Umxholo
- 1. Sukuyigcina iyimfihlo
- Hlala phantsi, ucinge, kwaye uvavanye ngokusengqiqweni
- 3. Thatha ixesha lokucoca umoya
- 4. Sukuyifulathela intsapho
- 5. Nika ingqalelo ithoni yakho
- 6. Sukuthatha naliphi na icala ngokungaboni
- Ilizwi lezilumko
Umntu unokucinga ukuba liqela labantu abakhethayo abangabakhuseli ngokugqithisileyo abantwana babo, kangangokuba balungiselele nemitshato yabo.
Uxolo, ukuqhekeza i-bubble yakho, pal kodwa, yinto endala njengexesha, ukungafi ngoShakespeare ngokwakhe kwi "Romeo & Juliet". Ukutyhubela iinkulungwane, lo mxholo ubuthathwe ngandlela zonke, nokuba kungumboniso bhanyabhanya, umabonwakude, amabali amafutshane, iingoma, kuyo yonke indawo.
Umbuzo ngulo, 'Ungenza ntoni ukuba umntu unelishwa elaneleyo lokuxakeka kwimeko enjalo?'
Njengokuba le yingxaki kwindalo iphela kwaye indala kangaka, abantu benze iindidi zophando kwaye iingcebiso ziye zahamba zisuka emlonyeni, ukuba umntu udlala amakhadi abo ngokuchanekileyo ukuba ukulingana okugqibeleleyo kobomi obunoxolo nobulungeleleneyo bunokufezekiswa. .
1. Sukuyigcina iyimfihlo
Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuba ubufihle ubudlelwane bakho ngesiseko sokuba une-inkling yokuba abazali bakho abayi kuyivuma ubudlelwane bakho ke ngakumbi lixesha lokuba ubathathe ngokuzithemba kwaye ubazise.
Kungcono ukuba bafumane kuwe kunokuba bafumane komnye umntu. Kwakhona, ukufihla into ebalulekileyo njengoko oku kungabonisa ukuba uphosisile okanye uneentloni ngobuhlobo bakho okanye iqabane lakho.
Hlala phantsi, ucinge, kwaye uvavanye ngokusengqiqweni
Ukuba semathandweni yimvakalelo entle.
Yenza umhlaba ube mhle ngakumbi kwaye iphinde ikuvuselele ngendlela eqaqambe ngakumbi, yonke into intle kwaye igqibelele.
Uqala ukujonga umhlaba kwiiglasi ezinemibala kwaye ngexesha lokugweba kwakho kujika kukhetheke xa kusiza kwiqabane lakho. Mhlawumbi abazali bakho babone into wena, ekuphakameni kwakho, oyiphosileyo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, abanakukufuna nantoni na embi.
3. Thatha ixesha lokucoca umoya
Kwimeko yobuhlanga obahlukeneyo, kuhlala kusenzeka ukuba iqabane, ngokungenanjongo, lithethe okanye lenze into ethathelwa ingqalelo ukuba iyacaphukisa, okanye mhlawumbi bayenzile okanye bathetha into ethathwe ngendlela eyahlukileyo.
Thatha ixesha, hlala uthethe nosapho lwakho, nizame ukufumana isizathu sokungavumi kwabo. Uninzi lwexesha isizathu sihle kakhulu kwaye incoko elungileyo nengxoxo evulekileyo yiyo yonke into efunekayo.
Wazi ukuba uzobe phi umgca?
Ukuba ukungamkelwa ngabazali bakho kusekelwe kubuhlanga, ekuhlaleni, okanye kwiklasi, ngoko lixesha lokuba ukrwele umgca. Kuxhomekeke kuwe ukuba ubambe ukuma kwakho ngokuchasene nokuzibandakanya kwabo kwaye uchithe amasiko akudala.
Kuninzi kuthi ukwamkelwa ngabazali kuthetha yonke into, kodwa khumbula, nokuba banamava kangakanani, okanye uthando olungaka abanalo ngathi, bona, njengabo bonke abantu, banokuba bangalunganga.
Kwaye kungcono ukuzama ukuba nobudlelwane nabazali bakho bobabini kunye neqabane lakho elikhethiweyo endaweni yokuba ube kunye nomntu ongadibaniyo naye kwaye ubacaphukele abazali bakho.
4. Sukuyifulathela intsapho
Gcina iliso lakho lisondele ukuba iqabane lakho alikutsaleli kude nosapho lwakho.
Nokuba bangaba nzima kangakanani na, abazali bakho kunye nabantakwenu kwaye baya kuhlala beyintsapho yakho yokuqala. Ngamanye amaxesha ukungamkelwa ngabazali kuvela kuloyiko lokuba mhlawumbi usondela kakhulu kwiqabane lakho kwaye uya kuthi shwaka ebomini babo.
Kuxhomekeke kuwe ukuhlamba abazali bakho ngothando nothando kwaye ulususe olu loyiko lwendalo kubo.
5. Nika ingqalelo ithoni yakho
Ukuba ilizwi lakho lingqwabalala, okanye ukuba ufumanisa ukuba uyakhwaza ngenxa yokuba abazali bakho bengakuxhasi, khumbula ukuba amagama aphezulu asoloko ethetha ukuba awunazizathu zivakalayo zokuxhasa ithiyori yakho.
Ukuba uyazi entliziyweni yakho ukuba ulungile, zama ukweyisela abazali bakho ngento efanayo. Ukukhwaza akuyi kukuthatha naphi na.
6. Sukuthatha naliphi na icala ngokungaboni
Ukweliphi icala?
Umbuzo abantu abaninzi abanokuwuqonda, 'Ukweliphi icala?' Impendulo elula kukuba 'Sukuthatha naliphi na icala ngokungaboni'.
Akulunganga ukuba wena okanye nabani na abe kwimeko apho kuya kufuneka akhethe phakathi kothandekayo kunye nosapho kodwa, ngegunya kuza uxanduva.
Ukuba ubukweso sikhundla, khumbula luxanduva lwakho ukubona izinto njengomntwana wabantu abathi bancama ubomi babo bonke ngenxa yakho nje kwaye uliqabane lomntu othembele kubomi bakhe nakwikamva lakho ezandleni zakho.
Ilizwi lezilumko
Zama ukuyisebenzela, kwaye ufumane ibhalansi. Lazi nini ixesha lokuqhubeka uzama okanye uqubuda. Akukho mntu unokonwaba kwindawo enobungozi. Khumbula, akukho mntu unayo yonke into, siyakhubeka ebomini, sizama ukwenza okona kulungileyo.