Umxholo
- Ukuchaza ukuthandana ngezimvo zomhla wokuthandana
- Into omele uyazi ngothando
- Ungayifaka njani into yokuthandana kulwalamano lwam
- 1. Ukupha izipho
- 2. Amakhadi okubulisa
- 3. Imirhumo yemirhumo yeposi
- 4. Hlamba iinyawo zakhe
- 5. Ukuthanjiswa kobungcali
- 6. Imibongo nomculo
- 7. Ialbham yefoto
- 8. Ithawula kwisitya somisa
- 9. Ukumangaliswa kokuzingelwa komkhangeli
- 10. Amanqaku eelekese
Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba ungathandana njani ngakumbi kubudlelwane bakho, ufike kwindawo elungileyo ukuze wazi ngakumbi malunga nabantu abatshatileyo abathandanayo, indlela yokuthandana kunye nemisebenzi yothando kwizibini ezitshatileyo.
Isibhakabhaka ngumda xa kufikwa kwizimvo zothando kwizibini ezitshatileyo ezikhuthaza ukuthandana.
Ukunikezela ngokubaluleka okuphezulu kwizenzo zemihla ngemihla zothando zomeleza amaqhina, kwaye zonyusa umgangatho wobambiswano lwexesha elide.
Eli nqaku lijolise ekunikezeleni ngengcebiso yobudlelwane kwezothando kwaye inikezela ngemisebenzi elishumi enamandla yokufumana izithandani.
Ukuchaza ukuthandana ngezimvo zomhla wokuthandana
Uninzi lwabantu lucinga "ngokuthandana" njengemisebenzi efana nokubukela ukutshona kwelanga kunye, ukutya ikhandlela, okanye ukusela iwayini ngumlilo ogqumayo.
Ngelixa oku kufanelekileyo njengemisebenzi yothando, umbono kukubeka inkuthazo kwizibini ezinemibono yothando eqala ngezenzo ezincinci kodwa ezinentsingiselo zothando kunye nokudumisa.
Imisebenzi yezothando inokuba lula, njengokukhetha i-rose kwiqabane lakho ngamanye amaxesha, okanye inqaku lothando elifihliweyo ngobuchule. Banokucacisa ngakumbi, njengokucwangcisa iiholide ezimangazayo, okanye ukuhombisa indlu ngamatyathanga eelekese kunye namagqabi aphakamileyo.
Ngelixa usenza izinto zothando ekufuneka uzenzile, nokuba zinkulu okanye zincinci, zizenzo ozenzayo ngokuzazi, ezenzelwe injongo ebonakalayo yokuba "Ndiyakuthanda".
Into omele uyazi ngothando
- Izimvo zothando kwizibini ezitshatileyo ziyila amathuba amaqabane ukuchitha ixesha kunye
- Imisebenzi yothando yomeleza ulwalamano; ukuzisa imichiza yomzimba ehambelana nothando
- Imisebenzi yothando kwizibini ezitshatileyo vumela unxibelelwano olwandisiweyo
- Imidlalo yothando vumela ukuhlekisa, ukuzonwabisa kunye nokuzonwabisa
- Ukuthandana phakathi kwabantu abathandanayo kudala Isikhumbuzo sothando rhoqo kunye nokuqubuda
- Imisebenzi yezothando ekhaya okanye ngaphandle gcina izinto zintsha kwaye inomdla, (kubaluleke ngakumbi kwixesha elide)
- Imisebenzi yothando nceda amaqabane ukuba azane
- Imisebenzi yezibini ezithandanayo ukukhuthaza kunye nokuvuselela iimvakalelo zentlonipho kunye nokwenzelana
- Izimvo zothando yenza ukrokra, ulindelo, kunye nokonwaba
- Ulwalamano oluthandana ngokwenene luya kuba phantse akanasithukuthezi
Ungayifaka njani into yokuthandana kulwalamano lwam
Nantsi impendulo eqinisekileyo kumbuzo, indlela yokuthandana ngakumbi.
Ngelixa akukaze kube semva kwexesha ukuba uqalise, izibini ezisebenzayo zinokuphumeza imisebenzi yothando kwangoko. Ngokwenza njalo, ukuthandana kunokuba yinto yendalo kunxibelelwano lwakho enokuhlala iminyaka ezayo.
Apha ngezantsi sidwelise iindlela ezilishumi zomsebenzi wothando ukulungiselela ukuba ube lula.
Ngelixa le mibono yasebusuku yothando kunye nemibono yomhla wosuku yeyakho ukuba uyisebenzise ngendlela othanda ngayo, khumbula ukuba kungcono ukuzisebenzisa njengesikhokelo, uzilungelelanise, uzihombise okanye uzilungelelanise, kunye nokuza nezakho.
Khumbula ukuba izinto zothando ezenziwa ngabantu abatshatileyo kufuneka ziyile, zilungelelanise, zibandakanye kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ziyonwabisa.
Nazi izinto ezithandwayo kuye kunye naye ezinokwamkelwa ngokulula
1. Ukupha izipho
Thobela umthetho wokuba izipho zihlala zisongelwe.
Ingcebiso yokunceda abo baphaya ngobomi obuxakekileyo kukugcina izipho, uzifihle ukuze zikhutshwe xa ixesha lilungile.
Amaxesha afanelekileyo ekunikezeni isipho esingagqunywanga ilele kwinkcazo-ntetho, umzekelo: intsimbi yomqala inokubotshelelwa kwi-teddy bear, okanye iringi yokuzibandakanya ezantsi kweglasi ye-champagne.
2. Amakhadi okubulisa
Ikhadi lokubulisa linokunikwa phantse nasiphi na isipho, kwaye ukugcina isitokhwe kuzo kungasetyenziswa xa ungenalo ixesha lokuthenga. Banokuhamba neentyatyambo, iitshokholethi, iibhaluni, isilwanyana esinezixhobo, okanye esinye isipho.
3. Imirhumo yemirhumo yeposi
Ngaba iqabane lakho liyayithanda itshokholethi, iimpahla zangaphantsi, iziqholo? Iinkampani ezininzi zibonelela ngeeklabhu okanye ubulungu, obuthumela iisampulu qho ngenyanga ngeposi.
4. Hlamba iinyawo zakhe
Thatha ibhafu yamanzi ashushu anesepha kunye ne-loofah; Hlamba iinyawo zakhe, uzisule, emva koko uqhubeke nomsebenzi wakho. Uya kuhlonitshwa kwaye angathethi.
5. Ukuthanjiswa kobungcali
Unokuziphulula iqabane lakho ngokwakho, okanye ukuba awuzithembi kwizakhono zakho, setha idinga lababini kwindawo yokuzivavanya okanye yokuthambisa. Nobabini niyakonwabela ukuba niphumle kunye.
6. Imibongo nomculo
Ukuba uyila, bhala umbongo wephepha elinye malunga neqabane lakho kwaye ubhalwe kwi-calligraphy kwaye yenziwe. Okanye, jonga ukuba ungayifumana njani ialbham yimvumi yakhe ayithandayo ayibhale kwaye wayiposa.
7. Ialbham yefoto
Beka kunye ialbham yefoto eyimfihlo esebenza njengememori yakho kunye nobomi beqabane lakho kunye. Inokuba nemifanekiso yomntwana ngamnye kuni, emva kwexesha elimelwe yimifanekiso yenu ngaphambi kokuba nidibane, ngelixa nisathandana, nangoku. Nje ukuba ugqibile, unokuchitha iiyure ukhumbula iinkumbulo zakho.
8. Ithawula kwisitya somisa
Mthambise ngetawuli eshushu ngaphambili emva kokuhlamba okanye ukuhlamba. Baqinisekisiwe ukuba bayayithanda.
9. Ukumangaliswa kokuzingelwa komkhangeli
Fihla uluhlu lwamanqaku ngobuchule ejikeleze indlu ngamaqashiso. Umlingane wakho uya kuhamba amantongomane eqaphela iqhina ngalinye kwaye afumane umkhondo omtsha. Ekupheleni kokuzingelwa kwabaqhekezi, ibhaso kufuneka lilindile.
10. Amanqaku eelekese
Ukuba iqabane lakho liyayithanda ilekese, ungashiya zonke iintlobo zokutya kodwa amanqaku amnandi ngeelekese. Ipakethi yeRed Hots inokuthi "Ndishushu kuwe", okanye ukwanga kukaHershey kunokusetyenziswa njengamakhuphoni “okuncamisa” okanye ezinye izinto ezithandwayo.