Umxholo
- 1. Ukwazi ukuba uyathandwa
- 2. Ufanele akuthembe
- 3. Ukhuseleko lwexesha elizayo
- 4. Incoko
- 5. Okungakumbi 'ewe' kunye no'hayi 'ongaphantsi
- 6. Ukwabelana ngemisebenzi yekhaya
- 7. Yiba nothando
- 8. Ukhathalelo lwempilo olungcono
- 9. Inkxaso evela kumyeni
Siyazi ukuba amadoda nabasetyhini bahlukile, kunjalo ke ngolindelo lwabo komnye nomnye xa besebudlelwaneni.
Uninzi lwamadoda luyasokola nento efunwa ngabafazi kubudlelwane. Kunzima ukuqonda. Nangona kunjalo, amadoda akufuneki acinge ukuba ulindelo lwabasetyhini luya kufana nolwabo. Ngokuqinisekileyo ngekhe. Uluhlu olungezantsi zizinto ezithile abafazi abazifunayo kumyeni wabo.
1. Ukwazi ukuba uyathandwa
Abasetyhini bayabonakalisa kwaye ngaphandle kwamandla benza uthando lwabo nenkathalo emadodeni.
Nangona kunjalo, amadoda akufumanisa kunzima ukuba babelane ngeemvakalelo zabo, eziya kuthi ekugqibeleni zenze ukuba abafazi bakholelwe ukuba amadoda awasabeli kuthando lwabo. Abasetyhini bafuna ukuziva bethandwa.
Kukho iindlela ngeendlela amadoda anokuluvakalisa ngazo uthando lwawo kwabasetyhini. Isenokuthi 'ndiyakuthanda' yonke imihla okanye ubaphathele izipho ezimbalwa amaxesha ngamaxesha okanye izidlo zothando.
Ezi zimpawu zincinci ziya kunceda amadoda ukuba abonakalise uthando lwabo kubafazi babo kwaye izinto ziya kuhamba kakuhle.
2. Ufanele akuthembe
Sonke sinexesha elidlulileyo lokuzisola esalayo ukwaba ukwabelana ngalo nabantu abakufutshane. Amadoda ayakuphepha ukuthetha malunga nexesha labo elidlulileyo kwaye bakholelwe ukuba akukho sizathu sokuxoxa ngale nto.
Nangona kunjalo, xa abantu basetyhini beqala ukuthetha ngayo, bayayityeshela intetho okanye batshintshe isihloko. Oku, ekugqibeleni, kubenza bawathandabuze amadoda abo, anokukhokelela kwiingxaki ezahlukeneyo. Ke, amadoda kufuneka athethe malunga nexesha labo elidlulileyo kwaye mabayeke abafazi babo babathembe. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuthembana yenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo abafazi abazifunayo kubayeni babo.
3. Ukhuseleko lwexesha elizayo
Ixesha elizayo kunye nokhuseleko lwezemali yenye yezinto ezibalulekileyo umfazi azifunayo endodeni. Kuyaqondakala ukuba, namhlanje, amadoda nabafazi bayasebenza kwaye bazimele.
Ngaphandle koko, abasetyhini bafuna abayeni babo babanike ukhuseleko lwexesha elizayo, lwezezimali kunye neemvakalelo. Kunzima kakhulu kubafazi ukuxhasa amadoda abo xa besilele ukubaqinisekisa ukuba ikamva labo likhuselekile kwaye akukho nto izakwenzeka kwindlwana yabo yothando, nokuba kunjani.
4. Incoko
Uzibuza ukuba ungamkholisa njani umfazi wakho?
Hlala nabo phantsi ukuze nincokole ngenene. Abasetyhini bafuna ukuchitha ixesha elinomgangatho kunye namadoda abo. Amadoda axakeke zizinto ezininzi ebomini babo kwaye bakholelwa ukuba ngokubonelela ngokuphila kamnandi bazalisekisa uxanduva lwabo kubafazi babo.
Nangona kunjalo, abasetyhini banqwenela ukuba amadoda abo achithe ixesha elithile kunye nabo aze ancokole. Ukuhlala ithutyana nabafazi babo, amadoda aya kube ethetha things abafazi bafuna emadodeni abo.
5. Okungakumbi 'ewe' kunye no'hayi 'ongaphantsi
Akukho mfazi uya kufuna ukwaliwa phantse yonke imihla. Ukuba ujonga indlela yokuphatha umfazi wakho, qala uthi ewe rhoqo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo ayilunganga ukuvuma nje ngokungaboni, kodwa kunqande ukuthi akukho rhoqo. Le yeyona mpendulo ilungileyo yokufumana umfazi wakho kwimood ngokunjalo. Umfazi wakho uya konwaba kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uthando luya kuchuma phakathi kwenu nobabini.
6. Ukwabelana ngemisebenzi yekhaya
Ungamkholisa njani umfazi wakho?
Ewe, qala ukuthatha uxanduva lwasekhaya. Le yenye yezinto ezibalulekileyo abafazi abazifunayo kubayeni babo. Bafuna amadoda abo ukuba athathe umdla kwimisebenzi yasekhaya kwaye abancede ngazo zonke iindlela. Thatha umdla ekuthengeni ivenkile, kwimisebenzi yasekhaya kwaye uchithe ixesha kunye nabantwana.
Abasetyhini baya kuvuyiswa yile miqondiso encinci.
7. Yiba nothando
Inkcazo yothando yahlukile kumadoda nabasetyhini. Into efunwa ngumfazi endodeni kukuthandana okuthile. Xa kubudlelwane, abasetyhini balindele ukuba amadoda abo athandane ngakubo.
Bafuna ukuba umyeni wabo abakhuphele ngaphandle kwisidlo sangokuhlwa, bachithe ixesha labo lobuqu, baphume baye eholideyini kwaye bakhumbule imihla ebalulekileyo. Ezi zezinye zezinto ezisisiseko abafazi abazifunayo kubayeni babo.
8. Ukhathalelo lwempilo olungcono
Ukuzikhathalela yenye yezinto ezimbalwa abafazi abazifunayo kumyeni wabo. Kuyinyani ukuba amadoda akanakukhathalela ukuzinakekela kwezempilo. Bajwayele ukutya nantoni na kwaye bayala ukulandela ukutya okusempilweni. Ukuba ufuna umfazi wakho akuthande kwaye akukhathalele, ke qala ukukhathalela impilo. Abasetyhini bayayithanda.
9. Inkxaso evela kumyeni
Izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu abantu basetyhini abazifunayo kubayeni babo kwinkxaso yabo. Wonke umntu obhinqileyo uyawaxhasa amadoda abo, kokulungileyo nokubi. Bame ecaleni kwakhe nokuba kwenzeka ntoni.
Kwangokunjalo, balindele ukuba abayeni babo babaxhase, kuyo yonke into abayenzayo. Bacinga ngamadoda abo kunye neentsapho zabo ubomi babo kwaye abanakufuna ukwenza into abangayamkeliyo. Ke, eyona nto bayifunayo ngumyeni wabo wokuma ecaleni kwabo, nanini na ixesha lifuna oko.
Abasetyhini kunye nolindelo lwamadoda lwahlukile kubudlelwane.
Ngelixa amadoda anokwaneliseka yindlu ecocekileyo kunye nokutya okumnandi, abafazi bafuna amadoda abo ukuba abonakalise uthando nenkathalo, babaxhase kwaye bathathe inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yekhaya. Uluhlu olungezantsi zezinye zezinto abafazi abazifunayo kubayeni babo. Landela ubomi obonwabileyo bomtshato.