Umxholo
- Yintoni ebangela ukuba ii-narcissists zenze into eziyenzayo
- Njani ukuba ngu-narcissist abe ngubani
- Obunjani ubomi kunye nomfazi othanda ukufana
- Uyenza njani indlela yokuba ngumfazi wakho owayesakuba ngumfazi akushiye wedwa
Enye yezinto ezinokwenza ukuba ubomi bakho bube sisihogo esiphilayo kukuba nomntu owayengumfazi ongathandani naye. Ziindaba ezimbi ezo. Nangona kunjalo, zikho neendaba ezimnandi, kwaye ezo-ii-narcissists zinako kwaye zibashiye abantu bodwa.
Ingavakala njengengakholeleki kuwe ngoku njengokuba ubomi bakho buye buguqulwa buyeyona nto imbi kuye ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Nangona kunjalo, ikhona indlela yokwenza ukuba i-narcissist iyeke ukoneliseka abakufumanayo ngokukungcungcuthekisa kunye nokuba ngumzali kunye naye ngokufanelekileyo.
Nantsi into okanye ezimbini onokuziqonda malunga ne-narcissists kwaye uphathe ngobuchule umfazi owayesakuba ngumfazi.
Yintoni ebangela ukuba ii-narcissists zenze into eziyenzayo
AmaNarcissist ngabantu abanengxaki enkulu.
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba asikulungelanga ukucinga ngaloo ndlela. Kuxhomekeka kwinqanaba loqhakamshelwano esinalo narcissist, sizithatha njengezicaphukisayo kububi obucacileyo. Asicingi ngabo njengamaxhoba alo naluphi na uhlobo. Nangona kunjalo, nkqu nabo banetyhefu eyingozi kwabanye, ii-narcissists nazo ziyasokola.
I-Narcissism (ukuba ayisiyiyo eyokuchazwa komntu) kukungahambi kakuhle kubuntu. Oko kukuthi, i-narcissism yimeko yengqondo, nceda ukhumbule oku. Kananjalo ayinyangeki. Ukuba nantoni na, ii-narcissists ziya zisiba mandundu ngonyango kuba zifunda amaqhinga amatsha.
Kananjalo, ii-narcissists azikho simahla, bagwetywa ubomi ngengxaki, ubomi ngaphandle kwenkululeko yokunyaniseka nokwenyani.
Njani ukuba ngu-narcissist abe ngubani
AmaNarcissist mhlawumbi abekho enjalo kwasekuqaleni ebomini. Bahlala behamba nengozi engafaniyo. Nokuba bungakanani ubungakanani okanye uhlobo loxinzelelo, bafumana umyalezo wokuba bebengathandeki, bebengakulungelanga ngokwaneleyo, kwaye ngekhe kubenjalo. Njengomzamo wokulwa, bakhulisa ubuqu bobuxoki, into enkulu esiyaziyo sonke.
Kuba le yinto engeyonyani kwaye ayisiyiyo eyabo yokwenyani, bafuna ukungaguquguquki (okwenyani, rhoqo) kokuzanelisa, ukuncoma, ukuqaphela, ukugcina eli lungu lokuzenzela liphila. Luhlobo lwee-vampire ezinamandla ezifuna ukusabela kwiimvakalelo ukuze zisinde. Nokuba kulungile okanye kubi, lonke ingqalelo kubo lithetha ukuba zibalulekile njengoko kufuneka zibenjalo.
Obunjani ubomi kunye nomfazi othanda ukufana
Kukho izinto jikelele kunye nezinto ezichaziweyo ezenzekayo xa umntu ebandakanyeka kwi-narcissist.
Icandelo elithile yinto oyaziyo ngawe kuphela, yeyakho eyakho eyakhelwe ukuba ilingane kakuhle nobuthathaka bakho. Kungenxa yokuba ii-narcissists zikulungele ukufunda abantu kunye nokufumana iindawo zabo ezibuthathaka. Bayasifuna esi sakhono ukuze baphile. Kwaye ke kukwakho nezinto ezikhoyo malunga ne-narcissists.
Kungekudala emva kokuba ukhohlisiwe ngumfazi wakho owayesakuba ngumfazi okanye umfazi wangoku, ngokuthe ngcembe okanye ngokukhawuleza watshintshela kule vampire inamandla. Wayengumfazi ofezekileyo, kubonakala ngathi uyazalisekisa yonke into oyifunayo, imfesane kunye nomnqweno. Kuba yile nto bayenzayo. Bafunda kwinto eza kukwenza ube yeyabo. Zibonakala njengentsikelelo evela phezulu, zilunge kakhulu ukuba zingaba yinyani.
Nangona kunjalo, ngalo mzuzu ubuthekile, angadlulela kwinqanaba elilandelayo. Waqala ukukhupha. Wayeza kudlala ngobuqhetseba bakho kwaye anqwenele onke amandla akho kunye nengqwalaselo.
AmaNarcissist yimingxunya emnyama xa kufikwa kumandla abanye kunye nemizamo ekholisayo.
Ude ukhululwe kwi-clutch yakhe, ayizukuhamba loo nto.
Uyenza njani indlela yokuba ngumfazi wakho owayesakuba ngumfazi akushiye wedwa
Njengoko besithembisile, kukho iindaba ezimnandi. Oko kukuthi, unokushiywa wedwa ngumfazi wakho owayesakuba ngumfazi.
Akunakubonakala ngathi kunokwenzeka ngoku, unikwe amandla okukuchaphazela, kunye nendlela angayekeleli ngayo ekwenzeni ubomi bakho bube sisihogo esiphilayo.
Kodwa, kukho isisombululo esilula, nangona kungekho lula. Kukutshintsho lwakho lwangaphakathi. Unamandla onke. Awunakumtshintsha, kodwa unokuzitshintsha.
Into enomdla malunga nabafazi ababesakuba ngabafazi babo kukuba baya kuhamba okwesibini abafumani ukwaneliseka ekubeni babe nengqwalaselo namandla akho. Ngoku, musa ukukhohliswa, oku kuya ngaphaya kokungaphenduli kwimibhalo yakhe okanye efanayo.
Ayikho lula njalo. Kodwa, isitshixo kukuphilisa kwakho kunye nendaleko yokwenyani yengqondo yakho.
Ngamanye amagama, nokuba uyekile ukunxibelelana nomntu owayesakuba ngumfazi wakho, unokuziva ukuba usachaphazeleka nguye. Kwanele ukuba angayiyeki ihambe. Kodwa, ubudlelwane kunye narcissist bunamandla okukhanyisa ukukhanya kwiingxabano zakho zangaphakathi kunye nentlungu engasonjululwanga, ekufuneka uyijongile.
Uqhutywe nguye ngeemfuno zakho ezixhomekeke kubalingani, kunye nobuthathaka bakho. Ngoku, isitshixo sokumenza ahambe kukusombulula ukungavisisani kwakho kwangaphakathi, okuya kuthatha amandla anawo kuwe ukubuyela kuwe. Umzuzu ofika ngawo ngawo kanye mzuzu uya kuthi shwaka ebomini bakho.