Umxholo
- 1.Ukuchukumisa okungacacanga ngokomzimba
- 2. ixesha ngabom omnye nomnye
- 3. Ukwenza kunokuba ube nje
- 4. Ummangaliso!
- 5. Thetha ubomi
Akusoloko kulula ukufumana indlela yokubonisa uthando lwakho kwindoda yakho. Rhoqo kunokuba ngathi ngathi senze izinto ezifanayo ngaphezulu ukuya kwinqanaba lokuba nesithukuthezi. Kwaye ukuba uziva ukruqukile, kukucinga okungokwemvelo ukukholelwa ukuba naye uyadikwa! Kukule ndawo yomtshato kubalulekile ukuba uyile. Zininzi iindlela zokubonisa indoda indlela ethandwa ngayo nexabisekileyo ngayo; Uluhlu alunasiphelo kwaye alunamida.
1.Ukuchukumisa okungacacanga ngokomzimba
Kungabonakala kusisiyatha ukubandakanya ukubamba ngabom kulwalamano lwakho nomyeni wakho. Ukunxibelelana ngokwesondo kunye nokusondelelana ngokomzimba kuyinxalenye yendalo yomtshato, ke kubonakala kuyacaca ukuba le iya kuba yindlela yokubonisa uthando lwakho kwindoda. Nangona kunjalo, yintoni uninzi lwabasetyhini olungaphumeleliyo ukuyichonga ziimfuno ezingezizo ezesondo zamadoda abo! Ukuwolana, ukuwolana, ukudanisa kunye, ukubambana ngezandla-amadoda awonwabileyo ukubamba ngokwasemzimbeni namaqabane awo njengendlela yokubonisa uthando aya kuphendula ngokuqinisekileyo nakweyiphi na kwezi ndlela! Yiba nobuchule ngeendlela ozibandakanya ngayo nomyeni wakho. Unganikezela ngokuthambisa okanye ukubamba ebusuku, kodwa uthini ngomdlalo wethegi okanye ukuhamba ngesandla uye kwivenkile ekufuphi okanye kwivenkile efanelekileyo ukuze uthathe isoda? Ezi zimbo zomzimba, nangona zingabizi okanye zigqithise, zinokuthetha ngokubanzi.
2. ixesha ngabom omnye nomnye
Kulula kakhulu ukulahleka kukungqubana kobomi bemihla ngemihla. Into ebonakala ngathi ixesha elichithwe kunye liyichitha ixesha elibekiweyo, iishedyuli, ukucoca, ukupheka kunye nomsebenzi owabelweyo. Yima uphefumle. Awuzukuxhamla kuphela ekumkeni kwisiphithiphithi, kodwa kuya kuba njalo nakumtshato wakho. Xa uchitha ixesha nomyeni wakho, yiba nenjongo. Awunyanzelekanga ukuba uthethe okanye wenze into engaqhelekanga, kodwa cwangcisa ukwenza ixesha elininzi kunye. Mnike igumbi lokuba athethe okanye abe nothando. Ukujikeleza okukhethekileyo ngakumbi, yiba nento ebonakalayo ebonisa ukuvala umhlaba wonke uphume. Umzekelo, ukusebenzisa ibhokisi ukulahla iiselfowuni zakho ngelixa uchitha eli xesha kunye - akukho selfowuni zithetha ixesha elingakumbi kuni nobabini!
3. Ukwenza kunokuba ube nje
Kuza kubakho amaxesha okuba axakeke kwaye afumane ixesha lokubonisa uthando anokuziva enexinzelelo. Endaweni yokuba ulinde de afumaneke, thatha eminye yemisebenzi yakhe ukumbonisa ukuba ulixabise kangakanani ixesha lakho yenza zichitha kunye. Wenze lula umthwalo wakhe ngokukhupha inkunkuma ukuba uye wafika emva kwexesha emsebenzini okanye ngokuqinisekisa ukuba isidlo sangokuhlwa sishushu kwaye sisesithebeni xa efika ekhaya. Sika ingca ukuba ufika ekhaya ngaphambi kwexesha ebelilindelwe; Uya kukhululeka ukuba angazikhathazi ngomnye umsebenzi xa efikile ekhaya ngokuhlwa. Uyazi ukuba ixesha lakho lixabiseke njengalo, kwaye uyakuxabisa ukusebenza kwakho nzima kwaye abe nexesha elininzi lothando.
4. Ummangaliso!
Akukho nto ithi 'ndiyakuthanda' njengesipho esinexesha elifanelekileyo. Nokuba sisipha seentyatyambo okanye umqondiso omncinci omkhumbuza wena, indoda yakho inokuba ilunge kakhulu ekufumaneni isipho esifanelekileyo nangeyona mihla ingacwangciswanga. Ukuphana izipho ayisiyonto nje yendoda! Ukumnika isipho esikhethekileyo nesikhethekileyo kunokubonisa ukuba uxabiseke kangakanani kuwe. Ukuze ube nobuchule obuninzi, unokuseta umkhangeli wokukhangela umkhondo ngemikhondo. Umvuzo unokuba yinto elula njengebhetshi esandula ukubhaka ikuki yakhe ayithandayo okanye ukumothusa ngeqela elitsha legalufa owaziyo ukuba uneliso. Izipho akufuneki zibize ukuze zibe nentsingiselo- nangona kungonzakalisi ukuchitha ngaphezulu kuye rhoqo ngexeshana!
5. Thetha ubomi
Ngaphezulu kwayo yonke enye into, ukuthetha amagama obomi kwindoda yakho luphawu olungenakuthelekiswa nanto lothando nomsa. Nguwe kuphela onokuvuselela iimvakalelo zakhe kwaye ucaphukise iingcinga zakhe ngeendlela ozenzayo. Sebenzisa amagama okhuthazo kunye nokuphindaphindeka kwamagama kunokuba nefuthe elihlala lihleli emtshatweni wakho. Ke uyenza njani le nto ngobuchule? Ukuthetha kulula ngokwaneleyo, kodwa yenza ubuchule! Fihla ileta yothando kwibhegi yakhe okanye ubhale umyalezo kwisipili emva kweshawari yakho. Xa ebona amagama owabhalileyo, intliziyo yakhe iya koyika isazi ukuba ucinga ntoni ngaye kwaye umthande.
Njengengcebiso, nikela ingqalelo kwindlela akubonisa ngayo uthando. Ukuba uphendula ngokumbonisa uthando ngeendlela ezifanayo, unokubona utshintsho olukhulu kubushushu bomtshato wakho. Yintoni enokubonakala ngathi ikudikidiki ngoku iyakududuza ukuba umntu wakho uziva ethandwa kwaye exatyiswa ngeendlela ezizodwa nezikhethekileyo!