Umxholo
- 1. Kufuneka uthandwe
- 2.Ayivulelwanga ukuba nolwalamano olusenyongweni
- 3. Ukungonwabi kuseto lwentlalo
- 4.Avoids imisebenzi yomsebenzi
- 5.Ukuphepha ukungqubana kuzo zonke iindleko
Ukuphazamiseka kubuntu kubonisa imeko ehlala ihleli yamava kunye nokuziphatha okubonakaliswa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.
Iqabane elinengxaki yokuPhepha uBuntu kunokuchazwa ngalo ukuthintelwa ekuhlaleni, ukuziva ungonelanga, kunye novakalelo olukhulu kuvavanyo olubi.
Banokuba novakalelo kangangokuba baziva bexhalabile kakhulu xa becinga ngokuthetha okanye ukwenza into ephosakeleyo.
Abanye ngabantu abakholisayo ngubani oxhalabileyo ngokuthandwa kangangokuba bayaziphepha iimeko zentlalo ngaphandle kokuba baqinisekile ngokwamkelwa okanye banokunika, banike kwaye banike de bangabinayo nento yokushiya.
Umntu owoyikayo ukugculelwa, unoloyiko lokungamkelwa eluntwini, kwaye uziva engonelanga kubudlelwane obusondeleyo, unokufumana ingxaki kubomi obuphakathi.
Nalu uvavanyo lokungaphazamiseki kubuntu.
Le mibuzo ibonisa ukungabikho komntu onokuthintela ukungahambi kakuhle, xa uthe, kungcono ukufuna ukungenelela kweengcali ukuxilongwa ngokusemthethweni.
Apha ngezantsi kukho ukubonakaliswa okuhlanu okunokubakho kokuPhepha uBuntu kunye nomzekelo wokuziphatha ngakunye.
1. Kufuneka uthandwe
Lo mntu akazibandakanyi nabanye ngaphandle kokuba bayazi ukuba bahlonitshwe kakhulu ngenxa yokoyika ukwaliwa.
Umzekelo, uJane ngumpheki omnandi. Uthatha iiklasi zokupheka kwaye ahambise ukutya kubantu abasweleyo.
Ingxaki, ukuba ayinanto yakwenza nokupheka uJane akabandakanyeki.
Uzibeka kuphela kwindawo yokuba phakathi kwabanye abamdumisayo kwaye uyazi, xa kufikwa ekuphekeni uyakuhlala efumana indumiso. UJane uchitha ixesha elininzi yedwa ekhitshini lakhe.
2.Ayivulelwanga ukuba nolwalamano olusenyongweni
Lo mntu woyika ukugculelwa okanye ukugculelwa ngumntu athe wathandana naye.
Yeyiphi indlela ebalaseleyo yokuqinisekisa ukuba awusoze uve ukwaliwa? Ungaze ubandakanyeke!
Umzekelo, uFrank unika iingcebiso ngolwalamano olukhulu. Wonke umntu uya kuFrank xa benengxaki ngobomi babo bothando.
Ingxaki kuphela kukuba, uFrank akaze abonakale esebudlelwaneni.
Uhlala ngokungakhathali ngabahlobo bakhe kunye nobudlelwane babo, obumgcina kude ekujonganeni noloyiko lokuzibandakanya ngokusondeleyo.
3. Ukungonwabi kuseto lwentlalo
Awunakufane ubone umntu onengxaki yokuPhepha uBuntu kwiofisi yeKrisimesi. Ukuba kukho umtshato wosapho, baya kuthumela isipho kodwa amahashe asendle akanakubarhuqela emtshatweni.
Baxakeke kakhulu ziingcinga zokuba abanye bazakucinga ntoni ngabo, bakufumanisa kulula ukuhlala ekhaya endaweni yokujongana noxinzelelo lwabo.
Umzekelo, uKathy uhlala nomyeni wakhe kwindawo yomhlala-phantsi. Abafazi ekuhlaleni bayahlangana badlale amakhadi kunye neminye imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo.
Bahamba ngokujonga iindawo zokuvota ngexesha lonyulo. Benza i-aerobics yamanzi echibini loluntu.
UKathy ugxeka aba bafazi, esithi "unezinto ezingcono anokuzenza ngexesha lakhe." Into eyenziwa nguKathy ngexesha lakhe kukuhlala ubukele imidlalo yeesepha, ucoce indlu kwaye ujongele phantsi abantu basetyhini anqwenela ukuba angathanda ukuba njalo.
Ukuvuma ukuba nangona kunjalo, uKathy kuya kufuneka avume ukuba uyoyika kwaye akukho apho afuna ukuya khona.
4.Avoids imisebenzi yomsebenzi
Lo mntu uyatyibilika emsebenzini ukuze angadibani nabanye.
Banoloyiko lokuthatha uxanduva ngakumbi emsebenzini kuba besoyika ukusilela. Bagcina iprofayile ephantsi emsebenzini.
Umzekelo, uJohn uqokelela amanani ukuze aphile. Yiyo yonke into ayenzayo, akafuni kunyuselwa.
Uya eofisini yakhe, avale ucango lwakhe, aze asebenze kuso nasiphi na isabelo anaso ngolo suku. Wayenokukhathalela kancinci ukuba uya kunyuselwa okanye anyuselwe ixesha elide ukuba angadibani nabanye okanye athathe ithuba lokusilela.
UJohn utya isidlo sasemini yedwa.
Akemi kwindawo epholileyo yamanzi kusasa ekuseni ethetha nabanye abasebenzi.
Akaze aphume emva komsebenzi eyokwenza ibhiya noontanga bakhe.
Uyidlala ikhuselekile kuba ukuba uyayidlala ikhuselekile akabi naxhala labanye ngokungavumi into ayithethayo okanye ayenzayo.
5.Ukuphepha ukungqubana kuzo zonke iindleko
Kwenzeka ntoni xa usilwa ungquzulwano nabanye?
Kuya kufuneka uve ukugxekwa, usenokuba nengcinga okanye umbono awukhatywa.
Impixano ayonwabisi kumntu oneThintelo loBuntuBanokuphepha zonke iimeko apho kunokwenzeka ukuba kubekho ungquzulwano okanye bagoba ngasemva ukwenza abanye bonwabe ukugcina ungquzulwano.
Umzekelo, uJustin wenza yonke into awayeyicelwa ngumfazi wakhe. Wayenoloyiko lokuba uyakufumana impazamo kuye, ke engqondweni yakhe, "yindlela yakhe okanye uhola wendlela."
UJustin wayicaphukela into yokuba umfazi wakhe engaqondi ukuba akafuni kwenza yonke into.
Engqondweni yakhe, kuya kufuneka akwazi ukufunda ingqondo yakhe.
Ukwazi ngaphandle kwegalelo kuye ukuba yintoni eyamonwabisa kwaye yintoni engazange ayenze.
Wayesoyika ukuveza iimfuno zakhe kwaye wayenomsindo ngaye kuba wayengaziqapheli iimfuno zakhe.
UJustin ungumlingisi.
Ngenxa yokugcina amanqanaba oxinzelelo, uya kuzenza ngathi uyathanda kwaye ufuna izinto ezifanayo ezenziwa ngumfazi wakhe.
Ingxaki kuphela, u-Justin ubeka yena, umfazi wakhe, kunye nomtshato wakhe ngokusilela.
Rhoqo umntu ofana noJustin uyakuhamba emva kweminyaka engama-25 betshatile ekhomba umnwe emfazini wakhe emtyhola ngokuba ngumntu olawulayo.
Igama lokugqibela kwindlela yokuziphatha yokuphepha
Abantu abanesiphene kuThintelo loBuntu abanengxaki yokuzithemba kunye neminye imiba ejikeleze ubudlelwane obusondeleyo, imisebenzi enxulumene nomsebenzi, kunye nokunxibelelana kwezentlalo.
Jonga kwakhona:
Ukuba uzibona wena okanye iqabane lakho kule nkcazo ingentla ndiyakubongoza ukuba ufune unyango ukuze ufunde ukuzithemba ngakumbi ekufumaneni le nto uyifunayo kwaye uyifunayo ebomini.
Kananjalo uya kufumana iingcebiso ezithembakeleyo kunyango lokuthintela ukuphazamiseka kubuntu.
Kuya kuba luncedo ukufunda esi sikhokelo kubalulekile ukunceda ukoyisa ukungahambi kakuhle kubuntu. Incwadi isinika ukukhanya kwiipateni ezixhaphakileyo ezinxulunyaniswa neempawu zokuphepha ubuntu kunye nemiceli mngeni yokuhlala neqabane elinengxaki yobuntu.
Ecaleni, njengoko sithetha ngezimbo zokuncamathisela kwabantu abadala, kunye noxinzelelo, akukho monakalo ekujongeni iimpawu ezixhalabisayo zobuntu, okanye nokuba nexhala lokuthintela ukungahambi kakuhle komntu ukuqonda nokulungisa ezinye iindlela zokuziphatha ezingasebenziyo ezikhokelela kulwalamano olunamandla, isiphithiphithi sengqondo kunye nemingeni yobudlelwane.
Ngaphandle koko, kufuneka uxhase iqabane lakho ukuze bakwazi ukuhlala kwindawo enobuntu, kwaye unciphise ukubandezeleka kwabo, besazi ukuba bahlala othandweni.