Umxholo
- Kutheni kumnandi ukubasa umlilo kulwalamano
- Iinjongo zobudlelwane obuhlekisayo kunye nekamva lakho
- Umahluko phakathi kweenjongo zobudlelwane obuhlekisayo kunye nolonwabo
Kunqabile ukuba umntu athandane kwaye abe nesicwangciso esineenkcukacha malunga nendlela abaza kuchitha ngayo ubomi babo bonke naloo mntu. Ngaphandle kokuba uluhlobo olugqithisileyo lwe-stalker, uninzi lweentlantsi zothando yinto encinci yokuncoma kunye nenkanuko (kwaye ngamanye amaxesha utywala) oxutywe kunye.
Uninzi lwayo lubandakanya ukucinga ukuba kuya kuba mnandi kangakanani ukuchitha ixesha kunye naloo mntu. Ayinamsebenzi nokuba iyavela njengephupha elinye okanye ulwalamano olunentsingiselo; isidingo sokonwaba soze siphele.
Eli nqaku libonisa ukwahlukana Uluhlu lweenjongo zobudlelwane oko kungakunceda ugcine izinto zinomdla.
Kutheni kumnandi ukubasa umlilo kulwalamano
Ukuba isibini siphela kubudlelwane obuthile, nokuba uthando luyabandakanyeka, umlinganiso wolonwabo kufuneka ubekhona. Uninzi lwezibini zexesha elide ziyaqhekeka kuba ubumnandi buhambile kulwalamano. Kungenxa yoko le nto ukuba kukho uluhlu lweenjongo zobudlelwane, uninzi lwayo kufuneka lubandakanye ukonwaba okukhulu.
Iinjongo zobudlelwane obuhlekisayo ayikokuchitha ixesha. Nokuba ubudlelwane, umtshato, kunye ne-dynamics yosapho lishishini elinobuzaza, ayisosizathu sokuba yonke le nkqubo ingabi mnandi.
Ishishini elibalulekileyo, elinxulumene nothando okanye ngenye indlela, yinto yoxinzelelo. Uxinzelelo liqabane elibi; kuhlala kusiza epatini kunye nabanye abahlobo babo ababi njengezempilo kunye neengxaki zengqondo.
Ukonwaba kuphela kwendlela yokwenyani yokugcina uxinzelelo kude; abo babini bayazondana kwaye kunqabile kwindawo enye ngaphandle kwaxa besebenzisa iziyobisi ezingavumelekanga.
Ke ukuba usebudlelwaneni kwaye ufuna ukuba izaliswe lulonwabo okanye uxinzelelo, lukhetho lwakho olo. Uninzi lwabantu abanengqiqo banokukhetha ukonwaba, kodwa emva koko, ayinguye wonke umntu oqiqayo. Zininzi ii-masochists phaya.
Yongeza ulonwabo kuyo yonke into, ewe ngokoqobo yonke into. Ukuba uqinile, uyadika asswipe, yingxaki yakho leyo. Kodwa ukonwaba kukwaxhomekeke ekuthatheni inxaxheba, into emnandi kwisibini esinezifundo ezinomdla asinakufana nakwizityebi ezonakalisiweyo ezihlala kwingxowa mali.
Ke cwangcisa iinjongo zakho zobudlelwane obonwabisayo kunye nenkcazo yakho yolonwabo engqondweni. Eyona nto imbi inokwenzeka ayisiyonto imnandi njengoko ubuthemba ukuba iya kuba njalo, kwaye ayivakali imbi kakhulu.
Iinjongo zolwalamano olonwabisayo ziyonwabisa ukusuka kwibhodi yokuzoba kude kube sisiqhamo. Luhlobo olugcina uthando luvutha. Nokuba isini asixabisekanga ukuba ayonwabisi.
Iinjongo zobudlelwane obuhlekisayo kunye nekamva lakho
Zimbini kuphela iintlobo zabantu ababona ikamva elingonwabisi- abo bat-shit baphambeneyo kwaye zizidenge ngokupheleleyo. Ke ukuba ucwangcisa ikamva lakho eliza kuthi ekugqibeleni liphele kububi, nokuba ungomnye okanye omnye okanye bobabini.
Faka iinjongo zobudlelwane be-goofy kwisicwangciso sobomi bakho. Ukuba nento ekonwabisayo ukujonga ebomini ayisiyonto imbi. Qiniseka ukuba ayibandakanyi ukubiza umntwana wakho ngokuba yiAirwrecka okanye iGaylord.
Umfanekiso ophakanyisiweyo apha
Into enje ngokubhabha kwiAngel Venge's Angel iyawa isebenzisa indlu ene-balloon isenokuvakala iyisidenge, kodwa into ekweli nqanaba iyonwabisa. Okona kuncinci, sisiqwengana sencoko esinomdla kwisibini.
Into enokwenzeka njengokulinganisa umhla wakho wokuqala kwisikhumbuzo seminyaka engama-50 iya kuba ngumdla.
Ukuthatha ukuba umhla wakho wokuqala awukho kwi-cinema yokuqhuba kunye nokubuyela umva kwisitulo seveni kamama wakho. Uninzi lwemihla yokuqala kusenokwenzeka ukuba ilinganiswe. Ukucwangcisa ukuyifumana kufutshane kangangoko kunokwenzeka yinxalenye yolonwabo.
Ukuba uyazibuza ukuba kutheni le meko ingenakwenzeka kwezi ntsuku:
- Uninzi lwabantu alwazi nokuba yintoni idrive-ngokusebenzisa cinema.
- Isibini esitshatile iminyaka engama-50 siyakukufumana kunzima ngokwasemzimbeni ukujija kwisitulo esingasemva evenini
- Ukuboleka i-minivan kumama wakho xa uneminyaka engaphaya kwama-70 kushiyeke kufanelekile.
Ngaphandle kokuba ugcine i-minivan kwaye unayo imeko efanelekileyo yokusebenza, ukuba kunjalo, kudos kuwe!
Kodwa kunamava amaninzi, ngakumbi xa ucinga ngako konke ukuzincama koxanduva lomtshato kunye nokukhulisa abantwana. Ungasoloko uzama uSusan Boyle kunye nokuphicothwa kwe- {Kwenye indawo uSimon nguMgwebi} unetalente.
Ungalindeli ukuphumelela, kodwa ukubakho nje ukuze wonwabe yinto entle onokuyifumana kwiminyaka yokugqibela yobomi bakho. Uluhlu lwamabhakethi lwezibini luyinto efanelekileyo. Ukuba nento emnandi ukujonga phambili yenye yeendlela zokuqhubeka nokuvuka kusasa kwicala lasekunene lebhedi.
Nokuba ungahamba kanjani, ukuba usebenze iminyaka engama-50 kwaye uthathe umhlala-phantsi emva kokuba unike eyona minyaka ibalaseleyo yobomi bakho kwinkampani. Okanye usomashishini oziqeshileyo ongazange enze ngaphezulu komsebenzi ophakathi.
Ukuba nento ekupheleni kwayo kufanele ukuba kuyenze yonke into ibe nenjongo. Qaphela ukuba khange ndikhankanye ukuba uphelile njengomntu ophumeleleyo kwi-uber. Abantu abanjalo abadingi luhlu lwamabhakethi; banokupakisha kwaye bayenze.
Enye ye izinto ezintleinkululeko yezemali inika inkululeko eyiyo -Ukukwazi ukungahoyi uxanduva okwethutyana kwaye ube nefuthe elincinci kubomi babo. Ungaba njani umntu onjalo sesinye isihloko xa sisonke.
Umahluko phakathi kweenjongo zobudlelwane obuhlekisayo kunye nolonwabo
Kungenxa yokuba into emnandi ayithethi ukuba iyahlekisa. Ukuhlekisa ngenxa yoburharha kukuhlekisa. Ukonwaba akuchazwanga. Ukudubula imipu kwiithagethi zamaphepha ngompu, okanye ukutsiba ibhulorho ebotshelelwe kwintambo enentwasahlobo, kunokuba yinto eyonwabisayo kwabanye abantu, kodwa akukho nto ihlekisayo ngayo.
Kwicala elisezantsi, ukuthetha-phezulu malunga noMongameli uTrump kunokuba yinto ehlekisayo, kodwa kunokuba kungonwabisi kwilungu eliphethe ikhadi le-NRA kubaphulaphuli. Ukuba ugqiba ukwenza inkcazo yakhe yolonwabo, imeko ayinakuphela iyonwabisa okanye ihlekise nakubani na.
Iinjongo zobudlelwane obuhlekisayo luluhlu lwamabhakethi ngenxa yokuhlekisa. Into efana nokuya kumhla epakini yokonwabisa ukuze udlale yonke imidlalo efanelekileyo yenye ye ezona njongo zihlekisayo. Akukho kwinqanaba lokujija yonke ifanitshala esendlwini, kodwa oko kuyangcungcutheka kunokuhlekisa.