Umxholo
- Yintoni ekufuneka uyazi malunga nobuqhetseba bothando
- Iindidi eziqhelekileyo zobuqhetseba obusebenzayo
- Itekhnoloji entsha, ubuqhetseba obutsha bothando
- Iimpawu zesilumkiso zothando
Ufuna uthando? Uninzi lwethu luye kwi-intanethi ukuthandana ukuze ufumane 'enye,' kodwa izinto azihlali zihamba ngokucwangcisa.
Unokucinga ukuba akukho nto inobungozi phaya ngaphandle kweekati ezilambileyo ezimbalwa, kodwa inyani inesono ngakumbi.
Abakhohlisi abathandanayo abakwi-Intanethi basebenzise ithuba ii-singletons ezisemngciphekweni wokubopha imali-kunye neyabo ubuqhetseba kwezothando buya buhambela phambili lonke ixesha.
Jonga kwakhona:
Yintoni ekufuneka uyazi malunga nobuqhetseba bothando
Ukuqhatha kothando kwi-Intanethi ziindaba ezinkulu, kwaye ziyanda.
E-US, inani labantu abaxela olu lwaphulo-mthetho phantse laphindaphindeka kathathu phakathi kuka-2015 no-2019, isimbuku seedola ezingama-201 zalahleka kubakhonyovu.
Oku kuthandana kwi-Intanethi kunye nokukhwabanisa kwabantu abathandanayo akuhlukanga eMelika kwaphela. Abakhohlisi bezothando basebenza kwihlabathi liphela, kwaye intanethi ibanike indawo yokudlala entsha ukuzingela amaxhoba.
Esona sisiseko se-MO sothando scammers silula:
- Bahlakulela ubudlelwane kwi-intanethi nomntu kodwa abaze bahlangane buqu.
- Ixesha elingaphezulu, baqinisekisa abo babizwa ngokuba ngamaqabane abo ukuba babathumele imali, babathengele izipho, okanye batyale imali kwishishini labo.
- Banokunikela ngezipho-kodwa ekugqibeleni, baya kuhlala bethatha ngaphezulu kakhulu kunokunika.
Iindidi eziqhelekileyo zobuqhetseba obusebenzayo
Uninzi lwabathandana abakhohlisayo badla abantu abadala okanye abantu abasesichengeni. Ngokwesiqhelo baya kuba nebali elichaza ukuba kutheni bengakwazi ukudibana.
Mhlawumbi basebenza phesheya, okanye banebali elintsonkothileyo le-sob elibandakanya i-ex eyingozi kunye nexesha elidlulileyo.
Nje, bazakuzibonakalisa njengomdlalo ogqibeleleyo: okrelekrele, onothando, osebenza nzima -Kwaye, ewe, ujongeka umhle kakhulu.
Okhohlisayo oqhelekileyo kwezothando ufumana imali nzulu "kubudlelwane" kwangoko kwaye ukhuthaza amaxhoba ukuba enze okufanayo.
Kulo mzekelo weklasikhi osebenzayo, umkhonyovu waqinisekisa ixhoba lakhe ukuba ufuna ukumtshata-ngaphandle kokudibana naye.
Nje ukuba ubudlelwane be-intanethi busekiwe, isikhohlisi siqala ukurhwebesha ixhoba laso.
Mhlawumbi baya kuhambo lwaphesheya, kwaye kukho into engahambi kakuhle. Mhlawumbi bayabaleka kwi-ex exhatshazayo. Mhlawumbi babe ngamaxhoba olwaphulo-mthetho ngokwabo, kwaye ngequbuliso bafuna imali yokuhlawula irente.
Nokuba siyintoni na isizathu, isicelo semali siyenziwa. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, ezi zicelo ziba rhoqo, zithandeke ngakumbi, kwaye zifuna iimali ezinkulu kunye ezinkulu.
Itekhnoloji entsha, ubuqhetseba obutsha bothando
Ixesha elide, abakhohlisi basebenza kwiindawo zonxibelelwano ezinje ngeFacebook.
Nangona kunjalo, amaqhinga abo ayedla ngokungaqhelekanga; Abantu abaphenduli kakuhle kwizicelo zabahlobo ezingahleliwe ezivela kubantu ongabaziyo kumazwe angaphandle.
Kule mihla, abakhohlisi kunokwenzeka ngakumbi ukuba bafumane kwiindawo zokuthandana simahla, apho abasebenzisi bafuna uthando ngenkuthalo- kwaye bazenze babe sesichengeni kwinkqubo.
Elinye iqhekeza eliqhelekileyo leengcebiso ukuba uziva uxhatshazwa ngumkhonyovu kukuba Yenza umfanekiso obuyela umva kuGoogle kwifoto yabo.
Oku kunokukhokelela ekufumaneni ukuba isithandwa sakho esikwi-Intanethi ayisiyiyo le nto athi uyiyo - okanye isenokungabi njalo.
Kule meko yakutshanje, umkhonyovu eneneni wayeneminxeba yevidiyo kunye nexhoba lakhe. Nkqu nabahlobo bakhe abarhaneli nto - kodwa enyanisweni, ibiyinto yonke ebubuxoki.
I-scammer isebenzisa itekhnoloji entsha ukwenza ubuso obungeyonyani, obuveliswe yikhompyuter, kwaye iqhubeke nokuncokola kubonakala ngathi kuyinto eqhelekileyo kunye nexhoba lakhe.
Abakhwabanisi banokusebenzisa itekhnoloji yakutshanje ukwenza amaxwebhu axhasayo abonakala eyinyani ngokupheleleyo. Umzekelo, eli xhego lakhokelwa ekubeni likholelwe ekubeni linikela ngemali kwiziko lolondolozo lwembali.
I-scammer yathumela kuye iingxelo zebhanki, amaxwebhu emyuziyam, kunye nokunye-konke oku kwakubonakala kuthembekile ngokupheleleyo.
Nangona kunjalo, lo ngomnye umzekelo apho abakhohlisi basebenzisa izakhono zabo zekhompyuter ukwenza ubungqina bobuxoki.
Iimpawu zesilumkiso zothando
Eyona ndlela ilula yokuphepha ukukhwabanisa kukuhlala kude neendawo zabo zokunyathela.
Ngokubanzi, scammers ukunamathela simahla ukuthandana iisayithi kunye apps okanye social network.
Ngokwe-WeLoveDates, abasebenza kwiindawo ezininzi zokuthandana ezihlawulelweyo, “Ukuba uzimisele ngokuphepha abakhohlisi, yenza iprofayile kwindawo ehlawulelweyo yokuthandana. Ezi nkonzo zinakho ukukhathalela abathengi bazo, kwaye zisebenzisa i-AI kunye netekhnoloji yakutshanje ukufumana abakhohlisi kunye nokuthumela ukupakisha. ”
Ngaphandle kwalonto, Nazi ezinye iimpawu eziphambili zokulumkisa ukuba ukuthandana kwakho kwi-Intanethi ngenene bubutsotsi:
1. Umntu oza kuba liqabane lakho akazukuhlangana nawe
Ewe, bambalwa kakhulu abantu abaza kulahla yonke into ukuze bakhawuleze baphume kumhla wamashumi amabini emizuzu emva kokubulisa (kwaye ukuba bayayenza, ikwayiflegi ebomvu ... ngezinye izizathu).
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uthando lwakho oluhlumayo luye lwaqhubeka ixesha elithile, kwaye iqabane lakho lihlala linesizathu, eso sisimpawu esilumkiso.
2. Iqabane lakho lenza izicwangciso zokudibana nawe, kodwa ziyawa
Amanqaku ebhonasi, awela kwesona sitayile sihle kakhulu: kwindlela eya kwisikhululo seenqwelomoya, uthando lwakho luyabethwa lori.
Ewe kunokwenzeka, kodwa ngaba kunokwenzeka? Ukuba olu hlobo lomdlalo lwenzeka ngaphezu kwesinye, ngokuqinisekileyo lixesha elidlulileyo lokuthi sayonara.
3. Imifanekiso yeqabane lakho ayibonakali iyindalo
Abakhohlisi baya besanda ngakumbi nangakumbi xa kufikwa kwifoto "ubungqina" bokuba bangobani, kodwa uninzi lwazo lusehla kule ngxaki.
Ukuba zonke iifoto zabo zikhangeleka ngathi zithathiwe eofisini, zinokubiwa kwiprofayili yomntu othile ye-LinkedIn.
Ukuba zonke zinomdla kakhulu, okanye zibonakaliswe ngokucacileyo, ke enye ingxaki.
4. Ibali leqabane lakho alidibanisi
Umzekelo, ubanga ukuba unesidanga saseyunivesithi, kodwa upelo kunye negrama zibonisa enye into.
Yenza into ebulalayo xa ufuna njalo: fumanisa ukuba wayefunda phi, yintoni eyona bar ayithandayo ukuba ulilungu layo nayiphi na iklabhu ...
5. Iqabane lakho lisuka "molo" liye "ndiyakuthanda" ngexeshana nje
Oku kunzima ukulinganisa, kuba unokuziva unamandla, nawe.
Khumbula, nangona: de udibane nomntu ngesiqu, akufuneki unike kakhulu.
Le ngcebiso ilungile ngokubanzi yokuthandana kwi-Intanethi, nokuba akukho buqhetseba obuchaphazelekayo. Hlala ulumkile kwaye ungaze utyale ngaphezulu kwinto engenakho nokuba yinyani.
6. Eyona nto iphambili ngobuqhetseba bothando
Ukuncamathela kwinkonzo yokuthandana ehlawulelweyo, endaweni yesoftware yasimahla, yindlela elungileyo yokuphepha uninzi lwabakhwabanisi. Nangona kunjalo, soloko ulumke, njengoko ezimbalwa kwezi zaphuli-mthetho zinokutyibilika emnatheni.
Khumbula umthetho wegolide wokuthandana kwi-Intanethi: ude uqiniseke ngokupheleleyo ngeenjongo zomntu, ungaze uyinike intliziyo yakho - okanye imali yakho - kude.