Umxholo
- Imigaqo esixhenxe yokwenza ukuba uMtshato usebenze: Isikhokelo esiSebenzayo esivela kwiNgcali yoBudlelwane baPhambili kweli lizwe
- NguJohn Gottman kunye noNan Silver
- Iilwimi ezi-5 zoLuthando: Imfihlelo yoThando oluNgapheliyo
- NguGary G. Chapman
- Uthando & Nentlonipho: Uthando aluthanda kakhulu; Intlonipho Ayifunayo
- nguEmerson Eggerichs
- Imida emtshatweni
- Ngu-Henry Cloud noJohn Townsend
- Iimfuno Zakhe, Iimfuno Zakhe: Ukwakha Umtshato-Ubungqina Bomtshato
- by UWillard F. Harley Omnci.
- Ndibambe Ndijonge: Incoko ezisixhenxe zoBomi boLuthando
- NguSusan Johnson
Lixesha-ukulungele ukuthatha incwadi okanye ezimbini ngomtshato. Kudala ucinga ngayo okwethutyana kwaye ukulungele ukuthenga. Ngoku uthini? Ukuba ukhangela nayiphi na ivenkile yendawo, yenza uphando ngokukhawuleza kwicandelo leencwadi leAmazon, okanye uswayipha ujikeleze indawo ye-ebook yethebhulethi yakho, uya kufumana iincwadi ezininzi ngomtshato. Zininzi kakhulu, kunokuba nzima. Uyikhetha njani eyona ilungileyo kuwe nasemtshatweni wakho?
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhetha incwadi enomzimba wakho womelele engqondweni. Ngokuqinisekileyo unokukhetha incwadi okanye ezimbini ezijongana nemicimbi ethile, kodwa ngaba ayinakuphulukana nomfanekiso omkhulu?
Emtshatweni, kukho iinkcukacha, kwaye kukho umtshato uphela. Kuza kuhlala kukho iinkcukacha eziphezulu okanye ezantsi. Yintoni ebalulekileyo kukujonga kwindlela oqhuba ngayo umtshato wakho ngokubanzi. Yimfanelo yomtshato wakho leyo. Ke ngoku ufuna ukufumana eyona ncwadi yomtshato olungileyo wena neqabane lakho. Incwadi ejongene nomxholo wokuba kutheni umtshato usebenza okanye ungasebenzi kwaye ungawulungisa njani. Kuba xa ungayenza loo nto, iinkcukacha ziya kuzilungisa.
Jonga uluhlu lwethu lweencwadi ezilungileyo zomtshato ezitshatileyo:
Imigaqo esixhenxe yokwenza ukuba uMtshato usebenze: Isikhokelo esiSebenzayo esivela kwiNgcali yoBudlelwane baPhambili kweli lizwe
NguJohn Gottman kunye noNan Silver
Abantu bafunda zonke iintlobo zezinto, kodwa uJohn Gottman ufunda into enye ephambili-imitshato. Ukuba ufuna ukufezekisa inqanaba elikhulu lokuqina komzimba, unokukuxelela ukuba ungayenza njani. Ungumlawuli weZiko loMtshato kunye neNtsapho kwaye ufunde imitshato kule minyaka mininzi. Incwadi sisikhokelo esisebenzayo esinemibuzo kunye nemigaqo yokunceda izibini zibe nobudlelwane obungcono ngokubanzi.
Iilwimi ezi-5 zoLuthando: Imfihlelo yoThando oluNgapheliyo
NguGary G. Chapman
Amadoda nabasetyhini bahlukile-wonke umntu uyayibona loo nto. Kodwa ubusazi ukuba ngamnye kuthi uneendlela zakhe azithandayo zokufumana uthando? Kungenxa yoko le nto le ncwadi yenye yeencwadi ezilungileyo zomtshato kwizibini ezitshatileyo. Ingena entliziyweni yento emalunga nomtshato-uthando. Zonwabise kwaye ufunde konke malunga nolwimi lwakho lothando kunye nolwimi lomlingane wakho. Akuqhelekanga ukutshata umntu onolwimi lwakhe lothando akuyona into enye iqabane elingaqhelekanga ekunikeni. Kuthatha umsebenzi othile ukwenza utshintsho, kodwa umgudu kufanelekile.
Uthando & Nentlonipho: Uthando aluthanda kakhulu; Intlonipho Ayifunayo
nguEmerson Eggerichs
Mhlawumbi uvile ukuba uthando endodeni luthetha intlonipho, kwaye olo thando kumfazi, kulungile, luthando. Kule ncwadi yomtshato, funda malunga noku umbhali akufundileyo kwiminyaka emininzi yokucebisa izibini ezifuna nje ukuziva zithandwa ngendlela ebenza bazive bephelele. Awungekhe uhambe gwenxa ngothando oluthile kunye nentlonipho emtshatweni.
Imida emtshatweni
Ngu-Henry Cloud noJohn Townsend
Ngaba wakhe wacinga ukuba ukomelela komtshato wakho kunokuxhomekeka kwimida? Kungenxa yokuba xa imigca iwelisiwe, umtshato uphela uyenzakala. Abantu bafuna intuthuzelo yemida, kwaye intlonipho esisiseko emtshatweni ibonakaliswa ngokuhlala kuloo mida. Ibonisa ukuba siyakhathala ngomnye umntu kwaye siyazihoya iimfuno zakhe. Incwadi ikwagubungela indlela imida enokunceda ngayo umtshato uhlale ukhuselekile kwizinto ezingaphandle ezingafanelekanga ukungena.
Iimfuno Zakhe, Iimfuno Zakhe: Ukwakha Umtshato-Ubungqina Bomtshato
by UWillard F. Harley Omnci.
Xa ufika kwiziseko zomzimba zomtshato, yintoni efunwa ngumntu ngamnye? Yile nto uxelelwa ngumbhali wale ncwadi kwizibini ezitshatileyo. Ngelixa sonke sidinga izinto ezifanayo ezisisiseko, kule ncwadi yomtshato, abafundi bafumanisa ukuba amadoda nabafazi bazibeka ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Umzekelo, iimfuno zakhe zesondo ziphezulu kuluhlu lwakhe, ngelixa uthando luphezulu kuluhlu lwakhe. Kuyamangalisa indlela ahluke ngayo amadoda nabafazi, kodwa njengoko amadoda nabafazi behlangana kunye besebenzela ukuziphucula kunye nokuqonda ukuba bafuna ntoni, imitshato yabo inokuba yinto enkulu ngokwenene.
Ndibambe Ndijonge: Incoko ezisixhenxe zoBomi boLuthando
NguSusan Johnson
Le yeyona ncwadi yomtshato olungileyo kwizibini ezitshatileyo. Ijolise kunyango olujolise kwiimvakalelo, esele incede imitshato emininzi. Umbono osisiseko kukwenza into ebaluleke kakhulu "yokuncamathisela ukudibanisa" kunye nokuba neencoko ezininzi zokuphilisa ezinokukhokelela apho.