Umxholo
- Ungavumeli ukuba umzali aphule umtshato wenu njengesibini
- Bavimbe abantwana
- Ohhh, ngolonwabo lwasemva kwemini
- ⦁ Yenza umthetho kulutsha
Ndifunde kanye ukuba elona nqanaba lisezantsi lokoneliseka emtshatweni lilungile ngexesha lokuqalisa kwesikolo sakho. Ewe kunjalo, kukho itoni yokuqikelela ukuba kutheni, kwaye ndibone imeko efanayo kubathengi bam, ndineengcinga ngalo mbandela.
Kwisityhilelo esithi "le nto mayingothusi mntu", esona siphambili sokungoneliseki emtshatweni kukuswela ulwalamano. Ukanti kule minyaka mi-5 okanye mi-6 yokuqala emva kokuba nomntwana, siyazixelela ukuba kugxilwe kuthi gca kubantwana bethu. Ngokwenene silindele ukuba kungabikho ukusondelelana, kwaye ke ngokulula sikhupha ecaleni iimfuno zethu kwaye sincame yonke into "ngenxa yabantwana."
Kodwa yabona, emva koko abantwana baya esikolweni. Thina bazali siyalila sonke emva koko sivuke kwinkungu yethu equka umntwana kwaye siqale ukukhanyisa ukuba lingakanani ixesha elimkileyo kwaye "yintoni elandelayo."
Ekuhambeni kwexesha, siye kumaqabane ethu ukuze sifumane intuthuzelo. Kodwa umntu ohleli ngapha kwetafile yegumbi lokutyela, lowo uhlala naye kule minyaka mi-5 idlulileyo, ngoku ungumntu wasemzini. I-bond ihlala iphulwe. Intuthuzelo oyifunayo ixinekile. Okwangoku izibini ziyaqonda ukuba ubudlelwane beminyaka buye malunga nokunxibelelana nayo yonke into kunye nasebantwaneni, kwaye abashiyanga xesha lokuba nolwalamano lwangempela lwamaqabane luphumelele.
Ungavumeli ukuba umzali aphule umtshato wenu njengesibini
Njengoko ixesha lihamba, imitshato yethu ibeka ukubandezeleka, iya isanda ngakumbi unyaka nonyaka kwaye ekugqibeleni ingaziwa. Nabani na okhe wazama ukuvuselela isityalo esifayo, siyazi ukuba ixesha elide lihamba ngaphandle kokukhathalela, kunzima ukusifumana. Kwaye nangona kunokwenzeka ukulungiswa xa amanqanaba angaphambi kokubola kobudlelwane sele ephezu kwethu, kulula kakhulu ukuba uthatha amanyathelo kwangoko ukuze uwuphephe.
Kodwa ndiyakuva. Ndiyazi ukuba ukuthatha ixesha lokusondelana xa unabantwana abancinci kunokuziva njengesicelo sokunyanga umhlaza. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ayikaze iqale ngale ndlela. Kodwa masinyaniseke. Kubantu abaninzi, ukuzama ukufumana i-snuggly xa unabantwana kufana nokuzama ukukhwela i-roller coaster kwipaki yomxholo kwimpelaveki yeholide. Uqala ukonwaba ngenene ukuya, kodwa emva koko uchitha iiyure ezi-3 emgceni wokufudumeza ubushushu phakathi komkhosi wabantu ongabacaphukeliyo kuphela ukuba ungene kuloo nto imizuzwana ye-10 kwaye iphelile. Voila. Khange ufumane nokonwabela oko. Ukwenza ngokwaneleyo, kwaye, emva kwengcinga ethile yokuya kukwenza ufune ukukrazula iinzipho zakho. Mhlawumbi ngelinye ixesha, utsho. NgoLwesibini. Ebusika. Emva kwes Apocalypse. Ukucinga nje ngokuchitha amandla kukwenza ukuba ungene esofeni kwiijammies zakho kwaye ukubize ubusuku. Kodwa uthando aluyi kukhula ngaphandle kokuba uyondla, kwaye ubudlelwane bakho BUYA KUFA ukuba awuthandi. Ngamanye amaxesha, kuya kufuneka uyifunxe kwaye uye epakini nangona kunjalo, ukuze ugcine ekulahlekelweni ngumdla wakho.
Kwaye ukuba uyenza ngokuchanekileyo, ukuba usondela kolu hambo njengolonwabo ngaphandle kokuza nomhla, uya kuba njalo.
Nazi iingcebiso ezimbalwa:
Bavimbe abantwana
(Ukusebeza) ubuncinci ubuncinci iiyure ezimbalwa. Jonga, ndiyazi ukuba iyavakala irhabaxa. Abazali bahlala befumana i-neurotic malunga nokuthumela abantwana kwindawo ethile ebusuku okanye ngeempelaveki, ngakumbi xa abantwana bebancinci. Ndiyivile yonke.
“Baza kusikhumbula kakhulu!”
“Kodwa uyabavumela batye brownies for sangokuhlwa!”
Zange bachitha ubusuku bebodwa! ”
“Oovimba!”
Mamela kwaye uphinde emva kwam. Abantwana bazakulunga. Impelaveki enye ngenyanga ngaphandle kobukho bakho ayizukubonakalisa ngokungenakulungiseka. Kwaye ukusebenzisa "iimfuno" zabo njengendlela yokuphepha ukusondelelana (kuba udiniwe kakhulu, hayi "ukuziva", njl. njengam umnxeba). Iinzuzo ezifunyenwe nguwe kunye neqabane lakho ekudibaniseni zigqithise ngaphezu kwazo naziphi na izidlo ezonakalisiweyo.
Ohhh, ngolonwabo lwasemva kwemini
'I-Twas yayingaphezulu nje kwengoma enomtsalane kunye nomdlalo obalaseleyo kwi-Anchorman. Ukonwaba emva kwemini kunokuba yirisithi yempumelelo kulwalamano. Uninzi lwabazali banokubamba isidlo sasemini kunye kube kanye ngeveki ukuba bazamile ngokwenene (ewe, le ntlanganiso INGALINDA). Kwaye ukufumana ixesha elinye xa abantwana besesikolweni okanye ekunakekelweni kwemini kunokuba yiyure nje ngeveki eyenza okanye iphule ubudlelwane bakho. Kwaye cinga ngako. Ukuba phakathi emini nako kunokuba nesibonelelo esongezelelekileyo sokunceda uthathe "ubundlobongela" kubudlelwane obusondeleyo obuqhelekileyo. Ukuba kwi-arcade kwakusoloko kupholile ngeentsuku zokurhola isikolo (Ukuba abazali bam bafunda le, ngumzekelo nje. Into efanayo yolonwabo iyasebenza xa ukhulile, kodwa ngaphandle komnxeba ovela kwinqununu.
⦁ Yenza umthetho kulutsha
Xa sibancinci kwaye sithandana, lonke ithuba esilifumanayo liba lithuba lokunxibelelana ngokwasemzimbeni. Siba imizuzwana eli-10 kwilifti, umzuzu njengoko silinde ibhasi. Kodwa xa sisiba ngabantu abadala, siphulukana noluvo lokungakhathali. Sivame ukugcina izinto eziphathekayo kwigumbi lokulala, kwaye kuphela xa silala ngesondo. Nangona kunjalo, ezo zinto zincinci zichukumisayo-ezo mini zokwenza iiseshini- zezona zinto ziyimfuneko ukugcina olo luvo lokusondelelana kubudlelwane bethu. Ke thatha amathuba okugoba kwaye ucofe umnxeba xa unakho, nokuba lifutshane kangakanani ixesha.
Ukuba ngumzali akubeki kumiswa kulwalamano lwakho. Ndiyazi ngamanye amaxesha sinqwenela ukuba yenzeke, kuba iimfuno zabantwana bethu kunye nemisebenzi yethu kunye nabahlobo bethu banokuhlala besishiya nexesha elincinci namandla okubeka kumaqabane ethu. Kodwa iimfuno zethu zokuba ngumlingani azitshintshi kuba kukho abancinci endlini. Izidingo zethu ezisisiseko zoluntu- ukuchukunyiswa, ukuviwa, ukuthandwa- zibakhona nokuba sikweyiphi inqanaba lobomi. Ewe, amaqabane ethu kufuneka abe novakalelo kumanqanaba amandla ethu, iimvakalelo zethu, kunye nobunzima bethu. Hayi, akufuneki uziva ngathi kufuneka uvumelane ngesondo. Kodwa lonke ubudlelwane, nokuba bomelele kangakanani, bufuna ukondliwa. Kufuneka senze ixesha lokugcwalisa olo manyano namaqabane ethu. Kuba ekugqibeleni ebomini bethu, iya kuba ziinkumbulo zelo roller coaster, hayi ezo zichithwe ukuyiphepha, eya kuba nathi ekugqibeleni.