Umxholo
- 1. Ukubetha iyure yolonwabo
- 2. Ukuthandana ngemini
- 3. Yitshintshe
- 4. Ukutshintsha ukhathalelo lomntwana
- 5. Fumana mahala
- 6. Gcina imali ngobusuku bomhla wasekhaya
- 7. Yenza isivumelwano
- 8. Phuma phandle
- 9. Izipho ezinikezela ngeervy
- 10. Zivuzeni
Izifundo zibonisa ukuba abantu abatshatileyo abazibophelela kumhla oqhelekileyo wobusuku bomhla bonwabile kwaye banxibelelana ngakumbi. Ngoba? Kuba ixesha elisemgangathweni lisenza sizive sinxibelelene ngakumbi kwaye sinokuvumelanisa ngakumbi. Ixesha lomntu omnye nelakho-kwaye-kuphela kubalulekile ukugcina zonke iimvakalelo zothando-dove ziphila! Usuku lomhla akufuneki lubize. Ngapha koko, ulonwabo olungenakuthelekiswa nanto lunokuba simahla kunye / okanye nezinto ezingabizi kakhulu. Ngaba ujonge iindlela zokwenza ukuba ubusuku bomhla bufikeleleke ngakumbi? Nazi izimvo ezilishumi ezijolise ekugcineni unxibelelwano lwakho luphezulu ngaphandle kokophula i-bhanki:
1. Ukubetha iyure yolonwabo
Intloko kwiyure eyonwabileyo, ngesiqhelo nge-4-7 emva kwemini, xa i-bevy yeebargain ilinde njengokuthenga-enye, iziselo ezine-bar kunye ne-pub grub. Ukuba ishedyuli yakho yokusebenza iyakuvumela, yenza iyure kwangoko kanye ngenyanga okanye ngekota ukuhlangana neqabane lakho kumhla we-4 pm. Sela i-cocktail kunye nengxoxo ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka kwiyure enye. Andiqinisekanga ukuba uyaphi? Kukho usetyenziso lwento!
2. Ukuthandana ngemini
Imihla yesidlo sangokuhlwa ikwipremiyamu xa kuthelekiswa nebhulantshi okanye isidlo sasemini. I-brunch enkulu ngokuqinisekileyo sesona sidlo simnandi sosuku nokuba kunjalo. Konwabele ukutya ngaphandle kancinci ngomhla wosuku kwaye wonwabe ngebhonasi eyongeziweyo yokulala ngexesha!
3. Yitshintshe
Beka "ingqayi yomhla wobusuku" kwikhawuntara yakho yasekhitshini okanye kwindawo yokuma ebusuku kwaye uqalise ukuyizalisa ngotshintsho olukhululekileyo kunye namatyala eedola. Kwiiveki ezimbalwa, uya kuba ubeke inhlama eyaneleyo ukuze ubambe imovie kunye / okanye ukuluma kancinci. Kwakhona jonga ukuba ibhanki yakho yenza "igcina utshintsho" kwiakhawunti apho bagcina khona ukuthengiselana kwaye bayigcinile imali kwiakhawunti eyahlukileyo.
4. Ukutshintsha ukhathalelo lomntwana
Imirhumo yokufumana umntwana sesinye sezizathu zokuba abazali abaninzi babe nomhla wobusuku; Iyaqondakala okoko abanonopheli bahlawulisa phakathi kwe- $ 10-15 ngeyure. Kwaye oko kuyangxama ngokukhawuleza, ukongeza kwibhili yakho yomhla wobusuku. Endaweni yoko, tshintsha ukhathalelo lwabantwana ngesinye iseti sabazali (abanokusebenzisa ubusuku bomhla, nabo). Utshintsho olulula: uphuma ngeempelaveki kwaye baphuma benye. Oku kuhle kuba abantwana bafumana umhla wokudlala omnandi kunye / okanye ulala kakhulu, kwaye awunyanzelekanga ukuba uhlawulele ukhathalelo!
5. Fumana mahala
Cinga ngemiboniso yasimahla yegalari, iwayini okanye ukhenketho lweebhiya, ngaphandle kokubiza imithendeleko kunye neekonsathi, ukhetha iifama nokunye okuninzi. Ubuchule obuncinci bokuguqula i-freebie okanye umhla wexabiso eliphantsi kumava atyebileyo kumgangatho!
6. Gcina imali ngobusuku bomhla wasekhaya
Ngomfanekiso omncinci kunye nokucwangciswa kwangaphambili, ungabetha ixesha elinomgangatho ngaphandle kokushiya intuthuzelo yekhaya lakho. Ewe iipijama zinokwamkeleka kwisinxibo sosuku! Ezinye izimvo ... ube nobusuku obunemixholo (njengesiTaliyane) kunye nesidlo sakho, umculo kunye nomdlalo bhanyabhanya ojikelezileyo; dlala imidlalo yebhodi yeklasikhi yokuzibandakanya ubuso ngobuso kunye nokuhleka; phumla ngebhola yokuthambisa efana ne-spa, amakhandlela kunye neoyile yokuthambisa; inkwenkwezi isebenzisa iapps ukukhulisa iinkwenkwezi kunye neenkwenkwezi zokonwaba ngaphandle kweli hlabathi; kwaye uzonwabise nge-foodie ngepleyiti yeshizi okanye i-fondue dessert. Ngomrhumo oqhelekileyo, unokuba nobusuku bosuku obuziswe emnyango wakho! Umrhumo womhla wasekhaya uyafana nomxholo wenkonzo weekiti zokuhanjiswa kwesidlo kwaye uza ugqibe nomsebenzi (ngezixhobo eziyimfuneko / izinto), ukutya kunye nemibuzo yokuqalisa incoko.
7. Yenza isivumelwano
Fumana izaphulelo kwimisebenzi, iivenkile zokutyela, uhambo kunye neempahla kunye neenkonzo. Kwaye musa ukukhawuleza ukuphosa i-imeyile engabalulekanga njengeeflaya zentengiso zeveki ngeveki eziqulethe amatikiti erestyu. Amaziko amaninzi anikezela ngokuphawulwa kwabaxhasi abathi "bathanda" okanye "bangene" kuFacebook kwaye babhalisele uluhlu lwabo lwe-imeyile.
8. Phuma phandle
Phuma ngaphandle kwesitali sakho (kunye neendleko) isidlo sangokuhlwa kunye nomdlalo bhanyabhanya ngokuphuma emzimbeni ukonwabele ngaphandle. Ukunyuka ipaki yendawo, yaseburhulumenteni okanye yelizwe, uthathe ukukhwela ibhayisekile, ukuloba, ipikniki okanye ukubetha elunxwemeni. Uninzi lwexesha, le mihla ingaphandle ayizukubiza mali.
9. Izipho ezinikezela ngeervy
Ngexesha elizayo abantu obathandayo babuza ukuba ufuna ntoni ngomhla wokuzalwa okanye okhoyo ngeholide, tshintsha uluhlu lwakho lwamabhakethi ebusuku! Cinga ngezatifikethi zezipho kwiimuvi, kwiivenkile zokutyela okanye kwindawo enomdla.
10. Zivuzeni
Ungazivumeli ezo mileline zenqwelo moya kunye namanqaku omvuzo wekhadi letyala ukuba aye emgceni. Jonga iindlela zokusebenzisa ukuthenga amatikiti emidlalo yeqonga, amakhadi ezipho zokutyela kunye neendlela zokubaleka.
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