Umxholo
- Ngokwenene, unxibelelwano oluyinyani alwenzeki
- 1. Cinga ngaphambi kokuba uthethe
- 2. Gcina imfesane kwindawo ephambili
- 3. Xa ubuza ukuba luhambe njani usuku lweqabane lakho, yitsho
- 4. Thethani into entle omnye komnye yonke imihla, ningacelanga
- 5. Thetha ngezinto abazoyikayo, abakhathazekileyo okanye abazixhalabeleyo
- 6. Buza ukuba unganceda na
- 7. Yenza izinto ezincinci ukukholisa iqabane lakho, ungacelwanga
- Qingqanani ixesha lesibini kunye nixoxe ngokuba yintoni ebalulekileyo kuni nobabini
Izibini zexesha elide zinokungena kuhlobo olufutshane lonxibelelwano.
Rhoqo izibini ziye zigqibe iingcinga kunye nezivakalisi zomnye nomnye ziye kuthule cwaka kwizikhewu entloko, becinga ukuba bayayazi into ethethwa liqabane labo.
Oku kunokuba kukugquma kunye neempendulo ezimfutshane nakwimibono engeyiyo ukuba awalumkanga.
Xa usenza ezi “zinto zingathethwayo” uyayifaka nje umnxeba.
Ngokwenene, unxibelelwano oluyinyani alwenzeki
Ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva uza kuqala ukuziva ungonxibelelwano. Yima uze ucinge ngayo okomzuzwana.
Ugqibele nini wena neqabane lakho ukuthetha ngento enzulu kwaye eyiyo? Ngaba iincoko zakho kwezi ntsuku zihlala zikho ngaphezulu kwaye zikhawulelwe kwinkqubo yemihla ngemihla, ukusebenza kwekhaya, njl.
Ugqibele nini ukuthetha ngothando kwiqabane lakho kwaye nithethe ngento eniyicingayo nobabini? Ukuba sekulixesha oko akuyena mqondiso olungileyo.
Ukuba uziva ngathi wena neqabane lakho aninancoko inentsingiselo okanye anithandi kwaye ninobubele ngokwaneleyo komnye nomnye, amathuba alungile ukuba iqabane lakho livakale ngokufanayo.
Nobabini ninokuthi "nibambeke" kwindlela okanye izinto eziqhelekileyo eziye zahlula ningaqondanga. Ziindaba ezimbi ezo. Iindaba ezimnandi kukuba, ungawulungisa lo mbandela ngotshintsho oluncinci kunxibelelwano lwakho kunye nokwenza ukuba unxibelelwano lwakho lube nothando ngakumbi, lukhathalele kwaye luzalisekise kuni nobabini.
Nazi ezinye zeendlela ezilula zokuba nothando ngakumbi kubo bonke ubudlelwane bakho
1. Cinga ngaphambi kokuba uthethe
Endaweni yempendulo yakho yesiqhelo, yima ucinge okomzuzwana kwaye uphendule ngobubele.
Rhoqo sinokuphazamiseka kakhulu, sibe mfutshane, okanye singahoyi.
Qinisekisa ukuba iqabane lakho liyazi ukuba le nto bayibuzayo / bayibalisayo ibalulekile kuwe.
2. Gcina imfesane kwindawo ephambili
Cinga ngento oyithethayo kunye nendlela iqabane lakho elinokuziva ngayo.
Thambisa iimpendulo zekhethini kwaye ube mnandi kancinci.
Akunzima ukuyenza kwaye yenza umahluko omkhulu.
3. Xa ubuza ukuba luhambe njani usuku lweqabane lakho, yitsho
Thatha ixesha lokubajonga emehlweni ulinde impendulo yabo.
Sukuphendula, mamela nje.
Esi sisitshixo sinyani kunxibelelwano oluchanekileyo.
4. Thethani into entle omnye komnye yonke imihla, ningacelanga
Andithethi ngezinto ezingenamsebenzi "ukhangeleka ulungile"; Kuya kufuneka sele uyenza loo nto.
Xelela iqabane lakho ngento elungileyo abanokuhamba nayo ngalo lonke usuku lwabo.
Baxelele ukuba unebhongo ngomsebenzi abawenzayo, okanye indlela abayiphathe ngayo imeko enzima nabantwana. Yenza umahluko kwimihla yomlingane wakho ngokubaphakamisa kwaye ubakhuthaze.
5. Thetha ngezinto abazoyikayo, abakhathazekileyo okanye abazixhalabeleyo
Ukwabelana ngento oyikayo kunye / okanye imithwalo yindlela yokunisondeza kunye.
6. Buza ukuba unganceda na
Sukucinga ukuba iqabane lakho liyakudinga ukuba ubalungisele izinto, lifuna ingcebiso okanye uluvo lwakho.
Ngamanye amaxesha bafuna inkxaso kunye nenkuthazo yakho kuphela. Ngamnye kuni uyakwazi, ugqibelele.
Thintela isicupho sokuxhomekeka ngokuvumela ukuzimela kunye neengcinga ezizodwa kunye nezenzo.
Ngamanye amaxesha impendulo iya kuthi "hayi, sukunceda", mayibe ilungile kwaye ungakhubeki.
7. Yenza izinto ezincinci ukukholisa iqabane lakho, ungacelwanga
Izipho ezincinci; ukuncedisa kwimisebenzi yasekhaya, ukungabuziswa kwekhefu, ikomityi yekofu okanye isidlo sokutya.
Yizisa ekhaya idessert oyithandayo, iwayini okanye isidlo. Bathumele umyalezo wenkxaso ngexesha losuku lomsebenzi okanye le projekthi. Uyakumangaliswa yindlela ezincinci zomzimba ezizisa ulonwabo kwiqabane lakho.
Qingqanani ixesha lesibini kunye nixoxe ngokuba yintoni ebalulekileyo kuni nobabini
Thetha ngamathemba akho, amaphupha akho, izicwangciso kunye nezikimu zakho.
Phinda uvavanye rhoqo kuba izinto ziyatshintsha. Yonwaba kwaye wonwabele inkampani yomnye nomnye kwaye usebenzise elo xesha ukunxibelelana kwaye ubonise uthando omnye komnye.
Ukuqhawula umkhwa okanye indlela yesiqhelo kunokuba nzima, kwaye akusoloko kulula.
Yiba nomonde omnye komnye kunye nakuwe ngokwakho kuba ngokungazi unokutyibilika ubuyele kwiimpendulo zakho eziqhelekileyo. Fowunelana malunga nayo xa usenza njalo, kwaye ngobunono ukhumbuze iqabane lakho ukuba usebenzela ukutshintsha le mikhwa midala kunye nokwakha emitsha.
Enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokuba liqabane elinothando ngakumbi kukucebisa kwiqabane lakho, unencoko yokwenyani malunga nento eyinyani kwaye ulahle uhlobo oluthile nolwimi olunothando apho njengesikhumbuzo.
Kungekudala uyakuqaphela utshintsho kunxibelelwano lwakho apho nobabini ninokuba nobubele kwaye nithandane omnye nomnye ngaphandle komkhwa.
Ngumkhwa olungileyo lowo!