Umxholo
- Yintoni ebangela i-narcissist tick
- Izibini zeNarcissist kubuDlelwane
- Xa ababini be-narcissist bethandana-izibini zaseNarcissist
- Inzululwazi ngasemva kwezibini ezitshatileyo
Ngaba ii-narcissists ezimbini zinokuba sisibini? Xa ucinga ngalo mbuzo, into yokuqala efika engqondweni yakho ngamafutha amakhulu NO! Inokwenzeka njani into yokuba abantu abazixakekise bade babe nengxaki yengqondo nanini na bezibandakanya?
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ucinga ngayo, usenokuba sele udibene nesibini esitshatileyo se-narcissist. Okanye usenokuba ubabonile nakwiTV, phakathi kwezinto ezibizwa ngokuba zizibini zamandla.
AbakwaNarcissist bangena kubudlelwane nabanye abenza izinto ezingezizo, kwaye siza kuxoxa ngokuba kutheni, kwaye olu lwalamano lubonakala kanjani.
Yintoni ebangela i-narcissist tick
I-Narcissism kukuphazamiseka kubuntu. Ngamanye amagama, iyinyani kwaye ithathwa njengengxaki yokwenyani ngoochwephesha abajongana nempilo yengqondo. Ukuba "ubunembeko" yokuhlangana narcissist, okanye ukubandakanyeka kwenye, uyavuma ukuba uyithathela ingqalelo imeko yengqondo.
Inyani yokuba kukuphazamiseka kubuntu kuthetha ukuba ikwayingxaki enganyangekiyo.
AbakwaNarcissists ngabantu abazimilise kakhulu abaneenkolelo ezinkulu malunga nokuxabiseka kwabo. Baswele uvelwano, kwaye bayakuhlala bebeka ezabo iimfuno phambili.
Yonke into ebomini babo kufuneka ixhase ukuzithemba kwabo, kubandakanya ubudlelwane. Njengabazali, bafuna abantwana babo ukuba basebenze njengabameli beetalente zabo kunye nokongama.
Nangona kunjalo, kwiingcambu zoku kuzithemba okugqithisileyo kunye nokuzithanda ngokwakho yimvakalelo echaseneyo. AmaNarcissist, nangona efihlwe ngokunzulu, enyanisweni, akhuselekanga kakhulu. Ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka babe nolawulo kuyo yonke into ebangqongileyo, kungenjalo baya kudilika. Bayayidinga yonke into ukuze bayakhele kumnandi wabo wobugorha.
Izibini zeNarcissist kubuDlelwane
AmaNarcissist angena kubudlelwane bezothando. Batshata kwaye banabantwana. Ungalindela ukuba i-narcissist ihlale ingatshatanga okanye kubudlelwane obuqhelekileyo, ukuze ikwazi ukulandela ikhondo lomsebenzi okanye iitalente zabo. Kodwa, bayakonwabela ukuba nomntu okufutshane nabo.
Bahlala bemile (rhoqo ngokuhlukumeza) amaqabane abo kwinto abayidingayo ukuze baqhubeke bethandwa kwaye babakhathalele. Ngokusisiseko, abatshati be-narcissists baphela bencama yonke into ukuze babekho kwaye bakholise amaqabane abo ahlala elambile-ukuze-badumise.
Izibini ze-Narcissist azinakho ukubonelela ngothando nomsa omnye komnye. Banokubonakala besenza njalo ekuqaleni, kodwa kungekudala wonke umntu ucacile ukuba zeziphi iindima zabo.
Ibango le-narcissist, kunye neqabane labo liyabonelela. Abanamdla kwiimvakalelo zamaqabane abo, iimfuno kunye nomdla wabo. Banomdla kwiimfuno zabo kunye neemfuno zabo. Baya kuthetha kwaye abanakuze bamamele. Baza kubuza kwaye bangaze babuyisele.
Xa ababini be-narcissist bethandana-izibini zaseNarcissist
Omnye unokuzibuza ukuba kwenzeka njani ukuba abo bantu babini badibane. Kuvakala kungangqinelani ukulindela ukuba abantu ababini abazingcayo benze isibini. Ngubani owenza oko kukholekileyo? Ngubani oya kusebenza njengomncedisi wobuhlobo kolo lwalamano?
Ungalindela ukuba i-narcissist ifumane umntu ongakhuselekanga kunye nabantu abonwabisayo ngokwendalo, ukuze kungabikho mfuneko yokuba basebenze kakhulu ukubangenisa kweso sikhundla sinjengekhoboka. Kwaye oku kuyenzeka amaxesha amaninzi.
Nangona kunjalo, kukho enye into enokubakho, kwaye leyo yeyababini be-narcissists ukuba babe sisibini se-narcissist. Asinakutsho ngqo ukuba kutheni kusenzeka nje oku. Njengoko siza kukubonisa kwicandelo elilandelayo, uphando luye lwabonisa ukuba ii-narcissists ezimbini zihlala zikulwalamano mhlawumbi nangaphezulu kunabantu abangathathi ntweni. Singacinga izizathu ezininzi zoku.
Eyokuqala kukuba ukufana kutsala. Siza kuthetha ngakumbi ngolu khetho kancinci.
Into yesibini enokwenzeka kukuba ekubeni ii-narcissists zinganqweneleki kwaphela kumaqabane obomi, baphela kufuneka bakrwece intsalela.
Abangengabo abakwa-narcissists banokugqibela ngokufumana umntu onokubuyisela uthando kunye nokunyamekela. Okokugqibela, into enokuba iyinyani kukuba banomdla kumfanekiso ogqibeleleyo obeka i-narcissist. Banokuyithanda indlela ebonakala ngayo njengesibini, ngenxa yoko, iqabane labo elingumlingani elibenza babonakale behle emehlweni oluntu.
Inzululwazi ngasemva kwezibini ezitshatileyo
Uphononongo lwakutsha nje lubonakalise ukuba i-narcissist inokuba neqabane le-narcissistic kubudlelwane bexesha elide. Kukwanjalo nakwiMacavavellianism kunye nokusebenza kwengqondo. Oku kukufumana okuxabisekileyo, njengoko ixhasa ithisisi efana nokutsala okunje, naphakathi kwabantu abaqhelekileyo banokuthi bancediswe ngcono ngabantu abancinci abazimeleyo.
Izibini ze-Narcissist aziyazi indlela yokwenza ubudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nothando. Ukanti, kubonakala ngathi banokwanela ngokufanayo ukoyisa oku kwaye baphele betshatile. Olu pho nonongo lubonise ukuba akunjalo ukuba abantu bafana kunye nexesha. I-narcissists ezimbini ziya kutsala omnye komnye kwasekuqaleni.
Xa ucinga ngendlela engonelisiyo ngobomi beqabane lomlingisi we-narcissist, umntu angonwaba ukuba abantu abenza iziyobisi bafumana ulonwabo ekwabelaneni kwabo nokuzingca kwabo.