Umxholo
- 1. Pheka isidlo esikhethekileyo nangosuku oluqhelekileyo
- 2. Mothusa ngokumka kwezothando eCentral Coast
- 3. Myeke abe nesilayi esikhulu sepitsa
- 4. Mncamise ebunzi nanini na
- 5. Mbambe asondele xa exhentsa xa kuvakala izandi zemvula
- 6. Mthathe ngomhla ongalindelekanga wesidlo sangokuhlwa
- 7. Mthumele ileta yothando ebhalwe ngesandla okanye umbongo
- 8.Mxelele ukuba mhle ngamaxesha athile
- 9. Hlala uzikhumbula iinkcukacha ezincinane awakuxelela zona
- 10. Mthumele isipha seentyatyambo azithandayo
- Iingcinga zokugqibela:
Ngokuqinisekileyo, kukho iwaka iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuthi ndiyakuthanda kumfazi wamaphupha akho-nokuba ungathethi.
Nokuba uhlala kubudlelwane obusandul 'ukubhakwa, uceba ngochulumanco ekubopheleleni iqhina, okanye utshatile ngaphezulu kweshumi leminyaka okanye ngaphezulu, ukugcina ilangatye lothando kwindawo yalo elungileyo kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina ukusondelana kuhlala ubomi bonke .
Kodwa njengokuba ixesha lihamba, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuziva ngathi yonke into omangalisayo uyithethayo ithi ndiyakuthanda awusasebenzi okanye ingqondo yakho ithanda ukukhala ngoncedo oluthile kwiingcali zothando nezobudlelwane.
Ukuba kunjalo, uyifumene indawo efanelekileyo yokukhulisa ingqondo yakho yothando ngezimbo zomzimba ezilula kodwa ezimnandi zokuba ndiyakuthanda.
Eli nqaku liqokelele iingcebiso malunga nendlela onokuthi ndiyakuthanda ngesenzo sakho kwaye ubonise indlela omxabisa ngayo ngaphandle kokukhupha igama elinye.
Izandi zinomdla, akunjalo? Ke, gcina amehlo akho apheleleyo kunye neendlebe ezinkulu kumaphepha alandelayo kwaye ufumane olona ncedo ulindelekileyo iindlela zokuthi "Ndiyakuthanda" ngaphandle kwamagama!
1. Pheka isidlo esikhethekileyo nangosuku oluqhelekileyo
Faka ifaskoti yakho kwaye uqale ukukhangela indlela yokupheka esona sitya sakhe asithandayo ngaphambi kokufudumeza esitovini.
Kungenxa yokuba incam yokuqala onokuzama ukuyilungiselela kunye nokupheka isidlo esikhethekileyo senkosazana yakho ethandekayo kwintsuku eqhelekileyo.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba uya kusilela kule ndawo, kungcono ubuze ingcali ngoncedo okanye iingcebiso.
Inye into eqinisekileyo, xa sele enencasa yesitya sakho esikhethekileyo, uyakuqonda ukuba impendulo yakhe ixabiseke ngokwenene onke amalungiselelo akho kunye neenzame zakho.
Ukwenza ixesha kunye nomzamo wokupheka izitya ezizodwa kuhlwayelwe ngesandla enye ezona zimpawu zingcono zokuthi ndiyakuthanda.
2. Mothusa ngokumka kwezothando eCentral Coast
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukusebenza ukuze uziphilise kuyadinisa.
Ngoku, khawufane ucinge ngomfazi wakho osazidibanisayo akuba efika ekhaya kuphela ukulungiselela ukutya okumnandi, ukunceda abantwana ngomsebenzi wesikolo wasekhaya, ukwenza eminye imisebenzi engayekwanga kunye neminye imisebenzi enxulumene nekhaya kuluhlu.
Ngaba awucingi ukuba ufanele ukufumana unyango olukhethekileyo lweholide?
Ukuba uyakwenza oko, olona luvo lulungileyo kukumothusa ngothando lokubaleka kuNxweme oluseMbindini!
Ubuhle bale ndawo busuka emhlabeni obuphantsi kuya kuthatha umphefumlo kunye noxinzelelo.
Kwaye enye into oya kuyithanda malunga nokubaleka ngokukhawuleza kwezothando kwiCentral Coast kukuba ungazisa yonke ipakethi kunye nezilwanyana zasekhaya kunye nawe.
Ingaba ucinga ntoni? Ngaba ayisi fAscinating gesture to say ndiyakuthanda?
3. Myeke abe nesilayi esikhulu sepitsa
Ngoku siphantsi kwincam yesithathu efuna ukukuxelela ukuba umnike esona siqwenga sepitsa!
Ewe, hayi njengokuthi "kulungile ndiza kumthengela ipitsa kwaye ndimnike esona siqwenga sigqibeleleyo", ayisiyiyo malunga nepitsa kuphela, kulungile?
Oku kuthetha ukuba uhlala emvumela ukuba afumane ubungakanani obukhulu bayo yonke into enjengexesha lakho, ingqalelo, uthando, uthando, uburharha, nayo yonke into onokwabelana naye.
4. Mncamise ebunzi nanini na
Namhlanje, ukwanga ebunzi kufunyanwa kungakhathalelwanga-kwaye ewe, loo nto iyacaphukisa.
Ewe, ukuba yile nto ucinga ngayo, uxolo ukuxelela oku, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo intombazana yakho iyakuthanda ukwanga okungahleliwe ebunzini.
Nokuba uhamba ezitalatweni, umbona emva kosuku olude, uphathaphathana okanye uthi goodnight ngaphambi kokuba nilale ecaleni komnye, ungaze ube madolw 'anzima ukumhlamba ngokumanga okungahleliwe.
Oku isenzo esilula esithi ndiyakuthanda kuthetha lukhulu kuye ngaphezu kokuba unokucinga.
5. Mbambe asondele xa exhentsa xa kuvakala izandi zemvula
Kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba luyathandana kwaye luyonwabisa njani ukuhlala nje ecaleni kwefestile ngelixa usela ikomityi yeti kwaye umamele ingxolo emhlophe edalwe yimvula egalelayo.
Ewe, nqanaba ngalo mzuzu kwaye ubandakanye umfazi wakho omangalisayo kwindawo.
Ngelixa nonke nizindlebe kwizandi zemvula, yibambelele esinqeni kwaye umgcine kufutshane kuwe, jonga nzulu ngamehlo akhe amangalisayo kwaye ujonge umzuzu wothando ngelixa umnika umdaniso ocothayo kwizandi zemvula.
Ingaba ucinga ntoni? Ngaba ayisiyonto yothando egqithisileyo le yokuba ndiyakuthanda? Ewe, i-13/10 ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuvuma koku.
6. Mthathe ngomhla ongalindelekanga wesidlo sangokuhlwa
Qinisekisa uluntu ngokungalunganga kwaye ubabonise ukuba i-chivalry ayifanga. Yiya uzidibanise kunye kwaye uququzelele umhla okhethekileyo wentombazana yakho ethandekayo.
Unokukhetha eyona ndawo yokutyela inomdla kakhulu kuni nobabini kwaye nirente yonke indawo ukuze nibe nexesha elifanelekileyo.
Yenze ngosuku oluqhelekileyo kwaye uya kukubonela indlela ekuxabiseke ngayo ukubona olona ncumo lwakhe luqhekekileyo nolona lusasazekayo. Khumbula ukuba umgangatho wexesha olichitha naye ubaluleke ngakumbi kunenani.
7. Mthumele ileta yothando ebhalwe ngesandla okanye umbongo
Ukubuyisa isiko lesiqhelo kunokuba yeyona nto uyithandayo nothando. Kwaye oko kubandakanya ukubhala ileta yothando ebhalwe ngesandla okanye umbongo wenkosikazi yakho eyoyikekayo.
Amanye amadoda angenza ukubhala okulula kwincwadi yonke eyenziwe ngothando.
Ke, kutheni ungazami nje? Nje ukuba abe neeleta okanye incwadi esentendeni yezandla zakhe, lindela ukubona indalo izele ziinkwenkwezi ezininzi emehlweni akhe.
8.Mxelele ukuba mhle ngamaxesha athile
Ubungeke wazi ibhaso lokuncoma inenekazi lakho ngaphandle kokuba uyenza ngamaxesha athile.
Ke, qala ukuba nomkhwa wokuxelela indlela athandeka ngayo nokuba uphakathi kwengxoxo yakho enzulu, embindini wesidlo sakho sangokuhlwa okanye ngelixa uhamba ezitalatweni kunye.
Kwaye nje ukuba uqwalasele ukwenza into elula kodwa emnandi, lindela ukubona olona ncumo lumnandi kunye namehlo amenyezelayo ebusweni bakhe ngala mathuba angaqhelekanga!
Oku kunokuba yinto encinci kodwa inokuba nefuthe elibi kubudlelwane bakho.
9. Hlala uzikhumbula iinkcukacha ezincinane awakuxelela zona
Amantombazana ngokuqinisekileyo athetha kakhulu ngayo yonke into ephantsi kwelanga.
Kwaye ngelixa amanye amakhwenkwe ecaphuka ngokulula ngale ndlela yokuziphatha, amadoda ayithatha njengesona siganeko sothando sothando ebomini babo.
Kwaye ukuba uyintloko ngaphezulu kwezithende kumfazi wakho omangalisayo, hlala umamela nantoni na ayithethayo nokuba ithini.
Ayisiyiyo loo nto, soloko ukhumbula ezona nkcukacha zincinci ahlala ethetha ngazo njengombala wakhe awuthandayo wezikhonkwane, eyona nto imcaphukisayo, eyona nyanga ayithandayo okanye ixesha lonyaka, iinwele azithandayo, njalo njalo njalo njalo.
10. Mthumele isipha seentyatyambo azithandayo
Ukuthumela ezinye iintyatyambo yenye yeempawu zothando ngoku ezingakhathalelwanga ngabaninzi.
Ewe, musa ukuba ngomnye wabo kwaye uyothuse intombazana yakho ngokuthumela isipha emsebenzini, eklasini yakhe, okanye nangosuku olungacwangciswanga.
Ngale ndlela, umthumela umyalezo ngothando lwakho olungapheliyo kunye nothando olungenakuthelekiswa nanto kuye.
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Iingcinga zokugqibela:
Uthando lokwenene alunamida nakwindlela yokuthetha okanye yokubonisa egameni lakho ukuba lithetha kangakanani ilizwe kuwe.
Ukubonisa uthando akupheleli nje ekuphuculeni umgangatho wolwalamano kodwa kuye kwaziwa ukuphucula impilo yakho.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba eli nqaku liyanceda kakhulu, gqabaza malunga neengcinga ezintle ezantsi. Kwaye ukuba unezinye iingcinga zezimbo zomzimba ezincinci ezithetha ukuba "Ndiyakuthanda" ofuna ukwabelana ngayo, yiza usinike ingcebiso kwaye ungathandabuzi ukuthumela ngaphezulu kweengcebiso zakho.