Umxholo
- “Akukho mntu ndinokukhetha ukubangaphezu kwam.” Ukwaphuka-It Ralph
- "Ezo zinto zikubambayo ziya kukuphakamisa." - Dumbo
- Uthando lubeka iimfuno zomnye umntu ngaphambi kwezakho. -Khenkcisiwe
- Into efunekayo lukholo kunye nokuzithemba. -U-Peter Pan
- “Nemimangaliso ithatha ixesha elincinci.” - ICinderella
Ukuba ungumlandeli weDisney (kwaye ngokungathandabuzekiyo - ngubani ongekhoyo?) Usenokuba uyathandana ongenathemba.
Kwaye ngelixa iDisney isenokungalivezi lonke ibali kwiimuvi zabo, sinokufumana imiyalezo ebalulekileyo efafazwe kuyo yonke imiyalezo-enokusinceda ukwakha ulwalamano emtshatweni okanye ukwakha ulwalamano kubudlelwane.
Ukuba uziva ukuba umtshato wakho uswele ulwalamano, Nazi ezinye zeendlela zokusondelelana ezinokubaluleka kakhulu ekudaleni ubudlelwane emtshatweni wakho.
“Akukho mntu ndinokukhetha ukubangaphezu kwam.” Ukwaphuka-It Ralph
Wakhe waphulukana nawe kubudlelwane? Abafazi abaninzi (kunye namadoda!) Banamava oku emtshatweni wabo.Bazama ukuba yiloo nto iqabane labo lifuna ukuba babe yiyo kwaye bazilahlekele kwinkqubo.
Bayalithanda iqabane labo kangangokuba balibale ukuzithanda.
Okwangoku, awunakuqonda ukuba ukusondelelana okwenyani okanye nokuba sondelene kakhulu akunakwenzeka xa kungekho luxabiso- hayi kuphela kwiqabane lakho, kodwa nakuwe. Ukuba awuzixabisi, ungalindela ukuba enze njani omnye umntu?
Ixesha elingaphezulu unokuba uqale ukulicaphukela iqabane lakho ngokwenza uzive ngathi awonelanga. Ezi mvakalelo zinokukhokelela ekufeni kwakho.
Kodwa ayiloqabane lakho elikwenza uzive ungaphantsi, nguwe. Uyoyika ukuba nguwe kuba ucinga ukuba akukho mntu unokukuthanda ngale nto uyiyo. Ngaba uyafuna ngenene ukuzincama ngokwenyani kwiqabane lakho?
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, nokuba ulwalamano lwakho lwangoku luyasilela, kusafuneka uhlale nawe ubomi bakho bonke. Ukuba uvumela iqabane lakho ukuba libone oyena mntu, unokufikelela kwinqanaba lokuthandana kakhulu ngaphaya kokungafezeki kwakho.
Ukwazi ukuba nobuhlobo obusondeleyo ebhedini nendlela yokwakha ukusondelelana emtshatweni kuqala ngokuzihlonipha nokuzithanda.
"Ezo zinto zikubambayo ziya kukuphakamisa." - Dumbo
U-Eileen, ngoku otshatileyo okwesibini, wadibana nomyeni wakhe wangoku emva kweminyaka emibini eqhawule umtshato. Ngelixa amxelela into okanye ezimbini malunga nobudlelwane bakhe bangaphambili, akazange amxelele lonke ibali. ‘
‘Ingxaki yaqala kwiminyaka emibini ngaphambili, xa ndaxelela umyeni wam wokuqala ukuba ndizakumshiya,” uyachaza. ”Ekuqaleni wayebonakala evumelana nesigqibo sam. Kodwa njengoko iintsuku zihamba waya esiba nochuku kwaye eqala ukundoyikisa.
Ngokukhawuleza ndakuba nethuba, ndasuka kude kuye kangangoko ndinako, kodwa izoyikiso azange ziyeke ukuya kwiinyanga ezi-6 kamva.
Ukungena kubudlelwane obutsha kwakungelula kwaye ukuvula kwakunzima nangakumbi. Ekugqibeleni, iqabane lam langoku laqonda ukuba kuninzi ebalini kunokuba bendikhathalele ukuvuma. Kwakungalo mzuzu endathi ndambalisela ngayo yonke into eyenzekileyo.
Ngokwabelana nomthwalo wam ndakwazi ukuyeka. Kodwa ikwandenza ndikwazi ukunxibelelana neqabane lam elitsha ngendlela endingazange ndicinge ukuba inokwenzeka. Into ebindibambe phantsi ngaphambili ngoku ibindinceda ukuba ndenze njani ukusondelelana kumtshato wam. ”
Ubudlelwane buzele ngamahla ndinyuka. Izinto ziyenzeka kwaye wena okanye iqabane lakho nigqibezela ukulimala.
Thatha ithuba lezi meko ukufumana ulwazi lwe ungasondela njani kunye nendlela yokwakha ulwalamano kubudlelwane okanye emtshatweni wakho ngokuzisebenzisa ukwenza unxibelelwano olunzulu neqabane lakho.
Uthando lubeka iimfuno zomnye umntu ngaphambi kwezakho. -Khenkcisiwe
Inkcazo eyinyani yothando. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu bajongana neengxaki zabo kunye neemfuno zabo kangangokuba kunzima ukubona iimfuno zamaqabane abo.
Ukuba ukhona Ukujongana neengxaki zobudlelwane kwindibaniselwano yakho, kusenokwenzeka ukuba wena okanye iqabane lakho nilwe nemicimbi yeemvakalelo, yomzimba okanye yengqondo ebathintelayo ekuvuleni ngokupheleleyo.
Ngelishwa, abantu abaninzi benza ngokuchaseneyo noko bafanele ukuba bakwenza kwiimeko ezinjalo. Baqala ukutyhala, becinga ukuba banokuwulungisa lo mbandela ngokunyanzela umntu ukuba enze le nto ayifunayo.
Le ayisiyondlela ifanelekileyo yokwakha ubudlelwane obunempilo. Endaweni yoko, yiba nomonde kwaye uqonde- yazi ukuba iqabane lakho liza kuvula ngexesha, nokuba kungathatha ixesha elincinci kwaye le yindlela yokuphucula ubudlelwane xa umtshato wakho ukufuna kakhulu.
Into efunekayo lukholo kunye nokuzithemba. -U-Peter Pan
Kuqhelekile ukuba nonxunguphalo kubudlelwane bakho. Akukho mntu ugqibeleleyo kwaye akukho neqabane lakho. Endaweni yokubamba ingqumbo, funda indlela yokuthetha ngemicimbi yakho kwaye ubonise iqabane lakho ukuba uyakhathala kwaye usenokholo emtshatweni wakho.
Fumana iindlela zokubonisa uxabiso lwakho -bothuse ngesidlo sakusasa ebhedini, bhala umyalezo wothando kwisipili sokuhlambela ngaphambi kokuba bavuke kusasa okanye bapheke isidlo sabo sangokuhlwa. Zizinto ezincinci ezibaluleke kakhulu.
Ukwakha ukusondelelana emtshatweni kuxhomekeke ekubeni unokholo kangakanani kunye nokuthembela kangakanani kwiqabane lakho. Kwaye, kwelona xesha limnyama xa ubomi bukubeka phantsi, ungaqiniseka ukuba iqabane lakho liza kuba secaleni kwakho.
“Nemimangaliso ithatha ixesha elincinci.” - ICinderella
Ngaphandle kwemizamo yakho yokwakha ubuhlobo obusondeleyo phakathi kwabantu ababini kuthatha ixesha. Ziqhelise ukuba nomonde kunye nokuqonda, kwaye uyonwabele inkqubo yokwazi iqabane lakho ngeendlela ezintsha nezimangalisayo.
Umonde unesakhono sokuguqula nabuphi na ubudlelwane, ikuvumela ukuba uqhubekeke neemvakalelo zakho kwaye ujongane nemicimbi emtshatweni wakho ngendlela eyakhayo ngakumbi neyakhayo.
Esi simo sengqondo sifezekileyo ngenxa yomonde siya kukunceda ube novelwano ngakumbi kwabanye abakungqongileyo. Ngapha koko, umonde ubaluleke kakhulu ekubeni ubhetyebhetye, unganxibi, ungakhathazeki kwaye uphile ubomi obunempilo.
Ayinamsebenzi ukuba ungumlandeli weDisney okanye akunjalo, unokuqiniseka ukuba uza kufunda izifundo ezininzi zobomi kwiimuvi zeDisney.
Ingakumbi xa isiza ukwakha ulwalamano emtshatweni, Ezi bhanyabhanya zibhenela kwezona ndalo zisisiseko zabantu kwaye zibakhuthaza ukuba bafumane iindlela zokubambisa uthando ebomini babo.