandle komnye umntu abakhe bathandana nabo. Ungaze ulibale ukuba yintoni eyenza iqabane lakho "libengcono kunabanye"
“Oko kwasungulwa ukwanga, bekukho kuphela ukwanga ezintlanu ebekunikwe ulona lunomdla, olunyulu. Lo ubashiye ngasemva bonke. ” —Umtshakazi Omtsha
Kanye njengokuba uWesley wayethanda iButtercup, uthando oluhlala lusenza ukuthanda okunothando nothando luyimpilo kwaye luzele bubomi. Ungaze uyeke ukumanga ngothando-kwaye uqalise ukukwenza ngoku ukuba awuzange ube namava. Ukwanga kukuvumela ukuba ube kufutshane kangangoko unako kumntu omthandayo, kwaye akusoloko kunyanzelekile ukuba kwenziwe ngasese ekhayeni lakho. Ngapha koko, ukukhetha ixesha kunye nendawo efanelekileyo esidlangalaleni ngokwanga kunganisondeza ngakumbi nobabini.
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“Jonga, ngokoluvo lwam, eyona nto unokuyenza kukufumana umntu okuthanda kanye ngale nto uyiyo. Imood mood, imood bad, imbi, intle, intle, yintoni onayo. Umntu olungileyo usazokucinga ukuba ilanga liphuma kwi-esile lakho. Olo luhlobo lomntu ofanele unamathele kuye. ” —UJuno
Ungaze ubuze iqabane lakho ukuba libe yiyo nantoni na engeyiyo. Ukhethe umntu ngenxa yokuba babengoobani ngelo xesha, usazi ukuba baya kuqhubeka nokukhula kwaye batshintshe nakulwalamano. Umntu olungileyo uya kuhlala engoyena mntu ulungileyo ukuba uyamvumela. Ukuncamathisela umntu ebunzimeni nasebubini, phakathi kokulungileyo nokubi, kokulungileyo okanye kokubi, kufanelekile xa ingoyena mntu ukuthanda nokukuqonda njengokuba unjalo.
“Ewe, ndinxilile. Kwaye umhle. Kwaye ngomso kusasa, ndiza kuphila kodwa uya kuba mhle. ” —Abaphuphi
Amagama akho kufuneka asoloko eyinyani xa uthetha neqabane lakho. Nokuba unxilile okanye unxilile okanye unomsindo okanye uzele luthando noxabiso, vumela amazwi akho ukuba asoloko eyinyaniso kwaye enembeko kwaye ethembekile. Ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka ukhethe amagama akho ngobulumko, kodwa ungaze uxoke okanye ugcine nantoni na kwiqabane lakho. Kwaye rhoqo kangangoko, sincoma isithandwa sakho ngayo yonke indlela onokucinga ngayo.
Sifuna ubungqina kubomi bethu. Kukho isigidigidi sabantu kwiplanethi ... Ndithetha ukuba, buthetha ntoni ubomi? Kodwa, emtshatweni, uthembisa ukukhathalela yonke into. Izinto ezintle, ezimbi, ezimbi, izinto eziqhelekileyo ... zonke, lonke ixesha, yonke imihla. ” -Siza kudanisa
Ubomi bemihla ngemihla bunokuba yinto yesiqhelo emtshatweni, kwaye kunokuba nzima ukwenza imihla ngemihla yahluke. Into emnandi ngomtshato kukuba unaye umntu onokwabelana naye nangeyona misebenzi iphambili. Njengoko isicatshulwa sisitsho, zonke izinto ezilungileyo, ezimbi, ezoyikisayo, kunye neziqhelekileyo ohlangabezana nazo ebomini bakho ziya kwabelwana neqabane lakho yonke imihla. Awusoze ubekho umhla apho ungekhe uqiniseke ukuba loo mntu uza kuba secaleni kwakho.
“Ukhe ukhuphe iingalo zakho ujikeleze kwaye ujikeleze kwaye ujikeleze? Ewe, lolo uthando lunjani. Yonke into engaphakathi kuwe ikuxelela ukuba ume ngaphambi kokuba uwe, kodwa qhubeka nje. ” —Umlingo oSebenzisekayo
Vumela uthando lube ngumlingo. Vumela ukuthandana kunye nokusondelana namava kwakho neqabane lakho kufane nokusonta kwisangqa. Unokuba nesiyezi, uzive ukhululekile, kwaye mhlawumbi uxwayiswe ngabanye ukuba bayeke ngaphambi kokuba uwe. Kodwa vumela uthando lukuthwale kwaye uchithe ngonaphakade uzive ngathi uyintloko phezu kwezithende mihla le. Ayizukuhlala igqibelele, kodwa uthando malibe libali lalo.