Umxholo
- 1. Lahla ecaleni kwekratshi uze wenze ukuthobeka
- 2. Sebenzela ukufumana ukuxolelwa nokuxolela iqabane lakho
- 3. Khonzanani ngothando
Umtshato ngamnye uya kudibana nobunzima ngalo lonke ixesha lawo. Lukholo lwesibini kuKristu olwenza ukuba bahlale bezinikele omnye komnye emtshatweni ophumelelayo. Ngelishwa, ubungqina obubonakalayo buveza ukuba amazinga oqhawulo-mtshato angamaKristu alingana okanye aphezulu kunabantu abangafumani nkolo ithile.
Umtshato ngumnqophiso ongcwele phakathi kwabantu ababini noThixo, impumelelo emtshatweni ihlala ixhomekeke kulwalamano lomntu ngamnye noKristu. Rhoqo ubudlelwane bethu noThixo bufanekiswa njengomtshato, ibandla libhekiswa kulo njengomtshakazi kaKristu.
Olunye lweempawu ezibalulekileyo zomtshato ophumeleleyo kukwakha iqhina elomeleleyo. Ukuze uhlakulele ubudlelwane obungenakuqhawulwa kunye neqabane lakho kufuneka uqale wenze njalo noKristu. Ubudlelane balowo mntu noKristu kunye nelizwi likaThixo buya kukhokela buyalele izibini ngendlela yokuphatha ungquzulwano kunye nezinye iimeko ezinzima eziza kuvela ngokungathandabuzekiyo. Izitshixo kubudlelwane obunempumelelo kukujonga imiba ngelensi yebhayibhile, kwaye ulungise iingxaki ngendlela engaphambuki kwinkolo yakho.
Umlingane wakho ngumntu ongafezekanga onokuthi enze izinto ngokungazi ngenjongo eza kukucaphukisa kwaye akuphoxe. Usenokubuza ukuba kutheni ukuzibophelela kwakho kuKristu kuyinto ephambili yomtshato ophumelelayo. Kungenxa yokuba ukuzibophelela kwakho kuKristu kunceda ukuba uhambelane nesimilo saKhe. Ukuhambelana nobuntu bakhe kukunceda ukuba ubonise inceba kunye nothando kwiqabane lakho.
Ukongeza, iyanceda ukuba uxolele ngakumbi, ulunge kwaye ulumke. Abantu abazinikele kuKrestu basebenza ngokuzimisela ukubonakalisa iimpawu zoMoya oyiNgcwele.
KumaGalati 5: 22-23 ithi “22 ke sona isiqhamo soMoya luthando, uvuyo, uxolo, ukuzeka kade umsindo, ububele, ukulunga, intembeko, ubulali, ukuzeyisa; Akukho mthetho uchasene nezinto ezinjalo. ”
Kubalulekile ukubonisa ezi mpawu mihla le. Ngokukodwa kufuneka ziboniswe xa usiva ukuba ubudlelwane bakho buba nzima ngakumbi. Ngamaxesha amaninzi xa uphikisana neqabane esele lidibene inyusa imeko kuphela.
Ngokwebhayibhile, ububele buye babonakaliswa ukuze bungasebenzi umsindo, iMizekeliso 15: 1 ithi Impendulo ethambileyo ibuyisa ubushushu; Ilizwi elidubulayo linyusa umsindo.
Umtshato lithuba lokwakha isimilo. Ukwakha isimilo kubalulekile kuThixo kwaye kuyakubaluleka nakwiqabane lakho. Ukuhlaziya ingqondo yakho yonke imihla ngegama lakhe kuya kuqinisekisa ukuba umlinganiswa wakho uya kuqhubeka nokwakha. Iya kuba lelinye inyathelo eliya emtshatweni ophumelelayo
Ukuzibophelela kuKristu kunye nokuzibophelela kwiqabane lakho kufuna ukwenza imisebenzi efanayo mihla le.
Kukho imigaqo-siseko yomtshato emithathu yomtshato ophumeleleyo ekufuneka abantu abatshatileyo bayilandele kulwalamano lwabo ukuze ukukhula kwenzeke kubudlelwane babo noThixo kunye.
1. Lahla ecaleni kwekratshi uze wenze ukuthobeka
Ikratshi litshabalalisa ilaphu lomtshato ngokukrazula ubuhlobo. Ngapha koko, ikratshi lisithe ingqondo ngokusinika umbono okhohlisayo ngeziqu zethu. Ukuba nembono ekhohlisayo ngathi kunokutshintsha indlela esiwaphatha ngayo amaqabane ethu okanye izigqibo esizenzayo.
Imitshato esempilweni isebenza kwimeko yokuthobeka. Ukuvuma xa wenze into engalunganga akuvumeli ukuba uthobeke kuphela, ikwavumela ukuba ubesengozini neqabane lakho. Ukuba sesichengeni kunokonyusa ukusondelelana ngokweemvakalelo emtshatweni okuqinisa ngakumbi. Ukuba sesichengeni nokuthobeka kubalulekile ukuze umtshato uphumelele.
2. Sebenzela ukufumana ukuxolelwa nokuxolela iqabane lakho
Nangona kunokuba nzima kubalulekile ukulixolela iqabane lakho, kwabase-Efese 4:32 ithi "Yibani nobubele omnye komnye, nibe nemfesane, nixolelane, njengokuba naye uThixo wanixolelayo ekuKristu".
Uxolelo olufanayo uThixo asibonisile kufuneka silibonise kumaqabane ethu ukuze umtshato uphumelele. Ngokuyekelela iintlungu ezidlulileyo kubudlelwane ziyakwazi ukusebenza kwinqanaba elifanelekileyo. Ukubambelela kwiintlungu ezidlulileyo kunokubangela ukuba sigcine inzondo ezinokuzibonakalisa kukuziphatha gwenxa. Ezi ndlela zokuziphatha zinokuba nefuthe elibi emtshatweni wethu.
3. Khonzanani ngothando
Umtshato ngowona ungcono xa abantu benesimo sokusebenza, ukunceda iqabane lakho lomeleza umtshato ngokuvumela iqabane lakho ukuba liziva lithandwa kwaye lixatyisiwe. Njengokuba isibini esitshatileyo sikhula kubudlelwane baso noThixo kokukhona bafumanisa ukuba ukholo lwabo lungumxokelelwane womanyano ofunekayo ekuphuhliseni umtshato ongagungqiyo ophumelelayo.