Umxholo
- 1. Cwangcisa ixesha ngokubaluleka
- 2. Iingxoxo azinaye “ophumeleleyo” okanye “ongoyiswanga”
- 3. Yiba kwiphepha elifanayo malunga nokukhulisa abantwana
- 4. Fumana izizathu ezininzi zokuhleka
- 5. Funda ukumamela iqabane lakho
- 6. Lixabise iqabane lakho
Amagama aphelelwe lixesha obulumko abazali abanokunika abantwana babo
Iingcebiso zomtshato ezingapheliyo
Ingcebiso ngobuhlobo obuvela kubazali
Ngelixa amaxesha etshintsha kunye nezizukulwana zikhulisa ezazo iindlela, ezinye izinto zihlala zihleli. Thatha umzekelo ngezithako ezifunekayo ukuze wonwabe emtshatweni. Ezi ngcebiso zomtshato zingaphelelwa lixesha kwaye akunakulindeleka ukuba zitshintshe naliphi na ixesha kungekudala.
Ngethuba nje abantu betshata omnye komnye, kukho izinto ezithile abanokuzenza ukuphucula amathuba abo okuba nomtshato ophumelelayo.
Abantwana be-digital savvy banokucinga ukuba le yingcebiso yakudala, kodwa kufuneka bazi ezinye zezinto njengoko belungiselela ukushiya indlwane kwaye bazenzele eyabo imitshato eyonwabileyo.
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zobudlelwane ezingapheliyo ezivela kubazali eziza kunceda isizukulwana esitsha ekuphatheni umtshato wabo njengepro.
1. Cwangcisa ixesha ngokubaluleka
Leliphi elona cebiso lililo lomtshato elinokuphelelwa lixesha ebantwaneni kunokubeka phambili ixesha kunye? Beka ixesha ecaleni veki nganye ukuba wedwa kunye neqabane lakho. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ibe yinto ethandekayo- umhla wesidlo sangokuhlwa, ukuhambahamba okanye ukubamba imovie.
Nantoni na oceba ukuyenza, qiniseka ukuba uchitha ixesha emtshatweni wakho ukuba ufuna uphumelele.
2. Iingxoxo azinaye “ophumeleleyo” okanye “ongoyiswanga”
Ngamanye amaxesha iimpikiswano azinakuthintelwa.
Nangona kunjalo, kuya kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba ningamaqabane ke ngoko niyaphumelela okanye nilahlekelwe kunye. Kuhlala kungcono ukuba ufunde indlela yokuphepha ukunyuka kweengxoxo ngelixa usebenza kunye ukufumana isisombululo.
Le yenye yezona ngcebiso zomtshato zingapheliyo onokuzifumana kubazali bakho.
3. Yiba kwiphepha elifanayo malunga nokukhulisa abantwana
Abantwana, ngakumbi ulutsha, bayathanda ukutyhala imida kwaye babone ukuba banakho na ukuphatha ukuze babe nendlela yabo.
Icebo lokusoloko uphuma phezulu kukuba kwiphepha elinye neqabane lakho kunye nokufumana iindlela zokuphucula unxibelelwano nabantwana bakho. Thatha isigqibo kunye ngemithetho abantwana ekufuneka bayilandele kunye neziphumo zokungabambeleli kule mithetho.
4. Fumana izizathu ezininzi zokuhleka
Enye ingcebiso yomtshato engapheliyo kukufumana izizathu ezininzi zokuhleka ngokuvakalayo kunye neqabane lakho.
Ukuhleka kuyinxalenye yobomi kwaye nentwana yayo iya kude.
Ukuba ujongene nemeko yoxinzelelo okanye uziva nje ukuba ungafani, fumana into oza kuhleka ngayo. Ukwabelana ngamaxesha okonwaba kunye neqabane lakho kunokuzisa ukukhanya kunye nokonwaba emtshatweni wakho, ukunciphisa uxinzelelo kunye nokukunceda uphinde unxibelelane.
5. Funda ukumamela iqabane lakho
Ngelixa uninzi lwethu lufuna ukuviwa kunye nokuqondwa, asingabo abaphulaphuli abalungileyo ngokwethu. Sivumela iingqondo zethu zibhadule kwaye silinde ithuba lethu lokuthetha, ngamanye amaxesha kude kube ngumonde ukubanqumamisa abatshatileyo phakathi kwintetho.
Funda ukumamela kwaye ubekhona ngokupheleleyo xa iqabane lakho lithetha. Oku kuthetha ukubeka phantsi ifowuni yakho, ugxile engqondweni, ubuze imibuzo kwaye ujonge nolwimi lwabo lomzimba. Ukumamela iqabane lakho kuqinisekisa iimvakalelo zabo kwaye kubenza bazive bexabisekile.
Ewe! Eli lelinye lawamagama angapheliyo abanokuwanika abazali abantwana babo.
6. Lixabise iqabane lakho
Sukuthatha iqabane lakho kunye nento abayenzayo bayenze ngokungakhathali.
Fumana iindlela ezincinci zokubonisa indlela obaxabisa ngayo. Kwakhona bonisa umbulelo ngomlomo ngokuthi enkosi kwaye ubazise ukuba bathetha ntoni kuwe kwaye unombulelo ongazenzisiyo ngenxa yabo bangabantu nangezinto abazenzayo.
Oku kuyangqina ukuba baxabisiwe kwaye bayathandwa, kubakhuthaza ukuba baqhubeke nokutyala imali kulwalamano.
Abantwana bethu 'bakhule ngexesha apho unxibelelwano lwabantu lwenziwa ngezikrini. Nangona kunjalo, ukuze babe nemitshato emikhulu, kufuneka bafunde ukubeka phambili iimfuno zabanye ngaphambi kwezabo kwaye bathathe neengcebiso zomtshato ezingaphelelwa lixesha ezisebenzela izibini ezininzi kwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana.